My best friend and my boyfriend are always together.My friends all say that they flirt.My BFF came up to me and said ';You need To get your boyfriend he is all up on this girl';.I walked in my class and saw that he was behind her.Should I be mad?I talked to him before about the situation and he said that i shouldn't worry because he would never cheat on me
PLEASE HELP ME!How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
im thinkin you cant trust your boyfriend at all. You can talk to him about it but speaking from experience, if he's flirting w/his ex, he's never gonna admit to it and he WILL cheat on you. and one last peice of advice....always trust your instincts..if you think something is going on, it usually is....you wouldnt have asked this question if u didnt have doubts about him.How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
I hate to say this, but he seems too easily tempted. Set him straight, and tell him it makes your uncomfortable. He shouldn't be hanging around his ex while he is with you. Let him know what is up. Good luck!
A man is only as faithful as his options.
Friday, August 20, 2010
What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
My boyfriend and I live about an hour away from eachother, so I wouldn't really call it too much of a long distance relationship cause we see eachother a couple times a week. Anyways he (25 yrs old) and his cousin (bout mid 30's) go out to the same bar every thurs and dont come bak hm till its closing time. Not to mention he has work the next day at 5am.
So i know I shouldnt snoop, but I did. I saw a text in his phone (the # wasnt saved) and it was a girl basically flirting with him.
I confronted him bout it, and he told me he and his cuz met up with some cousins' coworkers. One of the girls took an interest in my bf, then asked for his #.
I was pissed! why is my bf giving out his #?!!
He said he was sorry and that he loves me. He doesnt wanna lose me, he never slept with her, never kissed her..nothing.
He broke down and told me it'll never happen again, he doesn't know why he did it. He said maybe he liked the attention she gave him, but he knows he messed up and promised he wont ever talk to her again. or give his #out. He said he know he has something good with me and doesn't want to throw it away over nothing.
I told him I wanna work things out cause he means so much to me, but it'll take time to gain trust back.
Please, give me some advice. How would u feel? Did I do the right thing? We've been together a lil over half a yr.
I am Completely IN LOVE with him.
What should I do?????What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
Personally I think that you over re-acted. He gave his number out, yes. But he wasn't hooking up with her. Flirting is flirting, its not having sex with someone. My boyfriend talks to girls all the time. I can understand if she was txting him tryna have phone sex or sendin him naked pics. Then yea i'd feel the same wasy. But if shes just callin him a cutie n stuff. Then i dont think theres a problem. Especially since he told you he'd never do it again and how sorry he is for doing that to you. He loves you. From what you wrote. I don't think he'll do it again. Trust and believe him because you cant have a relationship without trust.What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
I think you are waaaay over-reacting. Seriously. He didn't cheat on you or anything.. And it seems like he'd do anything for you. You should just relax.. You don't need to lose any ';trust'; in him.. Sounds like you have him chained. D/w.
just make sure he will never do it again.let him work on regaining ur trust again.give him a second chance ,stuff like that happen all the time in the first 6 mnths of any relationship. but if he did anything like that again to show that hes the player type then kick his *** out of the door,plenty of fish in the sea.
Murdercycle him.
He is a man, we crave female attention and do stupid things, it doesn't mean that he cheated on you though. you have every right ot be upset, but I wouldn't sweat it unless you find anymore evidence than that. If there have never been any problems before you can probably take him for his word.
Personally i would feel pretty upset that he was texting her back. He could've just got her number as a confidence booster and never talked to her again. He also could have confronted you about it if he really felt that sorry for doing it.
However, if you really love him that much i would see how it goes and if anything else suspicious happens i would end it. It's not worth staying up worrying who he is talking to and feeling like crap about it. It will only lower your self esteem in the end.
He let her have his number and *received* a flirty text from her. He didn't initiate it, he didn't even save her # in his phone. Then he flat-out spilled his heart out, being completely honest about what happened, why he did it, and swore never to do it again.
Seriously..? This guy would be getting ';boyfriend of the year'; honors from every woman I know.
