There is this girl who has been telling me she is in love with my boyfriend and that she has loved him for 2 years. Also that she is going to continue to love him until the day she dies. She has been flirting with him and telling him that she wants to be his number one. Numerous times both my boyfriend and I have told her to back off. My boyfriend is the trustworthy type who doesn't like being mean and so he has never told her to just get LOST.
I am trying a new thing and that is to not be jealous or mean to other people. But she keeps on pushing it to the point where I can't help it.
What should I do?
I don't want to tell my boyfriend who he can hang out. But the girl is head over heels for him and tends on taking him for her own.How do you deal with a girl who is trying to steal your boyfriend?
So this girl is dissing your flyboy?
you need to give her the 411
actually get your bf to watch the movie misery or fata attraction
if that don't scare the faeces out of him, then let him have a go at her!
She is a pyscho child and will eventually turn postal on youHow do you deal with a girl who is trying to steal your boyfriend?
Just be yourself, she can't steal him if he doesn't want to be stolen. Continue to trust in his loyalty and be kind and loving towards all others but take the time to explain to her how her behaviour makes you feel . Be honest about your feelings in regards to this issue and try not to react in an unhealthy way. respond well to this and it will go away. she will give up eventually provided she is not encouraged to continue her antics about him or her feelings about him.
I used to have the same problem, this chick moved away then I started going out with my boyfriend then she started telling me that she'll love him more then I will and when I was out of the picture she was going to marry him instead of me, and I was like yeah right, So what I did was told her very bluntly ';If you come with in 50 feet of him your face will be eating the concrete so fcking fast you wont know what hit you'; And she stopped :]
your gunna have to be
a little mean cuz nice got
you nowhere sweety
just tell her like it is
tell her to back the
f off and get the hell lost
before you do something about
it
but have no intentions on
doing anything physical about
it nd tell her that its NOT
a threat but it IS a promise
or tell your bf to put his
foot down and be
assertive
well, beating her up may not be the best route. Your boyfriend may think that it was a ***** move no matter how much he despises her. tell him to grow a pair and have her back off. Or if you really do trust your boyfriend don' worry about and he shouldn't cheat. Not every guy will cheat if you look away for a little while. Don't let it bother you. I f you see her get close then block that dumb hoe from getting close by sitting in between them.
I know what you mean.. It is soo hard to try not to be jealous but it sounds like your boyfriend doesn't like her too much if he has told her to back off. Just try to ignore her and try to trust your boyfriend as best as you can that's all you can do without looking like a crazy jealous girlfriend lol.
don't do anything. this is her problem, not yours and since you know your boyfriend isnt interested in her there is no reason for you to worry. really you should feel kinda bad for her since it sounds like she really does love him and he obviously doesn't love her back. its very sad for her.
**i can't believe how many people think beating her ***** *** up is an acceptable solution. are you people mental?
HE has to take care of this, and if he is as trust worthy as you say, he will. In her eyes, you are just a rival and she will not take you seriously. Ask him to take care of business. If he won't, you are going to have a real problem with the two of them.
I had this same problem and in the end he choose her over me, I only found out about her after our relationship ended. If you trust him then don't worry about it however, if he cares for you that much he should atleast tell her to politely back off, maybe a restraining order?
its one thing to be nice or whatever to people but your dealing with a true BTCH!!! i would go up to her and say, im only telling you this *once* if you i see you flirting with my boyfriend one last time, expect a black eye... back of you son of a *****
Tell your boyfriend that he needs to tell her off, and you need to say something along the lines of ';I know you THINK you love my boyfriend, but you need to back off. I tried being nice about it, but it's getting a bit out of hand. Please stop bothering us.';
im not going to say what to do with these items but you can fill in the blanks
get a extra large hefty bag, a shovel, some bleach, and a **** load of lime
Tell him that she makes you really uncomfortable and that you know she'll leave you guys alone if she tells her to. If it continues, just ignore it, I know it will be difficult, but it's the only way to go... sorry. :'(
make her jealous and kiss him and stuff in front of her,a lot of pp, will say that's mean but shes trying to steal your boyfriend,come on you got to do something back to her
If you trust your boyfriend I wouldn't worry about it. If he's committed the main thing your going to have to worry about is some crazy ***** constantly bothering him.
its not your job to make her back-off cause you can do and say as much as you want but if your guy don't do it then she wont stop, also this chick dint sound very safe if you ask me she sounds obsess
the Italian mafia aren't here just to sit around and drink all day.
Well i'd voice your concern to your boyfriends ask for a little reassurance and then do not let this girl know that she's affecting you at all.
If your dude hangs out with her leave his dumb @ss because he knows better and you need to have respect for your self!
Listen to 'Head Over Heals' by Tears For Fears.
tell her that you dont appreciate that she is doing that and that she should fine a new guy
she said that she will love him till she dies.how do you make her not love bf?I have told u the answer.
HE needs to tell her face to face hes not interested
What should you do?
Tear a ***** up.
beat the **** out that *****...that whore will never stop
beat her up.
Slap a hoe...tell that crazy stalker ***** to back the **** off ur man lol
U grab her by her skanky hair and u say ';Back away from my man, or I'll rip all ur pubic hair out!'; Or something of equal of greater threat! At least that's what I would do!
Oh man....I have the same problem....but this girl I know is way more subtle...she keeps having these 'nervous breakdowns' and the only person who can 'calm her down' is apparently my bf....and my bf is too sweet too to just say- look, get lost. i'm not interested in you.
I think girls like you and me just have to be strong and stay strong. If you trust your boyfriend and like you said, he tells her to back off too, you should have no problems. Just don't give her too much attention. Think of her as a little mosquito...she's just trying to push your buttons by flapping around you and your bf and occasionally, she whines in your ear and irritates you.
Give her very little or no attention at all and make sure your bf does the same, and she will realise that her efforts at stealing your bf are useless.
Good luck!
First of all, if he is trustworthy, and you don't think he has feelings for her you can try to ignore it. My question is, if he knows she is saying this to you, why is he hanging out with her to begin with. And where are you that she keeps talking to you about this.
I dealt with the same situation, and it got to the point where she was following me and my boyfriend around. We went to the principals and nothing was done. Then at Homecoming one year, she tried to kiss him while I was in the restroom with my friend (I came out as he was pushing her away, neither saw us. I tore *ss across the room and chased her out to the trophy room where the principals were and punched her in her face. Because I had repeatedly been to one of the principals, and he repeatedly talked to her and she kept harassing us, he wouldn't let the other principals kick me out. After that she left us alone.
I don't like to condone violence, but sometimes it really is the only answer.
I actually am currently dealing with a similar situation. My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. They dated in the past and have known each other since they were in diapers. I cannot stand her, simply due to the fact that they have dated in the past. She still is head over heels in love with him, and he's too nice to really tell her to get lost.
I met her several months ago and it was very difficult not to punch her in the face. Still I put on a smiling face and tried my best to see the good in her as she's an important part of my BF's life. My boyfriend was really impressed at the way I handled myself around her and how I kept all my opinions regarding her to myself.
Whenever they hang out he tells me. Usually he only hangs out with her if her boyfriend tags along too, which is a relief. I trust my boyfriend with all my heart and know he wouldn't do anything to hurt me by messing around with her. That's pretty much all you can do is trust your guy and trust that he will not pursue anything with this loonie.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
i have a wonderful boyfriend for two years and we are great but i used to work with a guy at my old work and someone brought it to my attention that i was flirting with him.....that really hurt me..I have never thought of him sexually but we did have a connection.... I mean its been awhile now and i still think about it....I know i need to stop dwelling on this...but im such a sensitive person and am extremely hard on myself...i told my boyfriend he was like get over it....but why cant i? i feel as tho my guilt will never end.... has anyone had this problem? if so how do you cope with it?Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
Some people just naturally flirt with people. Not because they want them or because they are sexually attracted to them but because they don't realize they do it. There is nothing wrong with looking just remember you can't touch.Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
You can't go by the opinnons of others. Sometimes people's view on flirting is a lot different from your own. Just because your in a relationship with someone you love doesn't mean that you're not going to meet people whom you think are great people. It's fine to fancy people and think of them as good people. You can also have a relationship with people like that as far as consoling one another and hanging out. Just don't do anything you wouldn't want done to you.
I love a lot of people in my life. Friendship is a kind of love. But there's only one person I chose. If you know you're going to stay with yours, I would get over it. And you're not really having feelings for anyone else, it seems. I would suggest letting it go ASAP before you ruin a good relationship feeling guilty about something that didn't amount to much.
You can't help if you have feeling for anyone whether your in a relationship or not. But you were smart because it is what you do what those feelings and you didn't do anything wrong like cheat or anything like that so you shouldn't feel guilty. Just take your bf advice. You will be alright
its called friendship some people flirt alot together and not at all with others but nothing ever happens. dont feel guilty it normal to flirt every now and again just dont do it all the time with a bunch of guys.
yes had this problem, and until it runs its course ull prob obsess over it totally. U better hope ur bf doesnt read this lol :D
g/luck
Ack! Chill out. As long as you're a healthy girl, you're going to be attracted to guys. No guilt necessary. You can't change the past so just do better in the future.
I'm more concerned about this being hard on yourself deal. Imagine that you had a friend who was always waiting for you to mess up, and then followed you around for days afterward beating on you and yelling at you about it. You wouldn't be friends with this person for very long would you? So be easy on yourself. Don't be your own worst enemy.
Some people just naturally flirt with people. Not because they want them or because they are sexually attracted to them but because they don't realize they do it. There is nothing wrong with looking just remember you can't touch.Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
You can't go by the opinnons of others. Sometimes people's view on flirting is a lot different from your own. Just because your in a relationship with someone you love doesn't mean that you're not going to meet people whom you think are great people. It's fine to fancy people and think of them as good people. You can also have a relationship with people like that as far as consoling one another and hanging out. Just don't do anything you wouldn't want done to you.
I love a lot of people in my life. Friendship is a kind of love. But there's only one person I chose. If you know you're going to stay with yours, I would get over it. And you're not really having feelings for anyone else, it seems. I would suggest letting it go ASAP before you ruin a good relationship feeling guilty about something that didn't amount to much.
You can't help if you have feeling for anyone whether your in a relationship or not. But you were smart because it is what you do what those feelings and you didn't do anything wrong like cheat or anything like that so you shouldn't feel guilty. Just take your bf advice. You will be alright
its called friendship some people flirt alot together and not at all with others but nothing ever happens. dont feel guilty it normal to flirt every now and again just dont do it all the time with a bunch of guys.
yes had this problem, and until it runs its course ull prob obsess over it totally. U better hope ur bf doesnt read this lol :D
g/luck
Ack! Chill out. As long as you're a healthy girl, you're going to be attracted to guys. No guilt necessary. You can't change the past so just do better in the future.
I'm more concerned about this being hard on yourself deal. Imagine that you had a friend who was always waiting for you to mess up, and then followed you around for days afterward beating on you and yelling at you about it. You wouldn't be friends with this person for very long would you? So be easy on yourself. Don't be your own worst enemy.
What do you do when you think you dont like your boyfriend?
we have been together for 7 months now and he just doesnt excite me anymore. In the beginning when we first started talking and flirting it was amusing, but two weeks into us beging to be official i realized he was really boring...and to serious. Most girls are gidy and cant help but smile when their boyfriends txt them or come around. Me on the other hand i roll my eyes. He's nice dont get me wrong but he just doesnt make my heart flutter. And since he's such of a hardcore shell he doesnt really express his feeling for me alot...which makes him seem cold. The best i can get him to say is..'; i like you alot'; thats it. it doesnt feel like i really know him because his so distant. Im not sure if he even likes me most of the time. We hang out like 8 times in a month. We talk to eachother everyday, but through txts. He never calls me...we never stay on the phone for hours talking till the sun comes up. I have home boys that are way way way more attentive then he is..they call me n stay on the phone wit me till the sun comes up...if it was up to them we'd be hangin out together everyday..most of them would love to date me..n i'm willing to bet they'd treat me all out better...He;s not a bad boyfriend,, his just not a good boyfriend..i've already broke up wit him after numerous failed attempts to try and stress to him the importance of being wanted and feeling well liked. He wasnt happy with that and for the first time opened up and saied he really wanted to be with me didnt want to let me go.. and the only reason he didnt show me how much he like me is because i dont and he didnt think thats what i wanted....and he said typically his a very loving person..he just thought thats what i want....so i thought i finally got through to him...but he just went back to his same old ways
his very passionate in the sinve he wants to cuddle and kiss alot..but most of the time im so sick of him that i shun him and we're upset wit eachother when we do hangout and aruging about not acting like we like eachother when we're txting...i dnt know what to do with him? what should i do?What do you do when you think you dont like your boyfriend?
I think you should dump him. He sounds like he's just playing around and wasting your time. If he really 'liked you a lot' he would make much more of an effort.What do you do when you think you dont like your boyfriend?
dump his sorry ***
i sooo know what you feel.
except my ex wasn't boring exactly but still. i felt exactly the same way you did... and... i just broke up with him. its not good for you and its not good for him if this goes on! the best thing to do is end it.
his very passionate in the sinve he wants to cuddle and kiss alot..but most of the time im so sick of him that i shun him and we're upset wit eachother when we do hangout and aruging about not acting like we like eachother when we're txting...i dnt know what to do with him? what should i do?What do you do when you think you dont like your boyfriend?
I think you should dump him. He sounds like he's just playing around and wasting your time. If he really 'liked you a lot' he would make much more of an effort.What do you do when you think you dont like your boyfriend?
dump his sorry ***
i sooo know what you feel.
except my ex wasn't boring exactly but still. i felt exactly the same way you did... and... i just broke up with him. its not good for you and its not good for him if this goes on! the best thing to do is end it.
How far can you go in teasing your boyfriend?
Last night I wrote in a text message to my boyfriend ';Then stop texting, fart face'; because he said his friends were complaining that he was texting me. But I also added ';just joking.. good night, kisses.';
I don't think he minded this. I know guys feel comfortable when you can joke around with them, without being a b*tch. But how do you know how far to go with the jokes? Is is really okay to tease guys, because all guys feel it's important that their woman respects him as he is.
