Friday, August 20, 2010

How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?

not pitty little relationships like the ones back in elementary...im 16 %26amp; dont have a boyfriend yet...im getting a little worried cuz half of my school is dating it seems im the only one left out :(...i flirt with guys but i can never seem to get past flirting..any advice?How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
I was like 18 and I'm not ugly or a loser, so I don't think you have anything to worry about. You don't ';need'; a bf. You seem to only want one because ';half of your school is dating';. Does that really matter though? Why don't you get a hobby instead? It will occupy your time and make you more interesting to guys at the same time.. It will just happen, you can't force it or ';look for'; someone.How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
Real talk,I was about 21 when i had my first real boyfriend all though before then I didn't know any better and I thought some of the guys I was seeing were my boyfriends but they were not and everyone knew it but me,so to make a long story short sweetie be careful and use your head if you went through half the things I went through by the time I was 16 you would not be even worried about boys,concentrate on you and Mr.Right will come along....Good Luck!
My real boyfriend when I was 25 years old. Actually, i wasnt even thinking about boys, and he was the one who came to me. I had friends, but was very careful and used my mind most of the time not to let them fool me because i had seen some friends' situations.


There are some men who wants more than one girlfriend. They can fool you to a 100% that you will discover he has another woman or your the other woman at a very late time.
Well i don't think you should worry. It just happens. My first boyfriend was at age15. A year older then you, but broke up after 3 months and did not date till I was 18. In my opinion is better not to have a boyfriend because they give you too many problems and you have to waste alot of your time. You are young. You shouldn't worry. I have a cousin who is 20 and never had a boyfriend and she is happy. Not that she does not want one or because shes ugly because shes not. She is very pretty. Don't hurry love. Eventually it will come to you.
I was 15. We're still going strong since 2006, but like I say don't rush it. I know it most likely will get lonely with all the pairs running about, but its really not much of a rush. High school relationships, if anything, are loaded with drama. But if you really wanna be on the market, find someone who likes you. I'm sure someone likes you, you just don't know it yet.
16 , dont worry about it when you go to college theres alot more boys to choose from lol, dont feel like you should be dating coz everyone else is find someone you like, i always was friends with them for a while first


hope this helps :)
16, lasted 2 months


I'm almost 17 now..with another guy..going 4 months:)


dont worry your prince charming will come soon:D
me till the age of 19 cuz i wanted to concetrate on my study first and just didnt want any relationship that isnt serious


for me to fall in love = be with him and stay forever
You're weird. I was 13 with my first boyfriend. Put out a little more...Maybe a man will take you...
12 years old
I'm 33 and I've never had a boyfriend, because I'm not a fag.
real boyfriend i guess 15
pathetic as, 16 for me
well my real first BF was when i was 15.. i was in 10th grade


u shouldn't worry, u'll get a BF at the right time.. no need to rush, live ur life :)
my first real boyfriend was when I was 14 we lasted 2 yrs
15...


don't worry you have you're whole life ahead of you =]
I'm guessing you're rather pretty, attractive, intelligent and distinguished. All the women in my family only had boyfriends later because boys are too immature and are scared to ask girls like us out. Now I'm 47 and old(personally I don't feel old but for a 16 year old girl it sounds old) and I had my first boyfriend at 18(university). Boys are scared of rejection, they usually go with the cute ones or the easy ones, at least in their reach if you know what I mean. They expect you to say no if they ask you out. Men went through that phase already and have more confidence. My grandmother was born in 1886 and had her first boyfriend in her 20's and got married at 28(had 8 children plus a few she miscarried). She was an extremely beautiful woman, my mother was born in 1922, was also very beautiful and had one boyfriend in her 20's, then she met my father shortly after at 23 and got married at 25(had 3 children and miscarried a few). I met my husband when I was 29 and got married at 32(have 3 children), my daughter is 14 1/2 and seems to have the same problem though she's still young. However, I've seen boys looking at her but they didn't think they had a chance. For a boy it's too much, you'll find someone when you meet a real man. Advice? Either you change your way of looking somehow superior(that's what my grandmother was told, as well as my mother, myself and even some of my daughter's friend said that to her) or be yourself and wait to meet a man later(boys seem to get confidence in the transition from school to university) or you can meet someone a bit older. I'm not trying to insult anybody here but it's a maturity thing, we look too mature for them, it's uncomfortable for boys.