Is this pretty much the first really intense, long-term relationship you've been in? You sound like me 4-5 years ago. In other words, like a very jealous person. I'm guessing that you sometimes feel a near overpowering fear (combined with anger) that he's going to leave you or choose someone else. That's what drove you to check his phone instead of trust him (VERY, very bad on your part). That's what is causing you to still have doubts now.
He received a flirty text from her, not a *******. You're really, really going to have to be less sensitive about such an utterly harmless thing if you don't want to drive him (and most other men) away. I can't tell you how much happier I am now, having worked on those jealousy issues.
The same thing somehow happened to me my bf promised to never do something like that again and so far I've seen nothing from him (it's been 2 years now). Sounds like you should forgive him too and let him gain your trust back. Sometimes forgiving is really better than ending a good relationship but if you faced something like that again, then it would be time to give your relationship a second thought. Hope I helped.
I personally don't think it's a big deal, Guys need attention and sometimes us women make it more about us, so he might need to just have a bit of a flirty moment with a girl to boost his self esteem. that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, obviously he loves you if he feels that bad, I would be upset but don't take it to hard, from what you wrote sounds like you have a lovely relationship. Good luck
Ps. Just tell him how it upset you and ask him not to give his number away, and make him take you out for a nice dinner lol
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So i know I shouldnt snoop, but I did. I saw a text in his phone (the # wasnt saved) and it was a girl basically flirting with him.
I confronted him bout it, and he told me he and his cuz met up with some cousins' coworkers. One of the girls took an interest in my bf, then asked for his #.
I was pissed! why is my bf giving out his #?!!
He said he was sorry and that he loves me. He doesnt wanna lose me, he never slept with her, never kissed her..nothing.
He broke down and told me it'll never happen again, he doesn't know why he did it. He said maybe he liked the attention she gave him, but he knows he messed up and promised he wont ever talk to her again. or give his #out. He said he know he has something good with me and doesn't want to throw it away over nothing.
I told him I wanna work things out cause he means so much to me, but it'll take time to gain trust back.
Please, give me some advice. How would u feel? Did I do the right thing? We've been together a lil over half a yr.
I am Completely IN LOVE with him.
What should I do?????What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
Personally I think that you over re-acted. He gave his number out, yes. But he wasn't hooking up with her. Flirting is flirting, its not having sex with someone. My boyfriend talks to girls all the time. I can understand if she was txting him tryna have phone sex or sendin him naked pics. Then yea i'd feel the same wasy. But if shes just callin him a cutie n stuff. Then i dont think theres a problem. Especially since he told you he'd never do it again and how sorry he is for doing that to you. He loves you. From what you wrote. I don't think he'll do it again. Trust and believe him because you cant have a relationship without trust.What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
I think you are waaaay over-reacting. Seriously. He didn't cheat on you or anything.. And it seems like he'd do anything for you. You should just relax.. You don't need to lose any ';trust'; in him.. Sounds like you have him chained. D/w.
just make sure he will never do it again.let him work on regaining ur trust again.give him a second chance ,stuff like that happen all the time in the first 6 mnths of any relationship. but if he did anything like that again to show that hes the player type then kick his *** out of the door,plenty of fish in the sea.
Murdercycle him.
He is a man, we crave female attention and do stupid things, it doesn't mean that he cheated on you though. you have every right ot be upset, but I wouldn't sweat it unless you find anymore evidence than that. If there have never been any problems before you can probably take him for his word.
Personally i would feel pretty upset that he was texting her back. He could've just got her number as a confidence booster and never talked to her again. He also could have confronted you about it if he really felt that sorry for doing it.
However, if you really love him that much i would see how it goes and if anything else suspicious happens i would end it. It's not worth staying up worrying who he is talking to and feeling like crap about it. It will only lower your self esteem in the end.
He let her have his number and *received* a flirty text from her. He didn't initiate it, he didn't even save her # in his phone. Then he flat-out spilled his heart out, being completely honest about what happened, why he did it, and swore never to do it again.