When is it flirting AND when it is just being nasty? lol. Thanks guys.
ps. we're both 22 yrs old..haha..and in collegeHow far can you go in teasing your boyfriend?
Use common sense. If you would be offended by how you are teasing then don't do it. Guys are really fun loving. We love to joke around and have fun. I don't think anything you said was offensive. If you are still worried about it, ask him. He is is the only one that truly knows how he feels. If he is upset about that, then you have a bigger problems than teasing him. How far can you go in teasing your boyfriend?
anon was so cute =D
';im a dork but im her dork so its fine';
awww lol so sweet =D
as long as you put the kisses at the end of it it's all good he knows you're just messing with him
I'm sure he teases you too =D
but also compliment him often guys love it when their ego's boost =D lol
nah he wuldnt mind that. my gf says that type of stuff to me al the time but i no she luves me n i luv her :). she says ';im a dork but im her dork so its fine';
if he's pissed off.. you've gone too far.
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I don't think he minded this. I know guys feel comfortable when you can joke around with them, without being a b*tch. But how do you know how far to go with the jokes? Is is really okay to tease guys, because all guys feel it's important that their woman respects him as he is.
When is it flirting AND when it is just being nasty? lol. Thanks guys.
ps. we're both 22 yrs old..haha..and in collegeHow far can you go in teasing your boyfriend?
Use common sense. If you would be offended by how you are teasing then don't do it. Guys are really fun loving. We love to joke around and have fun. I don't think anything you said was offensive. If you are still worried about it, ask him. He is is the only one that truly knows how he feels. If he is upset about that, then you have a bigger problems than teasing him. How far can you go in teasing your boyfriend?
anon was so cute =D
';im a dork but im her dork so its fine';
awww lol so sweet =D
as long as you put the kisses at the end of it it's all good he knows you're just messing with him
I'm sure he teases you too =D
but also compliment him often guys love it when their ego's boost =D lol
nah he wuldnt mind that. my gf says that type of stuff to me al the time but i no she luves me n i luv her :). she says ';im a dork but im her dork so its fine';
if he's pissed off.. you've gone too far.
How many times should you forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend when its the same mistakes?
I've been dating my boyfriend off and on for about 3 years now. We are always fighting because I feel like it is a one sided relationship: I am O.K. with him going out to parties without me but he gets mad when I do because he is afraid that I will hang out with guys. I feel like I deserve more trust than that. Two nights ago he went to a party, and as I was on my way to it with a few of my friends I called him. He told me that it was almost over and that he was leaving soon. Later that night I called him and he told me that the party was still going on but he wasnt with anyone, he was just waiting outside for his friend. I was slightly mad because he told me it was almost over so i didnt go. He was acting suspicious and so I asked him if a few girls were there that he's had past relations with and if he was hanging out with any girls in general. He told me no for both...The next day he told me that a few girls he's hooked up with in the past were there. I felt like he was hiding something and went through his texts to find him talking to a girl he's previously hooked up with saying how he had fun at the party with her in a flirting way. I confronted him about it and he went on to say that he was hanging out with that girl for a little while and that he also lied about waiting outside for his friend. In reality he was inside and was hanging out with a bunch of girls the whole night. On top of lying to me about basically that whole night, i caught him texting that same girl before. He told me he wouldnt talk to her anymore because i wasnt ok with it. He is extremely hypocritical when it comes to trust because he is the one who ends up lying. I don't want us to break up for good, but I'm tired of being lied to and treated unfairly.How many times should you forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend when its the same mistakes?
No man should be trusted when they start contradicting themselves and lying, you are so much better off without him and should no longer waste your precious time on him.
He won't change and you will continue to argue which you dislike doing but the trust isn't there, so you can't really call it a healthy relationship.
You deserve much better and i wish you the best of luck in finding a more honest boyfriend.How many times should you forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend when its the same mistakes?
Girl, you need to get rid of him...a.s.a.p.
Life is too short to put up with that kind of treatment.
i just forgive them even if they made me cry..
Don't forgive him. Cheaters do that. Accuse you of the exact thing they are doing. My ex did it to me. I had never even looked at another guy the whole time we were together (3years) and then I found out he was sleeping with his BEST FRIENDS missus.
Uuuuhhhhhhhhhh? are you serious. This guy is clearly cheating on you and you don't want to break up with him. Than you can't be helped. You know that saying ';if the person is so suspicious of you cheating or doing something, than most likely it's because they are doing it'; or something like that, well you are in that situation. Open your eyes, sometimes one has to realize that it wasn't meant to be and this guy is playing you for a fool. You sound like a really nice, faithful, forgiving girlfriend especially to put up with crap from your BF. Stop fooling yourself also and move on, you deserve better.
one rule for him and another for you. It seems like your not happy, you may disagree but honestly think, how many good times are there compared to bad? It might be sad but I think you need to walk away, it seems he doesn't respect you. You've given him his chances and he's wasted them, you deserve better you shouldn't have to make all the effort and him make none. I hope it goes well for you whatever you choose :)
No man should be trusted when they start contradicting themselves and lying, you are so much better off without him and should no longer waste your precious time on him.
He won't change and you will continue to argue which you dislike doing but the trust isn't there, so you can't really call it a healthy relationship.
You deserve much better and i wish you the best of luck in finding a more honest boyfriend.How many times should you forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend when its the same mistakes?
Girl, you need to get rid of him...a.s.a.p.
Life is too short to put up with that kind of treatment.
i just forgive them even if they made me cry..
Don't forgive him. Cheaters do that. Accuse you of the exact thing they are doing. My ex did it to me. I had never even looked at another guy the whole time we were together (3years) and then I found out he was sleeping with his BEST FRIENDS missus.
Uuuuhhhhhhhhhh? are you serious. This guy is clearly cheating on you and you don't want to break up with him. Than you can't be helped. You know that saying ';if the person is so suspicious of you cheating or doing something, than most likely it's because they are doing it'; or something like that, well you are in that situation. Open your eyes, sometimes one has to realize that it wasn't meant to be and this guy is playing you for a fool. You sound like a really nice, faithful, forgiving girlfriend especially to put up with crap from your BF. Stop fooling yourself also and move on, you deserve better.
one rule for him and another for you. It seems like your not happy, you may disagree but honestly think, how many good times are there compared to bad? It might be sad but I think you need to walk away, it seems he doesn't respect you. You've given him his chances and he's wasted them, you deserve better you shouldn't have to make all the effort and him make none. I hope it goes well for you whatever you choose :)
Do you think its right for your boyfriend to have a friendship with someone you girlfriend doesn't like?
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two years now. About a year ago we both attended the same school. He made new friends there and I don't mind with who he has a friendship with. What really got me mad was when I found out that he started talking to this one girl I had told him I didn't like. I just sort of dealt with it. Then me and him broke up and they started flirting with each other, but when me and him got back together I asked him about it and he told me that he had done it to make me jealous since he knows how jealous I am. We have broken up so many times because of her or just have had arguments. Recently I was at his house we were both sitting down on the table and I asked him to erase her from his friends and he did. Then yesterday we were going to go buy halo 3 at game stop but he received a text and I'm guessing he knew who it was because even before he opened it he said ';Oh hell no'; and sort of tried to hide it. I of course got it and yea it was her. I wouldn't've gotten mad like I did but I had told him I didn't want him talking to her no more and he had told me he had erased her from his phone.
So I ended up telling him we were over and that I never wanted to see him again.
Am I over exaggerating?Do you think its right for your boyfriend to have a friendship with someone you girlfriend doesn't like?
I think your bf is still using this girl to make you jealous. And you're buying into it. If you calmly say, ';I need to go home now, because you're receiving texts from this girl and it bothers me';, that would be far more effective than having a scene. His ego gets stroked by these scenes. So the less emotional you are, the less gratifying it is to him, and he will get bored of making you jealous.Do you think its right for your boyfriend to have a friendship with someone you girlfriend doesn't like?
Yes you were and he doesnt deserve that treatment he can be friends with whomever he wishes... You are not his boss
Yep. You don't own him.
maybe you are
Yes u r over exaggerating. you even don't have the right to tell him to get her off his phonebook, unless he's doing no good with her. Order than than, I think u went over the top with that. There's a possibility he'll be thanking God u broke up with him, cos If I was a man, I'll definitely be glad we're over. The green eyed monster is a very bad thing, and u sure do let urs out without restraint. You need to work on that. He might tell u he loves u so much! but because of what ';all these'; he might just go for another. u need to let loose Sister.
So I ended up telling him we were over and that I never wanted to see him again.
Am I over exaggerating?Do you think its right for your boyfriend to have a friendship with someone you girlfriend doesn't like?
I think your bf is still using this girl to make you jealous. And you're buying into it. If you calmly say, ';I need to go home now, because you're receiving texts from this girl and it bothers me';, that would be far more effective than having a scene. His ego gets stroked by these scenes. So the less emotional you are, the less gratifying it is to him, and he will get bored of making you jealous.Do you think its right for your boyfriend to have a friendship with someone you girlfriend doesn't like?
Yes you were and he doesnt deserve that treatment he can be friends with whomever he wishes... You are not his boss
Yep. You don't own him.
maybe you are
Yes u r over exaggerating. you even don't have the right to tell him to get her off his phonebook, unless he's doing no good with her. Order than than, I think u went over the top with that. There's a possibility he'll be thanking God u broke up with him, cos If I was a man, I'll definitely be glad we're over. The green eyed monster is a very bad thing, and u sure do let urs out without restraint. You need to work on that. He might tell u he loves u so much! but because of what ';all these'; he might just go for another. u need to let loose Sister.
How do you get a girl to back off from your boyfriend??
This girl works with my boyfriend so I know thats not going to help any. She's always flirting with him, she asks for his sweater to wear when she's cold, and I even seen a message where she sent him a heart on facebook in his inbox. I'm starting to get a little irritated and I don't really know what to do. I just wish she would quit and stop trying to get my boyfriends attention. I told her to stop sending him hearts and that I'm his girlfriend not her, but I doubt that will do anything. Her response was actually telling me that I was over reacting and that a heart ACTUALLY means ';lol';... like what the hell?? Since when?? That is the biggest bullshit ever! Any advice?How do you get a girl to back off from your boyfriend??
In some ways I agree...where's your trust in him...but I can't say that I've not been there. It sucks big time. I would say that if you want to stay with your boyfriend all you can do is keep a close eye on her and if she makes more advances...consult her face to face if you can. And if you find that ur BF is accepting these advances...talk to him about it. Even if he isn't tell him how it's bothering you the way they talk and how she's flirting with him. Find out what he does...if it shows that he's interested in her more than you...I'd say ditch him! If not...I'd tell him that it isn't that you don't trust him...you don't trust her and that the whole situation is making you jealous. A lot of the time that helps...give him a scenario b/c it helps to put things in a different perspective (for him). Dont' forget to see it from his side too tho b/c that is what a rela is...talking to each other about everything,anything and trying to help it grow the best you can...sometimes that means disregarding the weeds or just hoeing them out. (I hope my analogy makes sense!)How do you get a girl to back off from your boyfriend??
Scratch the hell out of her car.
Where's your TRUST?
That pretty insulting to your boyfriend if you won't even trust him that he can't resist another girl. Relax.
Your problem, believe it or not, has a simple solution. Just ask your boyfriend to have a talk with her and to discourage her. You can not control the people who might have an interest in your boyfriend from making a play for him. However, he can put a stop to it if he wants to. Somehow, I suspect, he is enjoying the attention she is giving to him and may not be in a big hurry to end the flirtation.My suggestion is that you sit your boyfriend down,let him know how you feel about the situation, and then ask him to cease contact with her.If he truly loves you and is sensitive to your feelings, he would have no problem with your request. The alternative is that you might have to reconsider your relationship. All the best.
If you show her how annoyed you are she will keep it up, and also if he is giving her any kind of attention she will keep it up. Does he loan her the sweater when she is cold? If so kick his a**.
talk to your guy not her. if he tells her to back off she is more likely to listen. however if you trust your guy then leave it be. as long as you trust him just think of it this way... this chic is doing her best to seduce your guy and he still chooses you
Send some one to beat the crap out her and tell her his yours.
But still trust him ok.
just don't trust her!!!
I agree with the car. Good Advice.
kill her
omg wat a *****
ask your bf he likes you more then her and tell him to do something about it!
or just talk so much **** about her with ur bf that he will hate her
In some ways I agree...where's your trust in him...but I can't say that I've not been there. It sucks big time. I would say that if you want to stay with your boyfriend all you can do is keep a close eye on her and if she makes more advances...consult her face to face if you can. And if you find that ur BF is accepting these advances...talk to him about it. Even if he isn't tell him how it's bothering you the way they talk and how she's flirting with him. Find out what he does...if it shows that he's interested in her more than you...I'd say ditch him! If not...I'd tell him that it isn't that you don't trust him...you don't trust her and that the whole situation is making you jealous. A lot of the time that helps...give him a scenario b/c it helps to put things in a different perspective (for him). Dont' forget to see it from his side too tho b/c that is what a rela is...talking to each other about everything,anything and trying to help it grow the best you can...sometimes that means disregarding the weeds or just hoeing them out. (I hope my analogy makes sense!)How do you get a girl to back off from your boyfriend??
Scratch the hell out of her car.
Where's your TRUST?
That pretty insulting to your boyfriend if you won't even trust him that he can't resist another girl. Relax.
Your problem, believe it or not, has a simple solution. Just ask your boyfriend to have a talk with her and to discourage her. You can not control the people who might have an interest in your boyfriend from making a play for him. However, he can put a stop to it if he wants to. Somehow, I suspect, he is enjoying the attention she is giving to him and may not be in a big hurry to end the flirtation.My suggestion is that you sit your boyfriend down,let him know how you feel about the situation, and then ask him to cease contact with her.If he truly loves you and is sensitive to your feelings, he would have no problem with your request. The alternative is that you might have to reconsider your relationship. All the best.