Wha does it mean to dream about loving someone other then your boyfriend or girlfriend?

Me and my boyfriend are not feeling as close as we used to. Thing's have been awkward ever since we got back together. We dated for a year and two months, broke up for four months, then got back together about a month ago. Now I'm having dreams of cheating on him with one of my best guy friends, and in the dream it doesn't bother me that I'm cheating because I'm with someone who makes me happier. I love my boyfriend, but I don't know what this dream might mean about how I truly feel subconsciously, since things are so weird between me and him. Also, the guy friend who I was with in my dream was someone who I flirted with in the four months me and my boyfriend were apart.Wha does it mean to dream about loving someone other then your boyfriend or girlfriend?
Your dream is probably reflecting the fact that you really don't want to be with your boyfriend. Why did you get back with your boyfriend in the first place? Of course, this relationship is going to be strained until you see signs from your boyfriend that you two will get better, but as of right now your dream sounds like your intuition telling you that you would be better off with your guy friend. It sounds like things between you and your current boyfriend already haven't worked out in the past, so you feel nothing will change.

If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?

works third shift with this girl who, when they are together,,,,(i have been to the bar with him and she has showed up and sat by us,) flirt to the point I have had our friends come up to me and ask what is up with the two of them.If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
If you have to ask then he's not worth your time. But if YOU think that he is, then ask. Ask, ask, and ask, he wants to tell you but is afraid and eventually will. He's been feeling guilty about it or else he wouldn't be with you anymore.If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
Go to the bar when he is at work but wear a disguise, or, send a private investigator to go in your place and capture it on tape.
I found out mine was cheating by faithful computer.. Key stroke thing my friend sent me lol.. he was cheating that way and saying it was just a friend.. and nothing happened.. and he never even told her about me and told her how much he wants to go up there and ****. I'm sick of talking about it makes me ferious. 4 years ago todate lol. Still w/ him because im a loser.


Ask a really hot best friend to go up to him a flirt with him and ask him things about him having a gf lik if he has on and such or if you have an internet get someone to flirt that way and see if he says he doesn't and if he says he doesnt and then kick his sorry *** out if you can.
Leave him/her. No need to investigate, just walk away.
follow them
by keeping an eye on him like every time calling and asking where he is and with whom.....it could be annoying to do but just do it when u have full doubt on him
ask them if they want a threesome if they look happy say yes or fumble on words then yes they are doing it
what is the need to try to find out. if you really love him and he loves you truly. then trust on him....

How to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?

My boyfriend is great, and he would never do anything to hurt me. However, there is this girl who he used to be friends with in college who just recently (after me and my bf have been dating for a year) has taken an interest in my bf. I have no problem with my bf having girls as friends, I trust him and it has never been an issue, but this girl wants to be more than friends. She will flirt with him, text him, send him fbook messages that are flirty with hearts and everything. I have witnessed my bf telling her to stop and that he is committed to me and that he does not want more than a friendship, but she keeps telling him that he needs to break up with me because SHE ';made a mistake and should have dated him in college';....this girl needs to back off!!! How do I get her to stop without looking like I am controlling.... etc? i really would not mind if they were JUST friends but she has made it clear she wants more than that and I'm NOT ok with it.... helpHow to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
If it doesn't bother him and he really loves/like you then I don't see the problem really if she likes him. But if he's annoyed by it and or you don''t want it to continue(but really ask your self if it really anything to be freaking out about. I do agree it's tacky and disrespectful but so.. He still loves and or likes you does really matter?think about)





If you still want to do away with her


In these step I would follow


1.Ask my partner to cease all contact with her


2.Block her number(hopeful she doesn't know your address or his)


If you bf doesn't care it probably doesn't affect him, so I wouldn't worry.How to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
theres a difference in being controlling and concerned .