Seriously..? This guy would be getting ';boyfriend of the year'; honors from every woman I know.
Is this pretty much the first really intense, long-term relationship you've been in? You sound like me 4-5 years ago. In other words, like a very jealous person. I'm guessing that you sometimes feel a near overpowering fear (combined with anger) that he's going to leave you or choose someone else. That's what drove you to check his phone instead of trust him (VERY, very bad on your part). That's what is causing you to still have doubts now.
He received a flirty text from her, not a *******. You're really, really going to have to be less sensitive about such an utterly harmless thing if you don't want to drive him (and most other men) away. I can't tell you how much happier I am now, having worked on those jealousy issues.
The same thing somehow happened to me my bf promised to never do something like that again and so far I've seen nothing from him (it's been 2 years now). Sounds like you should forgive him too and let him gain your trust back. Sometimes forgiving is really better than ending a good relationship but if you faced something like that again, then it would be time to give your relationship a second thought. Hope I helped.
I personally don't think it's a big deal, Guys need attention and sometimes us women make it more about us, so he might need to just have a bit of a flirty moment with a girl to boost his self esteem. that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, obviously he loves you if he feels that bad, I would be upset but don't take it to hard, from what you wrote sounds like you have a lovely relationship. Good luck
Ps. Just tell him how it upset you and ask him not to give his number away, and make him take you out for a nice dinner lol
Best of luck!
How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
was talking to girls on the internet, flirting and saying things like ';kiss'; and ';cuddle'; and ';you are mine and I am yours';? He is with me every day so it isn't like he has an opportunity to really cheat on me really, but he is still talking to these girls on the internet. He also tells me that they are just friends but he won't tell them he has a girlfriend. He said it was cause one of them is having a hard time because her best friend has a boyfriend and I guess she is jealous, but at the same time he in a way is leading this girl on and yet he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me only. I am jealous but I don't know if the jealousy is warranted or not. But it bothers me and I have told him it bothers me and he says things like, ';you swear I am going to see them or something';. They don't live in the same state as us but still. Would anyone else feel this way?How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
You know just let him do whatever.
It's his mistakes he is going to be making, and trust me, since he's leading that girl on it is NOT going to be good for him, but really good for you because once she finds out that he has a girlfriend, that's just another girl you don't have to worry about..
Also are you sure your boyfriend isn't just doing this to make you jealous?
Maybe he wants some attention, soooo MAYBE you should just ignore the fact that he talks to these girls online and the fact that they dont even know that he has a girlfriend, and maybe he will stop because he is thinking that it has no effect on you.How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
I think anyone else would feel jelous and maybe even angry at their b/f. If your b/f if talking and flirting with other girls even on the internet maybe you should double think your relationship because your supposed to trust your sig. other and not have to worry about them with other girls
i would be angry...if he really loves you then he should stop because if something is hurting the person you love then you would do anything in your power to make that something go away........
Hell no that would fly with me! You better put a top to that real quick!
Well I wouldnt be happy if i was you - just cause he isnt physically doing anything it must have crossed his mind if he is getting up to that - i would be putting my foot down if I was you!
of course you have all the right to be mad at him. why does he bother talking and meeting new girls online, when you could spend all this time being together, have a walk, cook , watch a movie.. I am in a relationship, and even if we both used to chat and meet people online, this is just not like us anymore. We rarely do it, I entered in a chat room I guess once in 2 years and I got bored immediately cause I;m not interested in meeting and getting to know any other guy. so why waste time? if he still like to meet some other.. than give him this chanse.. Have a talk with him.. I don;t think this is fair to you..
You know just let him do whatever.
It's his mistakes he is going to be making, and trust me, since he's leading that girl on it is NOT going to be good for him, but really good for you because once she finds out that he has a girlfriend, that's just another girl you don't have to worry about..
Also are you sure your boyfriend isn't just doing this to make you jealous?