If you show her how annoyed you are she will keep it up, and also if he is giving her any kind of attention she will keep it up. Does he loan her the sweater when she is cold? If so kick his a**.
talk to your guy not her. if he tells her to back off she is more likely to listen. however if you trust your guy then leave it be. as long as you trust him just think of it this way... this chic is doing her best to seduce your guy and he still chooses you
Send some one to beat the crap out her and tell her his yours.
But still trust him ok.
just don't trust her!!!
I agree with the car. Good Advice.
kill her
omg wat a *****
ask your bf he likes you more then her and tell him to do something about it!
or just talk so much **** about her with ur bf that he will hate her
How would you feel if your boyfriend....?
had sent messages on facebook to a girl when he was drunk saying she looked hot?
and flirting with a girl who fancies him and saying he likes her dress? How would you feel if your boyfriend....?
Pissed then again, he was drunk . All drunk people do stupid things.How would you feel if your boyfriend....?
i would feel that he should go find a new girlfriend, as he was newly single!
and you cant get him to change, he will always be like this when drunk, thats fine if you werent angry, but if he doesnt know where the boundrys are dont go mad when he says it to her face, or gets in a situation with her, because you have made it clear him making other women feel sexy is fine
Well. He was drunk. And it's not like he had sex with these girls.
But I'd still be pretty angry. Talk to him about it. If he understands or tries to make up for it, let him.
Very mad. I would be talking to him and looking for solutions to this problem cause for me personally, it's not acceptable.
i would slap him and dump him
if you like him too much to do it i would do the same wiv a guy who likes me and then make himsee how u felt
Boyfriend? What boyfriend? Ohhhh...you mean the one that disappeared mysteriously! Nope, haven't heard from him.
I'd be lookin' on Facebook for another bf!
angry but i wudnt dump him foor sure... talk it thru if he says sorry and he understands wot he did then he wont do it again .. (hopefully)
gd luck
Pissed off,, I would slap him round the face, tell him to get a life and kick him to the curb :)
x
Devastated
I would not think he is my boyfriend.
id probably hit him very hard, he has to respect you, make sure he gets that, make him know that he cant do that if he's your bf and if he does keep doing it then make him pay
He was just drunk, don't think too much...
pissed
Pissed off.
i'd feel very bad....n dump the jerk.
Not happy if my GF did it.
id be pissed and dump him, hes just f**kd
hes right
and flirting with a girl who fancies him and saying he likes her dress? How would you feel if your boyfriend....?
Pissed then again, he was drunk . All drunk people do stupid things.How would you feel if your boyfriend....?
i would feel that he should go find a new girlfriend, as he was newly single!
and you cant get him to change, he will always be like this when drunk, thats fine if you werent angry, but if he doesnt know where the boundrys are dont go mad when he says it to her face, or gets in a situation with her, because you have made it clear him making other women feel sexy is fine
Well. He was drunk. And it's not like he had sex with these girls.
But I'd still be pretty angry. Talk to him about it. If he understands or tries to make up for it, let him.
Very mad. I would be talking to him and looking for solutions to this problem cause for me personally, it's not acceptable.
i would slap him and dump him
if you like him too much to do it i would do the same wiv a guy who likes me and then make himsee how u felt
Boyfriend? What boyfriend? Ohhhh...you mean the one that disappeared mysteriously! Nope, haven't heard from him.
I'd be lookin' on Facebook for another bf!
angry but i wudnt dump him foor sure... talk it thru if he says sorry and he understands wot he did then he wont do it again .. (hopefully)
gd luck
Pissed off,, I would slap him round the face, tell him to get a life and kick him to the curb :)
x
Devastated
I would not think he is my boyfriend.
id probably hit him very hard, he has to respect you, make sure he gets that, make him know that he cant do that if he's your bf and if he does keep doing it then make him pay
He was just drunk, don't think too much...
pissed
Pissed off.
i'd feel very bad....n dump the jerk.
Not happy if my GF did it.
id be pissed and dump him, hes just f**kd
hes right
How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
My best friend and my boyfriend are always together.My friends all say that they flirt.My BFF came up to me and said ';You need To get your boyfriend he is all up on this girl';.I walked in my class and saw that he was behind her.Should I be mad?I talked to him before about the situation and he said that i shouldn't worry because he would never cheat on me
PLEASE HELP ME!How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
im thinkin you cant trust your boyfriend at all. You can talk to him about it but speaking from experience, if he's flirting w/his ex, he's never gonna admit to it and he WILL cheat on you. and one last peice of advice....always trust your instincts..if you think something is going on, it usually is....you wouldnt have asked this question if u didnt have doubts about him.How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
I hate to say this, but he seems too easily tempted. Set him straight, and tell him it makes your uncomfortable. He shouldn't be hanging around his ex while he is with you. Let him know what is up. Good luck!
A man is only as faithful as his options.
PLEASE HELP ME!How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
im thinkin you cant trust your boyfriend at all. You can talk to him about it but speaking from experience, if he's flirting w/his ex, he's never gonna admit to it and he WILL cheat on you. and one last peice of advice....always trust your instincts..if you think something is going on, it usually is....you wouldnt have asked this question if u didnt have doubts about him.How Do I Trust My Boyfriend (with his ex)?
I hate to say this, but he seems too easily tempted. Set him straight, and tell him it makes your uncomfortable. He shouldn't be hanging around his ex while he is with you. Let him know what is up. Good luck!
A man is only as faithful as his options.
What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
My boyfriend and I live about an hour away from eachother, so I wouldn't really call it too much of a long distance relationship cause we see eachother a couple times a week. Anyways he (25 yrs old) and his cousin (bout mid 30's) go out to the same bar every thurs and dont come bak hm till its closing time. Not to mention he has work the next day at 5am.
So i know I shouldnt snoop, but I did. I saw a text in his phone (the # wasnt saved) and it was a girl basically flirting with him.
I confronted him bout it, and he told me he and his cuz met up with some cousins' coworkers. One of the girls took an interest in my bf, then asked for his #.
I was pissed! why is my bf giving out his #?!!
He said he was sorry and that he loves me. He doesnt wanna lose me, he never slept with her, never kissed her..nothing.
He broke down and told me it'll never happen again, he doesn't know why he did it. He said maybe he liked the attention she gave him, but he knows he messed up and promised he wont ever talk to her again. or give his #out. He said he know he has something good with me and doesn't want to throw it away over nothing.
I told him I wanna work things out cause he means so much to me, but it'll take time to gain trust back.
Please, give me some advice. How would u feel? Did I do the right thing? We've been together a lil over half a yr.
I am Completely IN LOVE with him.
What should I do?????What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
Personally I think that you over re-acted. He gave his number out, yes. But he wasn't hooking up with her. Flirting is flirting, its not having sex with someone. My boyfriend talks to girls all the time. I can understand if she was txting him tryna have phone sex or sendin him naked pics. Then yea i'd feel the same wasy. But if shes just callin him a cutie n stuff. Then i dont think theres a problem. Especially since he told you he'd never do it again and how sorry he is for doing that to you. He loves you. From what you wrote. I don't think he'll do it again. Trust and believe him because you cant have a relationship without trust.What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
I think you are waaaay over-reacting. Seriously. He didn't cheat on you or anything.. And it seems like he'd do anything for you. You should just relax.. You don't need to lose any ';trust'; in him.. Sounds like you have him chained. D/w.
just make sure he will never do it again.let him work on regaining ur trust again.give him a second chance ,stuff like that happen all the time in the first 6 mnths of any relationship. but if he did anything like that again to show that hes the player type then kick his *** out of the door,plenty of fish in the sea.
Murdercycle him.
He is a man, we crave female attention and do stupid things, it doesn't mean that he cheated on you though. you have every right ot be upset, but I wouldn't sweat it unless you find anymore evidence than that. If there have never been any problems before you can probably take him for his word.
Personally i would feel pretty upset that he was texting her back. He could've just got her number as a confidence booster and never talked to her again. He also could have confronted you about it if he really felt that sorry for doing it.
However, if you really love him that much i would see how it goes and if anything else suspicious happens i would end it. It's not worth staying up worrying who he is talking to and feeling like crap about it. It will only lower your self esteem in the end.
He let her have his number and *received* a flirty text from her. He didn't initiate it, he didn't even save her # in his phone. Then he flat-out spilled his heart out, being completely honest about what happened, why he did it, and swore never to do it again.
Seriously..? This guy would be getting ';boyfriend of the year'; honors from every woman I know.
Is this pretty much the first really intense, long-term relationship you've been in? You sound like me 4-5 years ago. In other words, like a very jealous person. I'm guessing that you sometimes feel a near overpowering fear (combined with anger) that he's going to leave you or choose someone else. That's what drove you to check his phone instead of trust him (VERY, very bad on your part). That's what is causing you to still have doubts now.
He received a flirty text from her, not a *******. You're really, really going to have to be less sensitive about such an utterly harmless thing if you don't want to drive him (and most other men) away. I can't tell you how much happier I am now, having worked on those jealousy issues.
The same thing somehow happened to me my bf promised to never do something like that again and so far I've seen nothing from him (it's been 2 years now). Sounds like you should forgive him too and let him gain your trust back. Sometimes forgiving is really better than ending a good relationship but if you faced something like that again, then it would be time to give your relationship a second thought. Hope I helped.
I personally don't think it's a big deal, Guys need attention and sometimes us women make it more about us, so he might need to just have a bit of a flirty moment with a girl to boost his self esteem. that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, obviously he loves you if he feels that bad, I would be upset but don't take it to hard, from what you wrote sounds like you have a lovely relationship. Good luck
Ps. Just tell him how it upset you and ask him not to give his number away, and make him take you out for a nice dinner lol
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So i know I shouldnt snoop, but I did. I saw a text in his phone (the # wasnt saved) and it was a girl basically flirting with him.
I confronted him bout it, and he told me he and his cuz met up with some cousins' coworkers. One of the girls took an interest in my bf, then asked for his #.
I was pissed! why is my bf giving out his #?!!
He said he was sorry and that he loves me. He doesnt wanna lose me, he never slept with her, never kissed her..nothing.
He broke down and told me it'll never happen again, he doesn't know why he did it. He said maybe he liked the attention she gave him, but he knows he messed up and promised he wont ever talk to her again. or give his #out. He said he know he has something good with me and doesn't want to throw it away over nothing.
I told him I wanna work things out cause he means so much to me, but it'll take time to gain trust back.
Please, give me some advice. How would u feel? Did I do the right thing? We've been together a lil over half a yr.
I am Completely IN LOVE with him.
What should I do?????What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
Personally I think that you over re-acted. He gave his number out, yes. But he wasn't hooking up with her. Flirting is flirting, its not having sex with someone. My boyfriend talks to girls all the time. I can understand if she was txting him tryna have phone sex or sendin him naked pics. Then yea i'd feel the same wasy. But if shes just callin him a cutie n stuff. Then i dont think theres a problem. Especially since he told you he'd never do it again and how sorry he is for doing that to you. He loves you. From what you wrote. I don't think he'll do it again. Trust and believe him because you cant have a relationship without trust.What would you do if your boyfriend.. (I need guys and girls opinion)?
I think you are waaaay over-reacting. Seriously. He didn't cheat on you or anything.. And it seems like he'd do anything for you. You should just relax.. You don't need to lose any ';trust'; in him.. Sounds like you have him chained. D/w.
just make sure he will never do it again.let him work on regaining ur trust again.give him a second chance ,stuff like that happen all the time in the first 6 mnths of any relationship. but if he did anything like that again to show that hes the player type then kick his *** out of the door,plenty of fish in the sea.
Murdercycle him.
He is a man, we crave female attention and do stupid things, it doesn't mean that he cheated on you though. you have every right ot be upset, but I wouldn't sweat it unless you find anymore evidence than that. If there have never been any problems before you can probably take him for his word.
Personally i would feel pretty upset that he was texting her back. He could've just got her number as a confidence booster and never talked to her again. He also could have confronted you about it if he really felt that sorry for doing it.
However, if you really love him that much i would see how it goes and if anything else suspicious happens i would end it. It's not worth staying up worrying who he is talking to and feeling like crap about it. It will only lower your self esteem in the end.
He let her have his number and *received* a flirty text from her. He didn't initiate it, he didn't even save her # in his phone. Then he flat-out spilled his heart out, being completely honest about what happened, why he did it, and swore never to do it again.
Seriously..? This guy would be getting ';boyfriend of the year'; honors from every woman I know.
Is this pretty much the first really intense, long-term relationship you've been in? You sound like me 4-5 years ago. In other words, like a very jealous person. I'm guessing that you sometimes feel a near overpowering fear (combined with anger) that he's going to leave you or choose someone else. That's what drove you to check his phone instead of trust him (VERY, very bad on your part). That's what is causing you to still have doubts now.
He received a flirty text from her, not a *******. You're really, really going to have to be less sensitive about such an utterly harmless thing if you don't want to drive him (and most other men) away. I can't tell you how much happier I am now, having worked on those jealousy issues.
The same thing somehow happened to me my bf promised to never do something like that again and so far I've seen nothing from him (it's been 2 years now). Sounds like you should forgive him too and let him gain your trust back. Sometimes forgiving is really better than ending a good relationship but if you faced something like that again, then it would be time to give your relationship a second thought. Hope I helped.
I personally don't think it's a big deal, Guys need attention and sometimes us women make it more about us, so he might need to just have a bit of a flirty moment with a girl to boost his self esteem. that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, obviously he loves you if he feels that bad, I would be upset but don't take it to hard, from what you wrote sounds like you have a lovely relationship. Good luck
Ps. Just tell him how it upset you and ask him not to give his number away, and make him take you out for a nice dinner lol
Best of luck!