you need to tell her that she is wasting her time and needs to get a move on with her life cause she is just wasting her time trying to get with him . he OBVIOUSLY does not want her , and wants you so she needs to just stop trying .
I'm a jealous person and if my bf was talking to a girl that liked him, I would be very pissed. He should stop talking to her because there is no reason for them to be friends, since she wants to be more then friends.
Tell this girl to back off. I have had a similiar situation. Girls cannot be trusted. If you really love this guy and put a lot of time into this relationship, don't let this trick get in the way.
act confident, because if you tell her to stop, she'll know you don't trust him
Just tell your bf you aren't comfortable with it. So if he doesn't get her to stop then tell him you'd feel a lot better if he blocks her number and deletes her of FB.
Punch her in the face and tell her to back OFF!

What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?

me and my boyfriend have only been going out for two months, but up until now we've been pretty serious. i know he likes me a lot more than i like him. and i'm just getting bored, mostly. i'm tired of always being around him and talking to him. we're only in high school, and i really want to be single and just kind of flirt again, because it's been a while. when i break up with him it's going to crush him, and i know because we've talked about it. he's expecting it to happen in like 6 more months at least. how can i let him down as easily as possible?What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
MORTAL KOMBAT MODE





FIRST U SLICE OFF HIS ARMS AND LEGS: TELL HIM WHAT WE ALL HERE:WE NEED TO TALK





SECOND CHOP OF HIS HEAD BARAK STYLE: TELL HIM WEVE BEEN TOGETHER A WHIE AND U BLAH BLAH BLAH AND THT ITS TIME WE SEE OTHER PPL





LASTLY FINISH HIM/HER!!!!!!: FINISH HIM OFF WITH A: ITZ NOT U ITZ ME THEN BLOW A KIZZ











K.O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
Hi Darth Maul,





Breaking up is never easy. This might be a situation where sending him a considerate and well thought out email might work better than telling him in person. I would not text him and definitely would not post it to his Facebook page. Tell him that you see him as a friend, tell him how much you enjoyed getting to know him, and want to keep him as a friend. However you want to be single again and you hope that he can appreciate it since both of you were expecting that this relationship would not last more than six months.
We only feel crushed during break ups because everyone feels they won't find someone else. Try going back out on group dates. Bring some single friends who may be interested in your boyfriend. If one is... then sit down with your boyfriend and just tell him you want to be single and point him in the direction of your friend whos interested.
You are still young and have your own freedom to experience whatever you want to do. Just be prepared for the consequences. I hope when you how up that you look back and reflect on your past.





Sometimes when you let someone go, you have regrets about it because, let's face it, no one wants to die a lonely poor soul.





Good luck
the best way to break up with your boyfriend is be honest on why you don't want to be with him anymore. Or if you think that your reason will hurt his feelings, then be as gentle as you can and find a different explanation that is reasonable.
There really is nothing you can say to soften the blow but dont say your boring and you want to flirt with other guys. Also just be there for him tell him you still wanna be friends and apologize also try to make him feel good. Can you help with mine please?





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bake him a cake with a broken heart and his name in the middle and a card saying i'm sorry. He will be depressed and eat the whole cake I promise, if he say cheated or something like that then I would suggest to poison it as a trap
There really isn't an easy way, but you should do it soon instead of leading him on.