Maybe he wants some attention, soooo MAYBE you should just ignore the fact that he talks to these girls online and the fact that they dont even know that he has a girlfriend, and maybe he will stop because he is thinking that it has no effect on you.How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
I think anyone else would feel jelous and maybe even angry at their b/f. If your b/f if talking and flirting with other girls even on the internet maybe you should double think your relationship because your supposed to trust your sig. other and not have to worry about them with other girls
i would be angry...if he really loves you then he should stop because if something is hurting the person you love then you would do anything in your power to make that something go away........
Hell no that would fly with me! You better put a top to that real quick!
Well I wouldnt be happy if i was you - just cause he isnt physically doing anything it must have crossed his mind if he is getting up to that - i would be putting my foot down if I was you!
of course you have all the right to be mad at him. why does he bother talking and meeting new girls online, when you could spend all this time being together, have a walk, cook , watch a movie.. I am in a relationship, and even if we both used to chat and meet people online, this is just not like us anymore. We rarely do it, I entered in a chat room I guess once in 2 years and I got bored immediately cause I;m not interested in meeting and getting to know any other guy. so why waste time? if he still like to meet some other.. than give him this chanse.. Have a talk with him.. I don;t think this is fair to you..
What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
My current boyfriend Calif is the most consided and jelous person i know wen we talk he is always bragging about when another girl asks him out or flirts with him or tries to feel him up and says i am lucky i would agree,but i am not sure how lucky i am i think i am kinda unlucky in this one cause the thing is i can't even talk to another guy w/out him freaking out asking 20 questions like he can't trust me and i know i can't trust him cause he has cheated on me before i have wanted to get rid of him for a bit now,but i am afraid that if i do he will hurt himself and it will be my fault..wut do i do??What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
Get the h*ll out of that relationship and get out quick!!!! It is not a good thing to have your boyfriend yell at you for talking to other guys, that's just ridiculous. He is trying to be controlling and it is not a healthy relationship. Sooner or later he will end up being abusive mentally, verbally, and physically. You don't need your boyfriend telling you how lucky you are to have him, that's outrageous. He keeps saying that to persuade you to stay him. He should be telling you how lucky he is to be with you. Get out now!!What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
just tell him really softly that you wanna move on and meet new ppl i guess he'll understand
Get a new Boyfiend. Simple as that. Why do people feel they need to stay with some one who is not their spouse? The only thing keeping you from leaving is you. Sure you may have agreed to not see other people, but you know what, things change.
If you are not happy in the temp relationship, and face it, that's what boyfriend-girlfriend is, temporairy. So put your feelings in check, ask yourself this, is this a person I am PROUD to call my BF? Is this some one who will make me proud? Is this the person who makes me a better person?
You know what to do so quit whinnig and do it. Find a new BF.
This type of personality in a partner is a warning sign. He is trying to control you. Its possible that his actions might become more then words. He sounds like he could potentially become abusive. I say get out of the relationship he sounds like a real tool. You deserve someone who can trust you and someone who will treat you right.
If he can talk to you about other girls asking him out he shouldn't get mad or angry at you if you just talk to a boy.
Usually jealous partners are cheating themselves, or they have the potential of becoming a danger to you.
If he is so conceded he wont harm himself he can go get one of those girls that flirt w/him so much! I am 39 and have learned that when men are jealous of you they are doing something wrong!
Get outta there and go find you a real man!lol
oh hell no lady!! this situation is obvious!! DUMP THAT RAT BASTARD!! u my firend are only askign for truoble the fact alone that he has cheated on you and gets super paranoid about u talking to other gusy means he is CHEATING ON YOU NOW!! what guy would brag about getting felt up? and what woman would take that sh*t... ?? serisouly i wish my husband would try and tell me some stuff like this...i woudl beat his a$$! but then again u seem a lil young. any woman that ';knows'; herself already and respects herself wouldnt deal with this no matter how cute or rich a guy is... he is manipulating you and you are letting him... MOVE ON! dump taht loser!! he got a guilty consience and thats why he cant stand it when other guys talk to you cause he knows what he would be thinking or tryign to do. and seriously, why is he close enough to a girl that she would even have the chance to feel him up???thinka bout this woman!! u deserve better! if u dont stand up for yourself and show some self respect than who ever will?