How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
was talking to girls on the internet, flirting and saying things like ';kiss'; and ';cuddle'; and ';you are mine and I am yours';? He is with me every day so it isn't like he has an opportunity to really cheat on me really, but he is still talking to these girls on the internet. He also tells me that they are just friends but he won't tell them he has a girlfriend. He said it was cause one of them is having a hard time because her best friend has a boyfriend and I guess she is jealous, but at the same time he in a way is leading this girl on and yet he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me only. I am jealous but I don't know if the jealousy is warranted or not. But it bothers me and I have told him it bothers me and he says things like, ';you swear I am going to see them or something';. They don't live in the same state as us but still. Would anyone else feel this way?How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
You know just let him do whatever.
It's his mistakes he is going to be making, and trust me, since he's leading that girl on it is NOT going to be good for him, but really good for you because once she finds out that he has a girlfriend, that's just another girl you don't have to worry about..
Also are you sure your boyfriend isn't just doing this to make you jealous?
Maybe he wants some attention, soooo MAYBE you should just ignore the fact that he talks to these girls online and the fact that they dont even know that he has a girlfriend, and maybe he will stop because he is thinking that it has no effect on you.How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
I think anyone else would feel jelous and maybe even angry at their b/f. If your b/f if talking and flirting with other girls even on the internet maybe you should double think your relationship because your supposed to trust your sig. other and not have to worry about them with other girls
i would be angry...if he really loves you then he should stop because if something is hurting the person you love then you would do anything in your power to make that something go away........
Hell no that would fly with me! You better put a top to that real quick!
Well I wouldnt be happy if i was you - just cause he isnt physically doing anything it must have crossed his mind if he is getting up to that - i would be putting my foot down if I was you!
of course you have all the right to be mad at him. why does he bother talking and meeting new girls online, when you could spend all this time being together, have a walk, cook , watch a movie.. I am in a relationship, and even if we both used to chat and meet people online, this is just not like us anymore. We rarely do it, I entered in a chat room I guess once in 2 years and I got bored immediately cause I;m not interested in meeting and getting to know any other guy. so why waste time? if he still like to meet some other.. than give him this chanse.. Have a talk with him.. I don;t think this is fair to you..
You know just let him do whatever.
It's his mistakes he is going to be making, and trust me, since he's leading that girl on it is NOT going to be good for him, but really good for you because once she finds out that he has a girlfriend, that's just another girl you don't have to worry about..
Also are you sure your boyfriend isn't just doing this to make you jealous?
Maybe he wants some attention, soooo MAYBE you should just ignore the fact that he talks to these girls online and the fact that they dont even know that he has a girlfriend, and maybe he will stop because he is thinking that it has no effect on you.How would you feel if your boyfriend...?
I think anyone else would feel jelous and maybe even angry at their b/f. If your b/f if talking and flirting with other girls even on the internet maybe you should double think your relationship because your supposed to trust your sig. other and not have to worry about them with other girls
i would be angry...if he really loves you then he should stop because if something is hurting the person you love then you would do anything in your power to make that something go away........
Hell no that would fly with me! You better put a top to that real quick!
Well I wouldnt be happy if i was you - just cause he isnt physically doing anything it must have crossed his mind if he is getting up to that - i would be putting my foot down if I was you!
of course you have all the right to be mad at him. why does he bother talking and meeting new girls online, when you could spend all this time being together, have a walk, cook , watch a movie.. I am in a relationship, and even if we both used to chat and meet people online, this is just not like us anymore. We rarely do it, I entered in a chat room I guess once in 2 years and I got bored immediately cause I;m not interested in meeting and getting to know any other guy. so why waste time? if he still like to meet some other.. than give him this chanse.. Have a talk with him.. I don;t think this is fair to you..
What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
My current boyfriend Calif is the most consided and jelous person i know wen we talk he is always bragging about when another girl asks him out or flirts with him or tries to feel him up and says i am lucky i would agree,but i am not sure how lucky i am i think i am kinda unlucky in this one cause the thing is i can't even talk to another guy w/out him freaking out asking 20 questions like he can't trust me and i know i can't trust him cause he has cheated on me before i have wanted to get rid of him for a bit now,but i am afraid that if i do he will hurt himself and it will be my fault..wut do i do??What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
Get the h*ll out of that relationship and get out quick!!!! It is not a good thing to have your boyfriend yell at you for talking to other guys, that's just ridiculous. He is trying to be controlling and it is not a healthy relationship. Sooner or later he will end up being abusive mentally, verbally, and physically. You don't need your boyfriend telling you how lucky you are to have him, that's outrageous. He keeps saying that to persuade you to stay him. He should be telling you how lucky he is to be with you. Get out now!!What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
just tell him really softly that you wanna move on and meet new ppl i guess he'll understand
Get a new Boyfiend. Simple as that. Why do people feel they need to stay with some one who is not their spouse? The only thing keeping you from leaving is you. Sure you may have agreed to not see other people, but you know what, things change.
If you are not happy in the temp relationship, and face it, that's what boyfriend-girlfriend is, temporairy. So put your feelings in check, ask yourself this, is this a person I am PROUD to call my BF? Is this some one who will make me proud? Is this the person who makes me a better person?
You know what to do so quit whinnig and do it. Find a new BF.
This type of personality in a partner is a warning sign. He is trying to control you. Its possible that his actions might become more then words. He sounds like he could potentially become abusive. I say get out of the relationship he sounds like a real tool. You deserve someone who can trust you and someone who will treat you right.
If he can talk to you about other girls asking him out he shouldn't get mad or angry at you if you just talk to a boy.
Usually jealous partners are cheating themselves, or they have the potential of becoming a danger to you.
If he is so conceded he wont harm himself he can go get one of those girls that flirt w/him so much! I am 39 and have learned that when men are jealous of you they are doing something wrong!
Get outta there and go find you a real man!lol
oh hell no lady!! this situation is obvious!! DUMP THAT RAT BASTARD!! u my firend are only askign for truoble the fact alone that he has cheated on you and gets super paranoid about u talking to other gusy means he is CHEATING ON YOU NOW!! what guy would brag about getting felt up? and what woman would take that sh*t... ?? serisouly i wish my husband would try and tell me some stuff like this...i woudl beat his a$$! but then again u seem a lil young. any woman that ';knows'; herself already and respects herself wouldnt deal with this no matter how cute or rich a guy is... he is manipulating you and you are letting him... MOVE ON! dump taht loser!! he got a guilty consience and thats why he cant stand it when other guys talk to you cause he knows what he would be thinking or tryign to do. and seriously, why is he close enough to a girl that she would even have the chance to feel him up???thinka bout this woman!! u deserve better! if u dont stand up for yourself and show some self respect than who ever will?
Get the h*ll out of that relationship and get out quick!!!! It is not a good thing to have your boyfriend yell at you for talking to other guys, that's just ridiculous. He is trying to be controlling and it is not a healthy relationship. Sooner or later he will end up being abusive mentally, verbally, and physically. You don't need your boyfriend telling you how lucky you are to have him, that's outrageous. He keeps saying that to persuade you to stay him. He should be telling you how lucky he is to be with you. Get out now!!What do you do when your boyfriend is consided and the very very jelous type??
just tell him really softly that you wanna move on and meet new ppl i guess he'll understand
Get a new Boyfiend. Simple as that. Why do people feel they need to stay with some one who is not their spouse? The only thing keeping you from leaving is you. Sure you may have agreed to not see other people, but you know what, things change.
If you are not happy in the temp relationship, and face it, that's what boyfriend-girlfriend is, temporairy. So put your feelings in check, ask yourself this, is this a person I am PROUD to call my BF? Is this some one who will make me proud? Is this the person who makes me a better person?
You know what to do so quit whinnig and do it. Find a new BF.
This type of personality in a partner is a warning sign. He is trying to control you. Its possible that his actions might become more then words. He sounds like he could potentially become abusive. I say get out of the relationship he sounds like a real tool. You deserve someone who can trust you and someone who will treat you right.
If he can talk to you about other girls asking him out he shouldn't get mad or angry at you if you just talk to a boy.
Usually jealous partners are cheating themselves, or they have the potential of becoming a danger to you.
If he is so conceded he wont harm himself he can go get one of those girls that flirt w/him so much! I am 39 and have learned that when men are jealous of you they are doing something wrong!
Get outta there and go find you a real man!lol
oh hell no lady!! this situation is obvious!! DUMP THAT RAT BASTARD!! u my firend are only askign for truoble the fact alone that he has cheated on you and gets super paranoid about u talking to other gusy means he is CHEATING ON YOU NOW!! what guy would brag about getting felt up? and what woman would take that sh*t... ?? serisouly i wish my husband would try and tell me some stuff like this...i woudl beat his a$$! but then again u seem a lil young. any woman that ';knows'; herself already and respects herself wouldnt deal with this no matter how cute or rich a guy is... he is manipulating you and you are letting him... MOVE ON! dump taht loser!! he got a guilty consience and thats why he cant stand it when other guys talk to you cause he knows what he would be thinking or tryign to do. and seriously, why is he close enough to a girl that she would even have the chance to feel him up???thinka bout this woman!! u deserve better! if u dont stand up for yourself and show some self respect than who ever will?
How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
My boyfriend seems to be critising me more often lately, and he get's really angry over nothing and snaps at me for no apparent reason, and then says i started it first and i'm left siting there completely dumbfounded, it's like i can't do anything right these days, and he flirts with every girl he get's the chance to talk to even in front of me, and so i just walk away till it's over. but his latest stunt really rocked me, i probably should say that i'm very pregnant and about to give birth soon, he has started coming at me with the '; how do i know it's mine'; conversation. which really hurts, because we've been together for five years and when i'm in a serious realtionship i don't cheat. mind you he was upfornt in saying that he would be less attracted to me if i put on weight, normally i'm quite a petite girl. please advise me on what to do, maybe he's just scared about the new baby, what do you think?How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He should be happy that he is bless with a child with you, but his crazy to say things like that to you. If he is acting distance away from you and say those mean things to you, maybe he is. but i cant judge a person's attitude. ask one of your friend to see where he goes. see if he is really cheating on you. Good luck.How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He's an ******. You don't deserve a guy who treats you like that. You have the right to demand for support for the baby but you also have the choice to move on and try to be happy without a toxic partner.
Well Talk to him!
You need to!
Your both about to have a baby together, and you don't want that beautiful healthy baby girl/boy not to grow up knowing their father. (Like me)
But what my mum did was grow me up her self until i was 3 and found my dad (step-dad) and has grown me up 13 years later like i was his own!
He treats my mum like he will die if something happens too her!...
My opinion is talk to him, if he still gets close to any more women dump him.
but for sure he will be crawling back, then leave you then crawl back, then leave you.!
So its your Choice to call it off!!!
You should never let anyone treat you badly
I don't think u can tell by looking at him, maybe u should ask him and see what his reaction is like, then maybe u might be able to tell if he is cheating on u
There are certain signs that may suggest a guy is cheating but it is a generalisation. Such as if a guy is more worried and controlling about what you are doing,where your going and who you are seeing. It may suggest he is doing the wrong thing and is guilty of it thats why he is on your back (iam going off experience and i left him) However in saying that i have also been like that to my bf, not becoz i have cheated but becoz x's have done it to me and i dont trust people anymore and im scared that all guys cheat.
Its hard to say what he is thinking, but you should confront him about it. you have a right to seems you are about to bring a child into this world together and he should be taking some responsibility. he obviously has no respect if he is flirting with other girls infront of u. he may also be scared. either way flirting with other gals is a big no no.
you have to look after yourself right now thats the best thing.get support from family, friends.
He should be happy that he is bless with a child with you, but his crazy to say things like that to you. If he is acting distance away from you and say those mean things to you, maybe he is. but i cant judge a person's attitude. ask one of your friend to see where he goes. see if he is really cheating on you. Good luck.How can you tell if your boyfriend has cheated on you.?
He's an ******. You don't deserve a guy who treats you like that. You have the right to demand for support for the baby but you also have the choice to move on and try to be happy without a toxic partner.
Well Talk to him!
You need to!
Your both about to have a baby together, and you don't want that beautiful healthy baby girl/boy not to grow up knowing their father. (Like me)
But what my mum did was grow me up her self until i was 3 and found my dad (step-dad) and has grown me up 13 years later like i was his own!
He treats my mum like he will die if something happens too her!...
My opinion is talk to him, if he still gets close to any more women dump him.
but for sure he will be crawling back, then leave you then crawl back, then leave you.!
So its your Choice to call it off!!!
You should never let anyone treat you badly
I don't think u can tell by looking at him, maybe u should ask him and see what his reaction is like, then maybe u might be able to tell if he is cheating on u
There are certain signs that may suggest a guy is cheating but it is a generalisation. Such as if a guy is more worried and controlling about what you are doing,where your going and who you are seeing. It may suggest he is doing the wrong thing and is guilty of it thats why he is on your back (iam going off experience and i left him) However in saying that i have also been like that to my bf, not becoz i have cheated but becoz x's have done it to me and i dont trust people anymore and im scared that all guys cheat.
Its hard to say what he is thinking, but you should confront him about it. you have a right to seems you are about to bring a child into this world together and he should be taking some responsibility. he obviously has no respect if he is flirting with other girls infront of u. he may also be scared. either way flirting with other gals is a big no no.
you have to look after yourself right now thats the best thing.get support from family, friends.
How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
My boyfriend and i had been going out on and off for almost a year. I have broken up with him twice, but we always stayed really tight because i consider him one of my best friends so i made sure that we would. But both times that's just lead us to getting back together, and both times it was so much better after we had had a ';break';. But he recently broke up with me, and before it was kinda my responsibility for us to stay close, but he's not doing that. He's acting weird and uptight and he barely talks to me. But we didn't have a fight or anything before we broke up, in fact, i thought we were stronger than ever =( . It was incredibly sudden, the only reason he gave was that we should see other people (which is why i broke up with him before.) But he doesn't seem to like anyone and i've already found 3 guys (not meaning to brag haha) that would like to go out with me and are flirting with me ferociously haha. I guess this is good to make him jealous... but i don't know if it'll work since that's not how we got back together before.