That will only hurt him more. Let him know how you really feel and that you two can still be friends (unless you don't want to be) and let him move on.
Sorry, but you're gonna end up braking his hear, but he had to understand that you don't want to be in a relationship for now. and you both could still be friend if you want and be cool with each other.
tell him your not happy anymore. its nothing he did, but your just not happy. you need some alone time. tell him to give you like two months. he will grow less fond of you with the space i promise
Have the ovaries to be honest with him! Sounds like you have had him on stand-by til someone more interesting comes along. Do yourself a favor and him. Make a HONEST, CLEAN, RESPECTFUL break now!
Tell him u dnt thk it's wrking out, dats probably da easiest way, but watev u do, DNT tell him da real reason u wna break up
wow, you sound exactly like my old girlfriend did. she crushed me too. and i should have seen it coming. at least you told him first.
Well what i did was, i started an arguement then said it while we both were mad so it seem apropriate =)
Be straight up and let it rip, ';It's not working for me. Let's end this.';
say it as nicely as possible n give him good reasons. tell him u still care about him n dat mayb u can b friends
no easy way to let him down...just get it over with
just tell him u just don't feel like having a boyfriend at the moment he'll be crushed but he'll understand
OMG! that sounds exactly like the situation that i was just in! i was going out with this guy that was way more into me than i was into him. we only went out for a month and i just broke up with him a couple days ago. just like you, i was basically bored with him and i also missed flirting with other guys. he's a really sweet guy and i was afraid of crushing him. luckily it went really well and we're still friends. well anyway, this is how i broke up with him:





i went to his house and suggested that we should go on a walk. so we walked and talked for about ten mins. then i casually brought up the question 'how do you feel about our relationship?'. let him do all the talking at this point so he can get all of his feelings out. then he'll prob ask you how you feel. this is when you tell him 'your a great guy and everything but i feel we would be better off as friends.' or something along those lines.





with this approach i believe it's more casual and not too harsh or anything. trust me the single life feels really good right now and you'll feel relieved when it's over. hopefully this is helpful. i wish you the best of luck! :)





p.s. don't use any cheesy break up lines. they're just hurtful
You said boys opinions welcome, but how about an answer from a man.





Be honest, direct and polite. Tell him you don't want to be his gf anymore, tell him you'd rather be honest with him now than wait till it would be far worse. Tell him one day that he will respect you for your honesty, even if he pouts and whines like a boy.





You are in high school, your priorities (in my humble opinion) should be:


1) Getting as much from your tax payer funded education as possible by paying attention, studying and not be so distracted by such things as whiny boys.


2) Showing respect and appreciation to your parents. They are the ones who toiled to bring home the bacon to put on your table, put the roof over your head, the clothes on your back and made your life good enough that your biggest concern in life right now is how to break up with some kid. Go straight to your parents, or parent, or whoever is making your life so wonderful right now and tell them how lucky you are to have them, and start showing that very attitude every day.





Remember the above when you have kids in high school...
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  • Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?

    I don't fish for compliments, but sometimes if I think I look exceptionally good-looking that day, I want a lot of guys to tell me how good I look. I don't have low self-esteem, it just makes me feel good to know that guys were taking notice at the extra time I spent getting ready. My boyfriend calls me sexy, but since we don't see each other until the weekend, he just texts me that in general.





    So is it wrong to want compliments like that from other men? I don't flirt with them, I just appreciate their input.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
    No. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman wanting to feel sexy. Although, if your talking about liking cat calls, that's another story.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
    well you can compliment yourself, and to be straight up with you, it does appear to be an esteem issue, to need others to compliment you in order to feel good about yourself, i compliment myself all the time and yes others at times tell me that too, but i never need their input because i know i look good and am a good person regardless, or course there are people that are jealous because of attention is get and seek to take me down but because of God telling me i look and do good and me complimenting myself, i never receive or accept their negative criticism
    You say you aren't fishing for compliments then say you want a lot of guys to tell you how good you look?? I guess its natural to want to be attractive to members of the opposite sex but sounds a little needy. I doubt you have high self esteem.
    i don't think that there is anything wrong with that.
    It depends, Its ok for you because your a slut.
    they might think you have a crush on them.
    So do I, I mean, we're women, i think it's normal isn'it? (:

    How to get revenge on your ex boyfriend?

    so he dumped me because he thought that I flirt with guys too much. He also feel pressured because I get mad at him for him being mad at little things. I need revenge!How to get revenge on your ex boyfriend?
    Revenge usually leads to regret. Move onHow to get revenge on your ex boyfriend?
    Revenge with malice is childish. Just be friendly to him, and move on. The best kind of revenge there is.
    The best revenge is bettering yourself.
    Revenge = Stupidity.........just let it go.
    I cant understand why a guy would leave such a wonderful warm sweet women? gee i wish there were more like you ....NOT