Get the h*ll out of that relationship and get out quick!!!! It is not a good thing to have your boyfriend yell at you for talking to other guys, that's just ridiculous. He is trying to be controlling and it is not a healthy relationship. Sooner or later he will end up being abusive mentally, verbally, and physically. You don't need your boyfriend telling you how lucky you are to have him, that's outrageous. He keeps saying that to persuade you to stay him. He should be telling you how lucky he is to be with you. Get out now!!What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
just tell him really softly that you wanna move on and meet new ppl i guess he'll understand
Get a new Boyfiend. Simple as that. Why do people feel they need to stay with some one who is not their spouse? The only thing keeping you from leaving is you. Sure you may have agreed to not see other people, but you know what, things change.
If you are not happy in the temp relationship, and face it, that's what boyfriend-girlfriend is, temporairy. So put your feelings in check, ask yourself this, is this a person I am PROUD to call my BF? Is this some one who will make me proud? Is this the person who makes me a better person?
You know what to do so quit whinnig and do it. Find a new BF.
This type of personality in a partner is a warning sign. He is trying to control you. Its possible that his actions might become more then words. He sounds like he could potentially become abusive. I say get out of the relationship he sounds like a real tool. You deserve someone who can trust you and someone who will treat you right.
If he can talk to you about other girls asking him out he shouldn't get mad or angry at you if you just talk to a boy.
Usually jealous partners are cheating themselves, or they have the potential of becoming a danger to you.
If he is so conceded he wont harm himself he can go get one of those girls that flirt w/him so much! I am 39 and have learned that when men are jealous of you they are doing something wrong!
Get outta there and go find you a real man!lol
oh hell no lady!! this situation is obvious!! DUMP THAT RAT BASTARD!! u my firend are only askign for truoble the fact alone that he has cheated on you and gets super paranoid about u talking to other gusy means he is CHEATING ON YOU NOW!! what guy would brag about getting felt up? and what woman would take that sh*t... ?? serisouly i wish my husband would try and tell me some stuff like this...i woudl beat his a$$! but then again u seem a lil young. any woman that ';knows'; herself already and respects herself wouldnt deal with this no matter how cute or rich a guy is... he is manipulating you and you are letting him... MOVE ON! dump taht loser!! he got a guilty consience and thats why he cant stand it when other guys talk to you cause he knows what he would be thinking or tryign to do. and seriously, why is he close enough to a girl that she would even have the chance to feel him up???thinka bout this woman!! u deserve better! if u dont stand up for yourself and show some self respect than who ever will?
How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
My boyfriend seems to be critising me more often lately, and he get's really angry over nothing and snaps at me for no apparent reason, and then says i started it first and i'm left siting there completely dumbfounded, it's like i can't do anything right these days, and he flirts with every girl he get's the chance to talk to even in front of me, and so i just walk away till it's over. but his latest stunt really rocked me, i probably should say that i'm very pregnant and about to give birth soon, he has started coming at me with the '; how do i know it's mine'; conversation. which really hurts, because we've been together for five years and when i'm in a serious realtionship i don't cheat. mind you he was upfornt in saying that he would be less attracted to me if i put on weight, normally i'm quite a petite girl. please advise me on what to do, maybe he's just scared about the new baby, what do you think?How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He should be happy that he is bless with a child with you, but his crazy to say things like that to you. If he is acting distance away from you and say those mean things to you, maybe he is. but i cant judge a person's attitude. ask one of your friend to see where he goes. see if he is really cheating on you. Good luck.How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He's an ******. You don't deserve a guy who treats you like that. You have the right to demand for support for the baby but you also have the choice to move on and try to be happy without a toxic partner.
Well Talk to him!
You need to!
Your both about to have a baby together, and you don't want that beautiful healthy baby girl/boy not to grow up knowing their father. (Like me)
But what my mum did was grow me up her self until i was 3 and found my dad (step-dad) and has grown me up 13 years later like i was his own!