I talk to him a bit, when i do its always nice trying to be buddies with him. And i have told him a bit about the guys, i've been in a good mood around him and i've been myself (since that's apparently who he liked before.) But he always looks pissed or mopey %26gt;%26lt; i don't know if it's because he still likes me although that's what i think and i know him very well that's exactly how he acted when we were broken up before. But yeah, i don't pester him with phone calls or anything like that.
Am i doing the right thing? What have some of you done to get him/her back?How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i didn't. a break up is a break up.. let it goHow did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i'll get him back by advancing in life.Doing great things to better myself and my family.Have my own co. be a ceo and have a famous talk show and looking very sexy hot.
Don't waste anymore time on this guy. If a guy ever left me, I found someone else and that someone was always a better person.
If you feel like what you had was good try to get him back but I would have moved on ;)
persistence is key. which i have none of, so................................... yeah.......... lol
When me and my old bf broke up i went out with one of his really good friends like he did to me and he got very jealous so we went back out(: and yes i think you are doing the right thing just maybe don't talk to him about the other guys it probably makes him feel upset. also maybe he feels like you wont want to take him back because he broke up with you and he is scared to figure out? good luck(:
I talk to him a bit, when i do its always nice trying to be buddies with him. And i have told him a bit about the guys, i've been in a good mood around him and i've been myself (since that's apparently who he liked before.) But he always looks pissed or mopey %26gt;%26lt; i don't know if it's because he still likes me although that's what i think and i know him very well that's exactly how he acted when we were broken up before. But yeah, i don't pester him with phone calls or anything like that.
Am i doing the right thing? What have some of you done to get him/her back?How did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i didn't. a break up is a break up.. let it goHow did you get your boyfriend/girlfriend back?
i'll get him back by advancing in life.Doing great things to better myself and my family.Have my own co. be a ceo and have a famous talk show and looking very sexy hot.
Don't waste anymore time on this guy. If a guy ever left me, I found someone else and that someone was always a better person.
If you feel like what you had was good try to get him back but I would have moved on ;)
persistence is key. which i have none of, so................................... yeah.......... lol
When me and my old bf broke up i went out with one of his really good friends like he did to me and he got very jealous so we went back out(: and yes i think you are doing the right thing just maybe don't talk to him about the other guys it probably makes him feel upset. also maybe he feels like you wont want to take him back because he broke up with you and he is scared to figure out? good luck(:
How would you like it if your boyfriend?
was texting a girl and she brought up the past about them liking eachother back then and telling him she missed him and loved him and wanted to be in the same class together..... oh and did i mention she sent him a picture with her and her new hair.
he says they are just friends but then he says he loved her too and wished they would be best friends forever. i talked to her on myspace and she said she wasnt trying to take him away from me and i had no worries but she goes and texts him that stuff. it makes me think she really still likes him and it pisses me offf!!!!!!!!! what should i do. should i be upset... and my boyfriend says who cares shes a friend but it seems to me he is flirting and he even let me look through his phone because apparently he has nothing to hide but then i see those texts. yeah right....How would you like it if your boyfriend?
tell her to please don't talk to my boyfriend, it makes me very uncomortable.
or...(Don't do Both.) talk to your boyfriend and tell him you don't like it when she talks to you because she likes you and it's not nice to me and her.
ask him to please don't text or call her when she trys to contact him.
i think you should tell the girl, because your boyfriend will think you are too clingy and afraid of the relationship, and maybe other things, and that won't be good.
just please tell her to back off (the way i said it) from him
he says they are just friends but then he says he loved her too and wished they would be best friends forever. i talked to her on myspace and she said she wasnt trying to take him away from me and i had no worries but she goes and texts him that stuff. it makes me think she really still likes him and it pisses me offf!!!!!!!!! what should i do. should i be upset... and my boyfriend says who cares shes a friend but it seems to me he is flirting and he even let me look through his phone because apparently he has nothing to hide but then i see those texts. yeah right....How would you like it if your boyfriend?
tell her to please don't talk to my boyfriend, it makes me very uncomortable.
or...(Don't do Both.) talk to your boyfriend and tell him you don't like it when she talks to you because she likes you and it's not nice to me and her.
ask him to please don't text or call her when she trys to contact him.
i think you should tell the girl, because your boyfriend will think you are too clingy and afraid of the relationship, and maybe other things, and that won't be good.
just please tell her to back off (the way i said it) from him
When you suspect your boyfriend of cheating through evidence on myspace...?
I am totally crazy about my boyfriend of 7 months and and vis versa. He works during the day while i go to school and i only see him after we both are free a couple days during the week and on the weekends.We dont have the same group of friends nor do they associate so if he WAS to cheat...i wouldnt have a way to find out. I've been trusting him for a while until i started noticing a pretty girl and him flirting over myspace. He has been telling her how gorgeous she is and yada yada yada while she puts a pic of him on her page with hearts by it. Theres more but you catch my drift...i tried talking to him once saying if he was to ever loose love for me would he let me know ? and he got all offensive saying i have to trust him. So i dont know what to do now. I'll look stupid if i blame him for something i see over myspace...but still!!! ahh someone help! anyone have this problem? did i mention she is before me on his top! lmao this sucks!! i sound retarded=/When you suspect your boyfriend of cheating through evidence on myspace...?
you sound like a really sweet girl and myspace is not the place to go if you are in a relationship that you believe is something serious if you both really cared about one another you and him would be happier off deleting myspace if you wanna keep it. you can't get mad at him for what he writes to other girls and hunny he is a lame *** boyfriend to do that to you. i hope it works out but he sounds like a total ******* ***.When you suspect your boyfriend of cheating through evidence on myspace...?
i dont think u sound retarted!!!!
what is his problem... myspace is just somethiing over the internet.....
but uhh.... if ur his girl... and he has some one else first.. damn that must suck..
hmmmm how bout if u continue playing the game!!!!
start flirting with someone and put them on ur 1st....
then if he tells u something ull be like well wtf u have her there why not me!!!
idk..... just a sug.
no offense, but you do sound a bit silly. this is a form of cheating. not a horrible form. but still cheating. i say get rid of him
DAMN THAT iS PRETTy MEST UP NO yU DONT SOUND RETARTED AND WHy WOULD HE HAVE HER ON BEFOR yu??
i WOULD LiVE HiM AND MOVE ON!
BEST OF LUCK!=]]
He's being a jerk and you have every right to be upset about this..He's acting retarded..And disrespectful to you..Especialy since he knows your gonna see this..What a jerk I'd stop talking to him but you prob won't cause you really like him so other than that you need to talk to him about it
Are you serious! You have every right to suspect him! Her pic is before yours! Oh no girl you need to stand up for yourself. Your a pretty young girl, go out and find someone who will respect you!
Flat out tell him what you are seeing, and how it's making you feel. Tell him that it's not completely a matter of trust, but more so a matter of plain respect. Respect for you, and for the relationship he claims to be in WITH you. For him to think that you wouldn't be hurt, or wouldn't question his behavior, makes me think he very well just may be a complete moron. I mean c'mon!
What would he feel if the tables were turned? Hmm? They never think about that one till they are staring it in the face.
omg girlfriends should always be number one on myspace! I would just be like WTF Why are you saying this girl is gorgeous and why does she have pics of you on her myspace page. Tell him your feelings are hurt and to stop giving him a reason not to trust him. If he gets offensive again, dump his ***!!
Wow she should not be before you on his top. I have had this problem and it didn't work out for me. I think that you should maybe ask her if he has ever told her if he has a girlfriend. Then if she says no then you should confront him. He shouldn't get to have someone like you if he is doing something like that. o yea check mine out if you want send me an email and I will send you my url ok.Fashion leather necklace guy myspace
you sound like a really sweet girl and myspace is not the place to go if you are in a relationship that you believe is something serious if you both really cared about one another you and him would be happier off deleting myspace if you wanna keep it. you can't get mad at him for what he writes to other girls and hunny he is a lame *** boyfriend to do that to you. i hope it works out but he sounds like a total ******* ***.When you suspect your boyfriend of cheating through evidence on myspace...?
i dont think u sound retarted!!!!
what is his problem... myspace is just somethiing over the internet.....
but uhh.... if ur his girl... and he has some one else first.. damn that must suck..
hmmmm how bout if u continue playing the game!!!!
start flirting with someone and put them on ur 1st....
then if he tells u something ull be like well wtf u have her there why not me!!!
idk..... just a sug.
no offense, but you do sound a bit silly. this is a form of cheating. not a horrible form. but still cheating. i say get rid of him
DAMN THAT iS PRETTy MEST UP NO yU DONT SOUND RETARTED AND WHy WOULD HE HAVE HER ON BEFOR yu??
i WOULD LiVE HiM AND MOVE ON!
BEST OF LUCK!=]]
He's being a jerk and you have every right to be upset about this..He's acting retarded..And disrespectful to you..Especialy since he knows your gonna see this..What a jerk I'd stop talking to him but you prob won't cause you really like him so other than that you need to talk to him about it
Are you serious! You have every right to suspect him! Her pic is before yours! Oh no girl you need to stand up for yourself. Your a pretty young girl, go out and find someone who will respect you!
Flat out tell him what you are seeing, and how it's making you feel. Tell him that it's not completely a matter of trust, but more so a matter of plain respect. Respect for you, and for the relationship he claims to be in WITH you. For him to think that you wouldn't be hurt, or wouldn't question his behavior, makes me think he very well just may be a complete moron. I mean c'mon!
What would he feel if the tables were turned? Hmm? They never think about that one till they are staring it in the face.
omg girlfriends should always be number one on myspace! I would just be like WTF Why are you saying this girl is gorgeous and why does she have pics of you on her myspace page. Tell him your feelings are hurt and to stop giving him a reason not to trust him. If he gets offensive again, dump his ***!!
Wow she should not be before you on his top. I have had this problem and it didn't work out for me. I think that you should maybe ask her if he has ever told her if he has a girlfriend. Then if she says no then you should confront him. He shouldn't get to have someone like you if he is doing something like that. o yea check mine out if you want send me an email and I will send you my url ok.
Would you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
So I am out of the country for 6 months away from my man and I think I might have cheated on him...I went out one night with some friends and ended up letting another guy kiss me on the neck :( It was a poor judgement call %26amp; a little (or a lot) too much alcohol, yes I know that's not an excuse. I regret my actions and wish the situation never happened. The kiss was pretty sexual :( But I didn't let anything else further happen, besides flirting, holding hands briefly, putting my leg over his and running my fingers through his hair...
I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I really love him. It was the first time I ';cheated.'; I am truly very sorry and we planned on spending the rest of their lives together...What should I do? I want to be honest and open with him and do not want to carry this burden on my shoulders any longer because it is killing me. Should I tell him? Or not because that will probably ruin everything?
I hate this predicament I put myself in but I want to do the right thing. At the same time I couldn't imagine loosing him. I do not want to hurt him either he's such a great guy and doesn't deserve this. If I do tell him, how should I do it? Over the phone, in person, or just not at all. I would prefer telling him in person but that would mean it would be months from now. I know sooner is probably better but I don't want to tell him while I'm gone because then I won't be there to try and make things right. What if he wants to break up for good or hooks up with another girl to spite me? I could tell him when he visits, but then that would completely ruin what little time we will have together, and I'll also feel bad for making him travel so far to be dissappointed. But if I tell him before hand, he might not come at all. I was thinking about just leaving and coming home for good to tell him in person and try to work on things...am I overreacting?
Also, is it still cheating if we didn't have sex or kiss on the lips, and if the actions were mostly the guys and not mine? Please help! I'm so distraught so I'd appreciate it if you refran from any sarcastic or rude responses.Would you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
How would you feel if he did that with another girl? whatever your answer i would consider that as to how he will view it as cheating or not. Cheating isnt just about physical its about emotional too. And your right being drunk isnt an excuse. I say tell him you wouldnt want to not know somethingWould you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
I dont know your boyfriend or anything but I think that you should tell him, I mean it was a kiss and flirting its not like it was a makeout session or sex, Telling him might break his trust for you. Good luck in whatever you decide.
I agree it is still cheating, but.................if you honestly only did that little (kissing) dont fess up, but get your crap together, you need to think about it as ';Would I like it if my boyfriend was doing this to me'; You can stumble and not fall, but you can't fall without stumbling. You have total control of this situation.
well if u dont like him anymore and ur seeing other ppl just tell him. no one wants a cheater
to be honest I wouldnt reallly count this as cheating. You didnt even kiss the guy on the lips. I wouldnt worry about it to much. Just dont put yourself in this type of situation again.
this is such a hard decesion ok, that is cheating like it or not. um honestly if you were my girl i would leave so... i wouldnt want to know so if you want it to be over then dont tell him just dont do it again.. how old are you anyways babe?
Honestly I wouldn't tell him unless you tell him in your suicide note. not being sarcastic or rude some people should just do it thanks
Don't tell him unless you want it to be over.
yes u cheated and i hope your boyfriend leave u..
You were intimate with one another. That, my dear, is cheating. You should tell your boyfriend.
LOOL DUDE, HAV A HART TO HART
Yes, it's still cheating.
Better not to tell him, and never cheat again.
It's a judgment call. I don't think a lot of guys can take this. Even if he tries, it might lead to him getting insecure way too much, wanting to know where you are ALL the time. You know... it'll just not be fun anymore.
If you're sure you won't ever let it happen again... no matter how much alcohol is involved... just keep it to your self.
Remember, guys have feelings just as much has girls do.
Best of luck!
i think that you should tell him and if he loves you as much as you love him then he should forgive you. you should also explain how sorry you were and everything else you put in the question above and that you will never do it again.
No don't tell him. I don't think it was that bad. You get lonely when you are away sometimes, and you didn't take it very far.
That's not cheating but its not what you should be doing. Tell him what happened because it is bothering you that you felt you were inappropriate and wait till you see each other again.
The tough part is that if you don't tell him, you have to live knowing you did this and weren't honest with him about if for the rest of your relationship. Personally that would kill me. I'm sure it would hurt him to know the truth, but if he forgives you then you can both move on being on the same page. If you don't think he would forgive your mistake, maybe you two aren't meant to be anyway..?
It's a tough situation but you know your relationship and him better than we do! Anyway good luck and don't be too hard on yourself and learn from your mistake!
Hmm, you should tell him, tell him how stupid it was, because imagine if he somehow found out and you hadn't said anything about it?
if you plan on staying with him it's better not to tell him
just promise yourself to never do it again
he won't like it and probably won't stay with you if you tell him you cheated %26amp; things won't ever be the same
girl imma tell your boyfriend about this just you wait girlll oh no you is gonna be in troubllllee gurrrlll
my conscience would absolutely kill me. i would tell mines bkuz i wouldnt be able to think of anything else....girl just tell him. whatever happens, happens!
i would consider it cheating and you need to just be straight up and tell him
its better for you to tell him than have him find out from anyone else
If you tell him you will feel better and he will feel bad. He will wonder if he could trust you again. He will never feel the same about you. He may still marry you but it will not be the same as it couldn't been. Telling him just makes you feel better. Do what you want, but I vote don't tell.
If you want to keep the relationship with him going, you definitely need to confess to your affair. Hopefully he will understand. But your boyfriend may want some repayment...serious sex!
only if it was girl on top
Well I'm a guy but I would say would you want him to tell you if he was fulling around on you. You know just go with your gut do the right think. I would say tell him.
honesty is the best policy
tell him
If your truly sorry, don't say. It'd be selfish to say, as you'd just be relieving your own guilt. If you do it again, do say as your just playing games and its not fair on him. And alcohol can have a big affect, and if anything, you should be proud it was just a kiss on the neck.
Tell him the truth. Its just going to bug you forever.
Don't be selfish.
I would go to confession even if you are not religious so you can get it out of system instead of wasting money on a therpist and not tell him and make the same mistake again and promise yourself to be faithful no matter how hard it is..bc..dammit is hard when hot guys throw themselves at you..(been there)strange how ppl are attracted to you when you are taken and when your single...no one is looking! wth..so..the best you can do is follow your moral life and combine them with what you know is only right for you.
the truth does hurt..what they don't know won't hurt them..if you tell him..he will A.leave you.B.call you a cheater C.stay with you if he understands and be strong to earn his trust back and kiss alot of azz!
stop over reacting..and guys do it to us..so is what goes around,comes around.
I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I really love him. It was the first time I ';cheated.'; I am truly very sorry and we planned on spending the rest of their lives together...What should I do? I want to be honest and open with him and do not want to carry this burden on my shoulders any longer because it is killing me. Should I tell him? Or not because that will probably ruin everything?
I hate this predicament I put myself in but I want to do the right thing. At the same time I couldn't imagine loosing him. I do not want to hurt him either he's such a great guy and doesn't deserve this. If I do tell him, how should I do it? Over the phone, in person, or just not at all. I would prefer telling him in person but that would mean it would be months from now. I know sooner is probably better but I don't want to tell him while I'm gone because then I won't be there to try and make things right. What if he wants to break up for good or hooks up with another girl to spite me? I could tell him when he visits, but then that would completely ruin what little time we will have together, and I'll also feel bad for making him travel so far to be dissappointed. But if I tell him before hand, he might not come at all. I was thinking about just leaving and coming home for good to tell him in person and try to work on things...am I overreacting?
Also, is it still cheating if we didn't have sex or kiss on the lips, and if the actions were mostly the guys and not mine? Please help! I'm so distraught so I'd appreciate it if you refran from any sarcastic or rude responses.Would you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
How would you feel if he did that with another girl? whatever your answer i would consider that as to how he will view it as cheating or not. Cheating isnt just about physical its about emotional too. And your right being drunk isnt an excuse. I say tell him you wouldnt want to not know somethingWould you tell your boyfriend you cheated on him?
I dont know your boyfriend or anything but I think that you should tell him, I mean it was a kiss and flirting its not like it was a makeout session or sex, Telling him might break his trust for you. Good luck in whatever you decide.
I agree it is still cheating, but.................if you honestly only did that little (kissing) dont fess up, but get your crap together, you need to think about it as ';Would I like it if my boyfriend was doing this to me'; You can stumble and not fall, but you can't fall without stumbling. You have total control of this situation.
well if u dont like him anymore and ur seeing other ppl just tell him. no one wants a cheater
to be honest I wouldnt reallly count this as cheating. You didnt even kiss the guy on the lips. I wouldnt worry about it to much. Just dont put yourself in this type of situation again.
this is such a hard decesion ok, that is cheating like it or not. um honestly if you were my girl i would leave so... i wouldnt want to know so if you want it to be over then dont tell him just dont do it again.. how old are you anyways babe?
Honestly I wouldn't tell him unless you tell him in your suicide note. not being sarcastic or rude some people should just do it thanks
Don't tell him unless you want it to be over.
yes u cheated and i hope your boyfriend leave u..
You were intimate with one another. That, my dear, is cheating. You should tell your boyfriend.
LOOL DUDE, HAV A HART TO HART
Yes, it's still cheating.
Better not to tell him, and never cheat again.
It's a judgment call. I don't think a lot of guys can take this. Even if he tries, it might lead to him getting insecure way too much, wanting to know where you are ALL the time. You know... it'll just not be fun anymore.
If you're sure you won't ever let it happen again... no matter how much alcohol is involved... just keep it to your self.
Remember, guys have feelings just as much has girls do.
Best of luck!
i think that you should tell him and if he loves you as much as you love him then he should forgive you. you should also explain how sorry you were and everything else you put in the question above and that you will never do it again.
No don't tell him. I don't think it was that bad. You get lonely when you are away sometimes, and you didn't take it very far.
That's not cheating but its not what you should be doing. Tell him what happened because it is bothering you that you felt you were inappropriate and wait till you see each other again.
The tough part is that if you don't tell him, you have to live knowing you did this and weren't honest with him about if for the rest of your relationship. Personally that would kill me. I'm sure it would hurt him to know the truth, but if he forgives you then you can both move on being on the same page. If you don't think he would forgive your mistake, maybe you two aren't meant to be anyway..?
It's a tough situation but you know your relationship and him better than we do! Anyway good luck and don't be too hard on yourself and learn from your mistake!
Hmm, you should tell him, tell him how stupid it was, because imagine if he somehow found out and you hadn't said anything about it?
if you plan on staying with him it's better not to tell him
just promise yourself to never do it again
he won't like it and probably won't stay with you if you tell him you cheated %26amp; things won't ever be the same
girl imma tell your boyfriend about this just you wait girlll oh no you is gonna be in troubllllee gurrrlll
my conscience would absolutely kill me. i would tell mines bkuz i wouldnt be able to think of anything else....girl just tell him. whatever happens, happens!
i would consider it cheating and you need to just be straight up and tell him
its better for you to tell him than have him find out from anyone else
If you tell him you will feel better and he will feel bad. He will wonder if he could trust you again. He will never feel the same about you. He may still marry you but it will not be the same as it couldn't been. Telling him just makes you feel better. Do what you want, but I vote don't tell.
If you want to keep the relationship with him going, you definitely need to confess to your affair. Hopefully he will understand. But your boyfriend may want some repayment...serious sex!
only if it was girl on top
Well I'm a guy but I would say would you want him to tell you if he was fulling around on you. You know just go with your gut do the right think. I would say tell him.
honesty is the best policy
tell him
If your truly sorry, don't say. It'd be selfish to say, as you'd just be relieving your own guilt. If you do it again, do say as your just playing games and its not fair on him. And alcohol can have a big affect, and if anything, you should be proud it was just a kiss on the neck.
Tell him the truth. Its just going to bug you forever.
Don't be selfish.
I would go to confession even if you are not religious so you can get it out of system instead of wasting money on a therpist and not tell him and make the same mistake again and promise yourself to be faithful no matter how hard it is..bc..dammit is hard when hot guys throw themselves at you..(been there)strange how ppl are attracted to you when you are taken and when your single...no one is looking! wth..so..the best you can do is follow your moral life and combine them with what you know is only right for you.
the truth does hurt..what they don't know won't hurt them..if you tell him..he will A.leave you.B.call you a cheater C.stay with you if he understands and be strong to earn his trust back and kiss alot of azz!
stop over reacting..and guys do it to us..so is what goes around,comes around.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO? If your boyfriend treated you awfully like this? (I added some details)?
(sorry it's so long! I threw a few (what i think are) funny comments in there for your amusement while reading)
Okay, so we've been dating for two months. He's a really sweet guy, and I'm not really sure what he sees in me but eh, I'm not about to argue with him. We've known each other since 2nd grade, and we had a thing goin on then, but then he stayed back, and now we're back together (he's a freshie and I'm a sophomore) so it's sorta like a child-hood sweetheart thing we got goin on here (I know, aww how cute, lol) But he doesn't act like he really wants to be there
Lunch was the only class we had together otherwise i barely see him during the day. But I had to change my lunch (I HAD to change my bio class! That teacher was craaaaaazy! lol)
Now, when you tell your bf that the only time you see each other all day is being replaced with a class and you won't see each other, much no more, you'd THINK he'd have at least a little interest right? well, what I got for my answer was a ';So?'; So you know, geeeeee, don't care too much there your head might burst. So you know, we're not gonna see each other, why not get together after school? During the weekend? Ha ha ha, silly me! He can't be bothered to do that. One night, I called him, and he couldn't some out because he had just eaten. All I could think ouf was that Ellen DeGeneres skit where ';Oh, I REALLY wanted to see that movie. But daaaaamn, I JUST opened a yogurt. Yeah you go without me I'm gonna be in or the rest of the night.'; (it was about GoGurt if you didn't catch that, damn she's funny) Anyway, I REALLY like him. But it seems like he's blowing me off whenever he possibly can and I'm just not sure how to go about addressing this subject to him because he doesn't listen. But he does always have his arm around me when we're walking together (you know, so we form a WALL OF RELATIONSHIP! (and not one of those couples that could take the place of a recking ball knocking over innocent people as they walk the hallways, lol) and he's always up to running over my sister as THE WALL OF RELATIONSHIP! (she's scared of couples that form wallas or recking balls, but then again, who isn't? (unless they're the couple.I wonder which couple would win in the battle of the wall or the recking ball? (prolly the ball am i right?) and we're always are flirting and I'm pretty sure we're happy together (well, I know I am but I'm not bout to put my glasses on the end of my nose and ask him about him Maja or what he sees in the ink blot) but I'm pretty sure i'm gonna have to go, ';I know what I'm thinking and it's MOSTLY positive but what are your feelings towards our relationship (and the wall of it)';WHAT WOULD YOU DO? If your boyfriend treated you awfully like this? (I added some details)?
Oh nooooo,It's you again. lol. Just kidding. Hey,Babe. Sounds like he's just acting macho. He feels like he's gotta act all tough around you. Every so often,Give him a playful elbow to the rib. Let him know that he doesn't need to act this way. A wall,Huh? Sounds sorta romantic. What about refer to it as a sweet bonding chain of love? A chain that is held together with the flames of passion and love. If he feels like telling you what's wrong,He will let you know. Or perhaps the kid has his own personal demon he feels he must face alone. But whatever it is,Everything will be perfectly fine. You don't know how glad I am to hear you talk about your bf. Two months is a long time for starters. Don't give up on him. He won't let you down. I believe that if it's meant to be,It is meant to be. And this was meant to be. All relationships has obstacles. A strong relationship can overcome any obstacle this world can give them. I hope this answer pleases you. And if not,I am terribly sorry. You have yourself a goodnight tonight. Bye for now.WHAT WOULD YOU DO? If your boyfriend treated you awfully like this? (I added some details)?
i think instead of you chasing him, to chill, let him come to you, and make him arrange it.
you shouldnt have to run around him all the time.
let him chase you.
He is distancing himself from you, so it is likely that he's having second thoughts about the relationship. You're both still quite young, so there is plenty of time to think about getting into a committed relationship. Let him be. If he develops more interest again, great! If not, you'll find someone who treats you well and with whom you can be happy. It's a myth that we're only made to have a single chance at happiness with that one special person, and you will encounter many people with whom you could build a solid relationship in the course of your travels over the next 10-15 years.
Okay, so we've been dating for two months. He's a really sweet guy, and I'm not really sure what he sees in me but eh, I'm not about to argue with him. We've known each other since 2nd grade, and we had a thing goin on then, but then he stayed back, and now we're back together (he's a freshie and I'm a sophomore) so it's sorta like a child-hood sweetheart thing we got goin on here (I know, aww how cute, lol) But he doesn't act like he really wants to be there
Lunch was the only class we had together otherwise i barely see him during the day. But I had to change my lunch (I HAD to change my bio class! That teacher was craaaaaazy! lol)
Now, when you tell your bf that the only time you see each other all day is being replaced with a class and you won't see each other, much no more, you'd THINK he'd have at least a little interest right? well, what I got for my answer was a ';So?'; So you know, geeeeee, don't care too much there your head might burst. So you know, we're not gonna see each other, why not get together after school? During the weekend? Ha ha ha, silly me! He can't be bothered to do that. One night, I called him, and he couldn't some out because he had just eaten. All I could think ouf was that Ellen DeGeneres skit where ';Oh, I REALLY wanted to see that movie. But daaaaamn, I JUST opened a yogurt. Yeah you go without me I'm gonna be in or the rest of the night.'; (it was about GoGurt if you didn't catch that, damn she's funny) Anyway, I REALLY like him. But it seems like he's blowing me off whenever he possibly can and I'm just not sure how to go about addressing this subject to him because he doesn't listen. But he does always have his arm around me when we're walking together (you know, so we form a WALL OF RELATIONSHIP! (and not one of those couples that could take the place of a recking ball knocking over innocent people as they walk the hallways, lol) and he's always up to running over my sister as THE WALL OF RELATIONSHIP! (she's scared of couples that form wallas or recking balls, but then again, who isn't? (unless they're the couple.I wonder which couple would win in the battle of the wall or the recking ball? (prolly the ball am i right?) and we're always are flirting and I'm pretty sure we're happy together (well, I know I am but I'm not bout to put my glasses on the end of my nose and ask him about him Maja or what he sees in the ink blot) but I'm pretty sure i'm gonna have to go, ';I know what I'm thinking and it's MOSTLY positive but what are your feelings towards our relationship (and the wall of it)';WHAT WOULD YOU DO? If your boyfriend treated you awfully like this? (I added some details)?