He treats my mum like he will die if something happens too her!...
My opinion is talk to him, if he still gets close to any more women dump him.
but for sure he will be crawling back, then leave you then crawl back, then leave you.!
So its your Choice to call it off!!!
You should never let anyone treat you badly
I don't think u can tell by looking at him, maybe u should ask him and see what his reaction is like, then maybe u might be able to tell if he is cheating on u
There are certain signs that may suggest a guy is cheating but it is a generalisation. Such as if a guy is more worried and controlling about what you are doing,where your going and who you are seeing. It may suggest he is doing the wrong thing and is guilty of it thats why he is on your back (iam going off experience and i left him) However in saying that i have also been like that to my bf, not becoz i have cheated but becoz x's have done it to me and i dont trust people anymore and im scared that all guys cheat.
Its hard to say what he is thinking, but you should confront him about it. you have a right to seems you are about to bring a child into this world together and he should be taking some responsibility. he obviously has no respect if he is flirting with other girls infront of u. he may also be scared. either way flirting with other gals is a big no no.
you have to look after yourself right now thats the best thing.get support from family, friends.
He should be happy that he is bless with a child with you, but his crazy to say things like that to you. If he is acting distance away from you and say those mean things to you, maybe he is. but i cant judge a person's attitude. ask one of your friend to see where he goes. see if he is really cheating on you. Good luck.How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He's an ******. You don't deserve a guy who treats you like that. You have the right to demand for support for the baby but you also have the choice to move on and try to be happy without a toxic partner.
Well Talk to him!
You need to!
Your both about to have a baby together, and you don't want that beautiful healthy baby girl/boy not to grow up knowing their father. (Like me)
But what my mum did was grow me up her self until i was 3 and found my dad (step-dad) and has grown me up 13 years later like i was his own!
He treats my mum like he will die if something happens too her!...
My opinion is talk to him, if he still gets close to any more women dump him.
but for sure he will be crawling back, then leave you then crawl back, then leave you.!
So its your Choice to call it off!!!
You should never let anyone treat you badly
I don't think u can tell by looking at him, maybe u should ask him and see what his reaction is like, then maybe u might be able to tell if he is cheating on u
There are certain signs that may suggest a guy is cheating but it is a generalisation. Such as if a guy is more worried and controlling about what you are doing,where your going and who you are seeing. It may suggest he is doing the wrong thing and is guilty of it thats why he is on your back (iam going off experience and i left him) However in saying that i have also been like that to my bf, not becoz i have cheated but becoz x's have done it to me and i dont trust people anymore and im scared that all guys cheat.
Its hard to say what he is thinking, but you should confront him about it. you have a right to seems you are about to bring a child into this world together and he should be taking some responsibility. he obviously has no respect if he is flirting with other girls infront of u. he may also be scared. either way flirting with other gals is a big no no.
you have to look after yourself right now thats the best thing.get support from family, friends.
How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
My boyfriend and i had been going out on and off for almost a year. I have broken up with him twice, but we always stayed really tight because i consider him one of my best friends so i made sure that we would. But both times that's just lead us to getting back together, and both times it was so much better after we had had a ';break';. But he recently broke up with me, and before it was kinda my responsibility for us to stay close, but he's not doing that. He's acting weird and uptight and he barely talks to me. But we didn't have a fight or anything before we broke up, in fact, i thought we were stronger than ever =( . It was incredibly sudden, the only reason he gave was that we should see other people (which is why i broke up with him before.) But he doesn't seem to like anyone and i've already found 3 guys (not meaning to brag haha) that would like to go out with me and are flirting with me ferociously haha. I guess this is good to make him jealous... but i don't know if it'll work since that's not how we got back together before.
I talk to him a bit, when i do its always nice trying to be buddies with him. And i have told him a bit about the guys, i've been in a good mood around him and i've been myself (since that's apparently who he liked before.) But he always looks pissed or mopey %26gt;%26lt; i don't know if it's because he still likes me although that's what i think and i know him very well that's exactly how he acted when we were broken up before. But yeah, i don't pester him with phone calls or anything like that.