Oh nooooo,It's you again. lol. Just kidding. Hey,Babe. Sounds like he's just acting macho. He feels like he's gotta act all tough around you. Every so often,Give him a playful elbow to the rib. Let him know that he doesn't need to act this way. A wall,Huh? Sounds sorta romantic. What about refer to it as a sweet bonding chain of love? A chain that is held together with the flames of passion and love. If he feels like telling you what's wrong,He will let you know. Or perhaps the kid has his own personal demon he feels he must face alone. But whatever it is,Everything will be perfectly fine. You don't know how glad I am to hear you talk about your bf. Two months is a long time for starters. Don't give up on him. He won't let you down. I believe that if it's meant to be,It is meant to be. And this was meant to be. All relationships has obstacles. A strong relationship can overcome any obstacle this world can give them. I hope this answer pleases you. And if not,I am terribly sorry. You have yourself a goodnight tonight. Bye for now.WHAT WOULD YOU DO? If your boyfriend treated you awfully like this? (I added some details)?
i think instead of you chasing him, to chill, let him come to you, and make him arrange it.
you shouldnt have to run around him all the time.
let him chase you.
He is distancing himself from you, so it is likely that he's having second thoughts about the relationship. You're both still quite young, so there is plenty of time to think about getting into a committed relationship. Let him be. If he develops more interest again, great! If not, you'll find someone who treats you well and with whom you can be happy. It's a myth that we're only made to have a single chance at happiness with that one special person, and you will encounter many people with whom you could build a solid relationship in the course of your travels over the next 10-15 years.
If your boyfriend was teasing another girl, would you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Im on vacation right now and my boyfriend is taking art class with my best friend for summer.
My best friend called me last night telling me that my boyF was teasing (possibly flirting) with this girl about worst pick-up lines and trying it out on each other and giggling and whispering.
I told my boyF about it and he said that they were just kidding each other then he picked on me on how i ';get easily jealous, Ms. Possesive, blah blah blah.'; I wasnt jealous and I know it doesnt mean anything (so I think), although now and then I feel a bit uneasy the way he does that and I want to get back at him by trying to make him jealous by making up stories about my vacation here, but I dont know if its worth it.
Would you feel the same way I do?
If you think I should make him jealous, how?If your boyfriend was teasing another girl, would you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Don't make up stories. Dishonesty is never a good basis for a relationship. You'll lose his respect and probably your dignity by telling lies.
The solution isn't to make him jealous, it is to help him realize that you are much better than any other girl out there. He knows you're amazing and that's why he's dating you. So all you have to do is remind him of why you're so great.
Emphasize your best qualities and try to make your relationship exciting. There are a lot of entertaining things you can do to spice up his imagination. Have fun!
=]prettydangflyyIf your boyfriend was teasing another girl, would you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Ok, don't make him jeolous right now, it's too obvious. Wait a while and one day that you are with him and a group of friends, flirt with another guy, or just laugh a lot with the guy, but don't make it too obvious, he will start feeling uncomfortable and you will notice, if he says anything later, you give him the same treatment he gave you when you got jelous.
Don;t let a guy affect your life. Wait and see what he's up to and dont give him an impression that he's affecting you. He should feel that without you, it's his loss. The moment, he knows you're J or u want him, that s when he may want to take u for granted. That u ll be available for him whatever he does.
And just becoz he is cheap you don;t have to try the same trick back and try to make him jealous etc.. be cool.. :)
i would be mad a jealous, but if i knew our relationship was honost and trustworthy, i wouldn't get mad because our relationship would be stronger
There is no harm in him talking or even teasing another girl! for goodness sake being so jealous and insecure is a surefire way for him to get pissed off and dump you.
Play hard to get.Be mysterious.
Be mad at him.
now listen hunnie im 13 n i no hes flirting with little miss wats her name
i wouldnt stand 4 it darling
if uv got it flaunt it
dam right u should make him jealous girl
hang around with guys more often but dont treat them like u fancy them treat them like ur best m8s like slapping there arm n laughing at stuff that isnt funny
it will work n he will get jealous he will see how u felt then u both sit down n talk ur bk 2gever like b4! lol gd luck girl
Well, it could be that he was just joking around with her as a friend. It's hard to say because you were not there to witness it. I don't think he'd be stupid enough to flirt with another girl in front of your best friend. Don't make him jealous because then you will enter a vicious cycle of trying to get back at one another. I would just let it go for now, but have your friend keep an eye on things.
My best friend called me last night telling me that my boyF was teasing (possibly flirting) with this girl about worst pick-up lines and trying it out on each other and giggling and whispering.
I told my boyF about it and he said that they were just kidding each other then he picked on me on how i ';get easily jealous, Ms. Possesive, blah blah blah.'; I wasnt jealous and I know it doesnt mean anything (so I think), although now and then I feel a bit uneasy the way he does that and I want to get back at him by trying to make him jealous by making up stories about my vacation here, but I dont know if its worth it.
Would you feel the same way I do?
If you think I should make him jealous, how?If your boyfriend was teasing another girl, would you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Don't make up stories. Dishonesty is never a good basis for a relationship. You'll lose his respect and probably your dignity by telling lies.
The solution isn't to make him jealous, it is to help him realize that you are much better than any other girl out there. He knows you're amazing and that's why he's dating you. So all you have to do is remind him of why you're so great.
Emphasize your best qualities and try to make your relationship exciting. There are a lot of entertaining things you can do to spice up his imagination. Have fun!
=]prettydangflyyIf your boyfriend was teasing another girl, would you feel a bit uncomfortable?
Ok, don't make him jeolous right now, it's too obvious. Wait a while and one day that you are with him and a group of friends, flirt with another guy, or just laugh a lot with the guy, but don't make it too obvious, he will start feeling uncomfortable and you will notice, if he says anything later, you give him the same treatment he gave you when you got jelous.
Don;t let a guy affect your life. Wait and see what he's up to and dont give him an impression that he's affecting you. He should feel that without you, it's his loss. The moment, he knows you're J or u want him, that s when he may want to take u for granted. That u ll be available for him whatever he does.
And just becoz he is cheap you don;t have to try the same trick back and try to make him jealous etc.. be cool.. :)
i would be mad a jealous, but if i knew our relationship was honost and trustworthy, i wouldn't get mad because our relationship would be stronger
There is no harm in him talking or even teasing another girl! for goodness sake being so jealous and insecure is a surefire way for him to get pissed off and dump you.
Play hard to get.Be mysterious.
Be mad at him.
now listen hunnie im 13 n i no hes flirting with little miss wats her name
i wouldnt stand 4 it darling
if uv got it flaunt it
dam right u should make him jealous girl
hang around with guys more often but dont treat them like u fancy them treat them like ur best m8s like slapping there arm n laughing at stuff that isnt funny
it will work n he will get jealous he will see how u felt then u both sit down n talk ur bk 2gever like b4! lol gd luck girl
Well, it could be that he was just joking around with her as a friend. It's hard to say because you were not there to witness it. I don't think he'd be stupid enough to flirt with another girl in front of your best friend. Don't make him jealous because then you will enter a vicious cycle of trying to get back at one another. I would just let it go for now, but have your friend keep an eye on things.
What if your boyfriend and best friend talk a lot?
Like I'm talking to my boyfriend on the phone for only like 10 minutes, and in the middle of a conversation he just asks: ';Wanna three way with Lilly?'; Lilly is my best friend. I dont know, sometimes I just keep thinking Lillys a slut and tries to show my boyfriend what shes made of...like, my boyfriend used to like her but just for a day. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month! I normally have to go to Lilly just to see whats going on with him! They talk like a lot! But I told Lilly what I felt, and she was like: ';We're not flirting on the phone or anything, we're just friends.'; But it still hurts a lot when I find out theyre on the phone! I get really jealous, you know? It's like...
are me and my boyfriend really meant to be...It hurts. Because me and him say ILOVEYOU to eachother...it just..how do you fix something like this??? I'm sick of the jealousy and pain.What if your boyfriend and best friend talk a lot?
You definitely need to talk to both of them about this non-confrontationally. Explain to them why their behavior upsets you. Good luck.What if your boyfriend and best friend talk a lot?
He's banging her.. Drop him like a bad habit.
Dump him!
a 3 way prompted by you would def solve this problem
he deserves to be DUMPED. lilly doesn't sound like a very good friend either
dump him . its not worth it.
are me and my boyfriend really meant to be...It hurts. Because me and him say ILOVEYOU to eachother...it just..how do you fix something like this??? I'm sick of the jealousy and pain.What if your boyfriend and best friend talk a lot?
You definitely need to talk to both of them about this non-confrontationally. Explain to them why their behavior upsets you. Good luck.What if your boyfriend and best friend talk a lot?
He's banging her.. Drop him like a bad habit.
Dump him!
a 3 way prompted by you would def solve this problem
he deserves to be DUMPED. lilly doesn't sound like a very good friend either
dump him . its not worth it.
Girls- do u get jealous if your boyfriend texts other girls?
i dont trust my boyfriend when he texts other girls cause im afraid he flirts with them, he of course says that he doesnt but when i grabbed his phone and started looking at it he took it away from me and deleted his text messages and threw his phone on a couch on the other side of the room. his ex gf, who is a SLUT texted him last night so that got me to worry. and this one girl on facebook asked for his number, and he gave it to her.
how would u feel if this happened to u ?Girls- do u get jealous if your boyfriend texts other girls?
i wouldn't be happy at all! Go ahead and do the same thing to him! it will show him how it makes you feel!Girls- do u get jealous if your boyfriend texts other girls?
Nothing wrong with texting anothor girl.
Hey, why should you be jealous? He's with you, not them.
how would u feel if this happened to u ?Girls- do u get jealous if your boyfriend texts other girls?
i wouldn't be happy at all! Go ahead and do the same thing to him! it will show him how it makes you feel!Girls- do u get jealous if your boyfriend texts other girls?
Nothing wrong with texting anothor girl.
Hey, why should you be jealous? He's with you, not them.
Whats the best way to ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you?
my best friend paige is panicking because she thinks her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend. [which seems definitely likely]
she asked me how to ask him to see if its true or not but i had no clue since its a difficult situation. so please help!
it seems likely because they spent all of spring break together and her boyfriend said something about people being mad at him for flirting with the best friend. i really wanna help herr!
pleasee nice answers onlyy!Whats the best way to ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you?
You have to catch them at it, or catch them in a lie. It's sort of fun, actually. Just, fool around with words, and see if they say the same thing to the same question. If not, then they're both lying. Be like ';Heyy, you went with [name] where did you go?'; and then go to her and be like ';How was [place]'; Or something similar to that.Whats the best way to ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you?
Flirting can cause trouble as you now know. But, that doesn't count as cheating.
Don't ask if he cheated, ask him not to flirt anymore. Tell him it hurts her feelings. If he doesn't care, then she has all she needs to ask him not to be a part of her life anymore. It won't matter if he cheated or not. Not caring about her feelings is the more important issue.
If he cares enough to say he won't flirt with that girl anymore, then he probably didn't cheat with her.
ok, my bf cheated on me twice and to confront him i told him that i trusted him 100% and that other people were telling me that he was cheating on me and he said he wasn't...but i can tell when he is lying, so i shoved him and then called him a ******* *** hole...hope that helps.
go up to one of his guy friends and tell his friend to ask him
but tell the friend to make it not seem obvious
Just come out and ask! Don't nit pick around the situation!
omg! what kind of question is this thats just wrong dont ask if u catch him doing it then thats different!Fashion leather necklace norton 2008
she asked me how to ask him to see if its true or not but i had no clue since its a difficult situation. so please help!
it seems likely because they spent all of spring break together and her boyfriend said something about people being mad at him for flirting with the best friend. i really wanna help herr!
pleasee nice answers onlyy!Whats the best way to ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you?
You have to catch them at it, or catch them in a lie. It's sort of fun, actually. Just, fool around with words, and see if they say the same thing to the same question. If not, then they're both lying. Be like ';Heyy, you went with [name] where did you go?'; and then go to her and be like ';How was [place]'; Or something similar to that.Whats the best way to ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you?
Flirting can cause trouble as you now know. But, that doesn't count as cheating.
Don't ask if he cheated, ask him not to flirt anymore. Tell him it hurts her feelings. If he doesn't care, then she has all she needs to ask him not to be a part of her life anymore. It won't matter if he cheated or not. Not caring about her feelings is the more important issue.
If he cares enough to say he won't flirt with that girl anymore, then he probably didn't cheat with her.
ok, my bf cheated on me twice and to confront him i told him that i trusted him 100% and that other people were telling me that he was cheating on me and he said he wasn't...but i can tell when he is lying, so i shoved him and then called him a ******* *** hole...hope that helps.
go up to one of his guy friends and tell his friend to ask him
but tell the friend to make it not seem obvious
Just come out and ask! Don't nit pick around the situation!
omg! what kind of question is this thats just wrong dont ask if u catch him doing it then thats different!
How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
not pitty little relationships like the ones back in elementary...im 16 %26amp; dont have a boyfriend yet...im getting a little worried cuz half of my school is dating it seems im the only one left out :(...i flirt with guys but i can never seem to get past flirting..any advice?How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
I was like 18 and I'm not ugly or a loser, so I don't think you have anything to worry about. You don't ';need'; a bf. You seem to only want one because ';half of your school is dating';. Does that really matter though? Why don't you get a hobby instead? It will occupy your time and make you more interesting to guys at the same time.. It will just happen, you can't force it or ';look for'; someone.How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
Real talk,I was about 21 when i had my first real boyfriend all though before then I didn't know any better and I thought some of the guys I was seeing were my boyfriends but they were not and everyone knew it but me,so to make a long story short sweetie be careful and use your head if you went through half the things I went through by the time I was 16 you would not be even worried about boys,concentrate on you and Mr.Right will come along....Good Luck!