Am i doing the right thing? What have some of you done to get him/her back?How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i didn't. a break up is a break up.. let it goHow did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i'll get him back by advancing in life.Doing great things to better myself and my family.Have my own co. be a ceo and have a famous talk show and looking very sexy hot.
Don't waste anymore time on this guy. If a guy ever left me, I found someone else and that someone was always a better person.
If you feel like what you had was good try to get him back but I would have moved on ;)
persistence is key. which i have none of, so................................... yeah.......... lol
When me and my old bf broke up i went out with one of his really good friends like he did to me and he got very jealous so we went back out(: and yes i think you are doing the right thing just maybe don't talk to him about the other guys it probably makes him feel upset. also maybe he feels like you wont want to take him back because he broke up with you and he is scared to figure out? good luck(:
I talk to him a bit, when i do its always nice trying to be buddies with him. And i have told him a bit about the guys, i've been in a good mood around him and i've been myself (since that's apparently who he liked before.) But he always looks pissed or mopey %26gt;%26lt; i don't know if it's because he still likes me although that's what i think and i know him very well that's exactly how he acted when we were broken up before. But yeah, i don't pester him with phone calls or anything like that.
Am i doing the right thing? What have some of you done to get him/her back?How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i didn't. a break up is a break up.. let it goHow did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i'll get him back by advancing in life.Doing great things to better myself and my family.Have my own co. be a ceo and have a famous talk show and looking very sexy hot.
Don't waste anymore time on this guy. If a guy ever left me, I found someone else and that someone was always a better person.
If you feel like what you had was good try to get him back but I would have moved on ;)
persistence is key. which i have none of, so................................... yeah.......... lol
When me and my old bf broke up i went out with one of his really good friends like he did to me and he got very jealous so we went back out(: and yes i think you are doing the right thing just maybe don't talk to him about the other guys it probably makes him feel upset. also maybe he feels like you wont want to take him back because he broke up with you and he is scared to figure out? good luck(:
How would you like it if your boyfriend?
was texting a girl and she brought up the past about them liking eachother back then and telling him she missed him and loved him and wanted to be in the same class together..... oh and did i mention she sent him a picture with her and her new hair.
he says they are just friends but then he says he loved her too and wished they would be best friends forever. i talked to her on myspace and she said she wasnt trying to take him away from me and i had no worries but she goes and texts him that stuff. it makes me think she really still likes him and it pisses me offf!!!!!!!!! what should i do. should i be upset... and my boyfriend says who cares shes a friend but it seems to me he is flirting and he even let me look through his phone because apparently he has nothing to hide but then i see those texts. yeah right....How would you like it if your boyfriend?
tell her to please don't talk to my boyfriend, it makes me very uncomortable.
or...(Don't do Both.) talk to your boyfriend and tell him you don't like it when she talks to you because she likes you and it's not nice to me and her.
ask him to please don't text or call her when she trys to contact him.
i think you should tell the girl, because your boyfriend will think you are too clingy and afraid of the relationship, and maybe other things, and that won't be good.
just please tell her to back off (the way i said it) from him
he says they are just friends but then he says he loved her too and wished they would be best friends forever. i talked to her on myspace and she said she wasnt trying to take him away from me and i had no worries but she goes and texts him that stuff. it makes me think she really still likes him and it pisses me offf!!!!!!!!! what should i do. should i be upset... and my boyfriend says who cares shes a friend but it seems to me he is flirting and he even let me look through his phone because apparently he has nothing to hide but then i see those texts. yeah right....How would you like it if your boyfriend?
tell her to please don't talk to my boyfriend, it makes me very uncomortable.
or...(Don't do Both.) talk to your boyfriend and tell him you don't like it when she talks to you because she likes you and it's not nice to me and her.
ask him to please don't text or call her when she trys to contact him.
i think you should tell the girl, because your boyfriend will think you are too clingy and afraid of the relationship, and maybe other things, and that won't be good.
just please tell her to back off (the way i said it) from him
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