My real boyfriend when I was 25 years old. Actually, i wasnt even thinking about boys, and he was the one who came to me. I had friends, but was very careful and used my mind most of the time not to let them fool me because i had seen some friends' situations.
There are some men who wants more than one girlfriend. They can fool you to a 100% that you will discover he has another woman or your the other woman at a very late time.
Well i don't think you should worry. It just happens. My first boyfriend was at age15. A year older then you, but broke up after 3 months and did not date till I was 18. In my opinion is better not to have a boyfriend because they give you too many problems and you have to waste alot of your time. You are young. You shouldn't worry. I have a cousin who is 20 and never had a boyfriend and she is happy. Not that she does not want one or because shes ugly because shes not. She is very pretty. Don't hurry love. Eventually it will come to you.
I was 15. We're still going strong since 2006, but like I say don't rush it. I know it most likely will get lonely with all the pairs running about, but its really not much of a rush. High school relationships, if anything, are loaded with drama. But if you really wanna be on the market, find someone who likes you. I'm sure someone likes you, you just don't know it yet.
16 , dont worry about it when you go to college theres alot more boys to choose from lol, dont feel like you should be dating coz everyone else is find someone you like, i always was friends with them for a while first
hope this helps :)
16, lasted 2 months
I'm almost 17 now..with another guy..going 4 months:)
dont worry your prince charming will come soon:D
me till the age of 19 cuz i wanted to concetrate on my study first and just didnt want any relationship that isnt serious
for me to fall in love = be with him and stay forever
You're weird. I was 13 with my first boyfriend. Put out a little more...Maybe a man will take you...
12 years old
I'm 33 and I've never had a boyfriend, because I'm not a fag.
real boyfriend i guess 15
pathetic as, 16 for me
well my real first BF was when i was 15.. i was in 10th grade
u shouldn't worry, u'll get a BF at the right time.. no need to rush, live ur life :)
my first real boyfriend was when I was 14 we lasted 2 yrs
15...
don't worry you have you're whole life ahead of you =]
I'm guessing you're rather pretty, attractive, intelligent and distinguished. All the women in my family only had boyfriends later because boys are too immature and are scared to ask girls like us out. Now I'm 47 and old(personally I don't feel old but for a 16 year old girl it sounds old) and I had my first boyfriend at 18(university). Boys are scared of rejection, they usually go with the cute ones or the easy ones, at least in their reach if you know what I mean. They expect you to say no if they ask you out. Men went through that phase already and have more confidence. My grandmother was born in 1886 and had her first boyfriend in her 20's and got married at 28(had 8 children plus a few she miscarried). She was an extremely beautiful woman, my mother was born in 1922, was also very beautiful and had one boyfriend in her 20's, then she met my father shortly after at 23 and got married at 25(had 3 children and miscarried a few). I met my husband when I was 29 and got married at 32(have 3 children), my daughter is 14 1/2 and seems to have the same problem though she's still young. However, I've seen boys looking at her but they didn't think they had a chance. For a boy it's too much, you'll find someone when you meet a real man. Advice? Either you change your way of looking somehow superior(that's what my grandmother was told, as well as my mother, myself and even some of my daughter's friend said that to her) or be yourself and wait to meet a man later(boys seem to get confidence in the transition from school to university) or you can meet someone a bit older. I'm not trying to insult anybody here but it's a maturity thing, we look too mature for them, it's uncomfortable for boys.
I was like 18 and I'm not ugly or a loser, so I don't think you have anything to worry about. You don't ';need'; a bf. You seem to only want one because ';half of your school is dating';. Does that really matter though? Why don't you get a hobby instead? It will occupy your time and make you more interesting to guys at the same time.. It will just happen, you can't force it or ';look for'; someone.How old were you when you got your first boyfriend?
Real talk,I was about 21 when i had my first real boyfriend all though before then I didn't know any better and I thought some of the guys I was seeing were my boyfriends but they were not and everyone knew it but me,so to make a long story short sweetie be careful and use your head if you went through half the things I went through by the time I was 16 you would not be even worried about boys,concentrate on you and Mr.Right will come along....Good Luck!
My real boyfriend when I was 25 years old. Actually, i wasnt even thinking about boys, and he was the one who came to me. I had friends, but was very careful and used my mind most of the time not to let them fool me because i had seen some friends' situations.
There are some men who wants more than one girlfriend. They can fool you to a 100% that you will discover he has another woman or your the other woman at a very late time.
Well i don't think you should worry. It just happens. My first boyfriend was at age15. A year older then you, but broke up after 3 months and did not date till I was 18. In my opinion is better not to have a boyfriend because they give you too many problems and you have to waste alot of your time. You are young. You shouldn't worry. I have a cousin who is 20 and never had a boyfriend and she is happy. Not that she does not want one or because shes ugly because shes not. She is very pretty. Don't hurry love. Eventually it will come to you.
I was 15. We're still going strong since 2006, but like I say don't rush it. I know it most likely will get lonely with all the pairs running about, but its really not much of a rush. High school relationships, if anything, are loaded with drama. But if you really wanna be on the market, find someone who likes you. I'm sure someone likes you, you just don't know it yet.
16 , dont worry about it when you go to college theres alot more boys to choose from lol, dont feel like you should be dating coz everyone else is find someone you like, i always was friends with them for a while first
hope this helps :)
16, lasted 2 months
I'm almost 17 now..with another guy..going 4 months:)
dont worry your prince charming will come soon:D
me till the age of 19 cuz i wanted to concetrate on my study first and just didnt want any relationship that isnt serious
for me to fall in love = be with him and stay forever
You're weird. I was 13 with my first boyfriend. Put out a little more...Maybe a man will take you...
12 years old
I'm 33 and I've never had a boyfriend, because I'm not a fag.
real boyfriend i guess 15
pathetic as, 16 for me
well my real first BF was when i was 15.. i was in 10th grade
u shouldn't worry, u'll get a BF at the right time.. no need to rush, live ur life :)
my first real boyfriend was when I was 14 we lasted 2 yrs
15...
don't worry you have you're whole life ahead of you =]
I'm guessing you're rather pretty, attractive, intelligent and distinguished. All the women in my family only had boyfriends later because boys are too immature and are scared to ask girls like us out. Now I'm 47 and old(personally I don't feel old but for a 16 year old girl it sounds old) and I had my first boyfriend at 18(university). Boys are scared of rejection, they usually go with the cute ones or the easy ones, at least in their reach if you know what I mean. They expect you to say no if they ask you out. Men went through that phase already and have more confidence. My grandmother was born in 1886 and had her first boyfriend in her 20's and got married at 28(had 8 children plus a few she miscarried). She was an extremely beautiful woman, my mother was born in 1922, was also very beautiful and had one boyfriend in her 20's, then she met my father shortly after at 23 and got married at 25(had 3 children and miscarried a few). I met my husband when I was 29 and got married at 32(have 3 children), my daughter is 14 1/2 and seems to have the same problem though she's still young. However, I've seen boys looking at her but they didn't think they had a chance. For a boy it's too much, you'll find someone when you meet a real man. Advice? Either you change your way of looking somehow superior(that's what my grandmother was told, as well as my mother, myself and even some of my daughter's friend said that to her) or be yourself and wait to meet a man later(boys seem to get confidence in the transition from school to university) or you can meet someone a bit older. I'm not trying to insult anybody here but it's a maturity thing, we look too mature for them, it's uncomfortable for boys.
Wha does it mean to dream about loving someone other then your boyfriend or girlfriend?
Me and my boyfriend are not feeling as close as we used to. Thing's have been awkward ever since we got back together. We dated for a year and two months, broke up for four months, then got back together about a month ago. Now I'm having dreams of cheating on him with one of my best guy friends, and in the dream it doesn't bother me that I'm cheating because I'm with someone who makes me happier. I love my boyfriend, but I don't know what this dream might mean about how I truly feel subconsciously, since things are so weird between me and him. Also, the guy friend who I was with in my dream was someone who I flirted with in the four months me and my boyfriend were apart.Wha does it mean to dream about loving someone other then your boyfriend or girlfriend?
Your dream is probably reflecting the fact that you really don't want to be with your boyfriend. Why did you get back with your boyfriend in the first place? Of course, this relationship is going to be strained until you see signs from your boyfriend that you two will get better, but as of right now your dream sounds like your intuition telling you that you would be better off with your guy friend. It sounds like things between you and your current boyfriend already haven't worked out in the past, so you feel nothing will change.
Your dream is probably reflecting the fact that you really don't want to be with your boyfriend. Why did you get back with your boyfriend in the first place? Of course, this relationship is going to be strained until you see signs from your boyfriend that you two will get better, but as of right now your dream sounds like your intuition telling you that you would be better off with your guy friend. It sounds like things between you and your current boyfriend already haven't worked out in the past, so you feel nothing will change.
If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
works third shift with this girl who, when they are together,,,,(i have been to the bar with him and she has showed up and sat by us,) flirt to the point I have had our friends come up to me and ask what is up with the two of them.If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
If you have to ask then he's not worth your time. But if YOU think that he is, then ask. Ask, ask, and ask, he wants to tell you but is afraid and eventually will. He's been feeling guilty about it or else he wouldn't be with you anymore.If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
Go to the bar when he is at work but wear a disguise, or, send a private investigator to go in your place and capture it on tape.
I found out mine was cheating by faithful computer.. Key stroke thing my friend sent me lol.. he was cheating that way and saying it was just a friend.. and nothing happened.. and he never even told her about me and told her how much he wants to go up there and ****. I'm sick of talking about it makes me ferious. 4 years ago todate lol. Still w/ him because im a loser.
Ask a really hot best friend to go up to him a flirt with him and ask him things about him having a gf lik if he has on and such or if you have an internet get someone to flirt that way and see if he says he doesn't and if he says he doesnt and then kick his sorry *** out if you can.
Leave him/her. No need to investigate, just walk away.
follow them
by keeping an eye on him like every time calling and asking where he is and with whom.....it could be annoying to do but just do it when u have full doubt on him
ask them if they want a threesome if they look happy say yes or fumble on words then yes they are doing it
what is the need to try to find out. if you really love him and he loves you truly. then trust on him....
If you have to ask then he's not worth your time. But if YOU think that he is, then ask. Ask, ask, and ask, he wants to tell you but is afraid and eventually will. He's been feeling guilty about it or else he wouldn't be with you anymore.If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend was foolin around on you, how would you try to find out?
Go to the bar when he is at work but wear a disguise, or, send a private investigator to go in your place and capture it on tape.
I found out mine was cheating by faithful computer.. Key stroke thing my friend sent me lol.. he was cheating that way and saying it was just a friend.. and nothing happened.. and he never even told her about me and told her how much he wants to go up there and ****. I'm sick of talking about it makes me ferious. 4 years ago todate lol. Still w/ him because im a loser.
Ask a really hot best friend to go up to him a flirt with him and ask him things about him having a gf lik if he has on and such or if you have an internet get someone to flirt that way and see if he says he doesn't and if he says he doesnt and then kick his sorry *** out if you can.
Leave him/her. No need to investigate, just walk away.
follow them
by keeping an eye on him like every time calling and asking where he is and with whom.....it could be annoying to do but just do it when u have full doubt on him
ask them if they want a threesome if they look happy say yes or fumble on words then yes they are doing it
what is the need to try to find out. if you really love him and he loves you truly. then trust on him....
How to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
My boyfriend is great, and he would never do anything to hurt me. However, there is this girl who he used to be friends with in college who just recently (after me and my bf have been dating for a year) has taken an interest in my bf. I have no problem with my bf having girls as friends, I trust him and it has never been an issue, but this girl wants to be more than friends. She will flirt with him, text him, send him fbook messages that are flirty with hearts and everything. I have witnessed my bf telling her to stop and that he is committed to me and that he does not want more than a friendship, but she keeps telling him that he needs to break up with me because SHE ';made a mistake and should have dated him in college';....this girl needs to back off!!! How do I get her to stop without looking like I am controlling.... etc? i really would not mind if they were JUST friends but she has made it clear she wants more than that and I'm NOT ok with it.... helpHow to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
If it doesn't bother him and he really loves/like you then I don't see the problem really if she likes him. But if he's annoyed by it and or you don''t want it to continue(but really ask your self if it really anything to be freaking out about. I do agree it's tacky and disrespectful but so.. He still loves and or likes you does really matter?think about)
If you still want to do away with her
In these step I would follow
1.Ask my partner to cease all contact with her
2.Block her number(hopeful she doesn't know your address or his)
If you bf doesn't care it probably doesn't affect him, so I wouldn't worry.How to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
theres a difference in being controlling and concerned .
you need to tell her that she is wasting her time and needs to get a move on with her life cause she is just wasting her time trying to get with him . he OBVIOUSLY does not want her , and wants you so she needs to just stop trying .
I'm a jealous person and if my bf was talking to a girl that liked him, I would be very pissed. He should stop talking to her because there is no reason for them to be friends, since she wants to be more then friends.
Tell this girl to back off. I have had a similiar situation. Girls cannot be trusted. If you really love this guy and put a lot of time into this relationship, don't let this trick get in the way.
act confident, because if you tell her to stop, she'll know you don't trust him
Just tell your bf you aren't comfortable with it. So if he doesn't get her to stop then tell him you'd feel a lot better if he blocks her number and deletes her of FB.
Punch her in the face and tell her to back OFF!
If it doesn't bother him and he really loves/like you then I don't see the problem really if she likes him. But if he's annoyed by it and or you don''t want it to continue(but really ask your self if it really anything to be freaking out about. I do agree it's tacky and disrespectful but so.. He still loves and or likes you does really matter?think about)
If you still want to do away with her
In these step I would follow
1.Ask my partner to cease all contact with her
2.Block her number(hopeful she doesn't know your address or his)
If you bf doesn't care it probably doesn't affect him, so I wouldn't worry.How to get rid of a girl who is hitting on your boyfriend?
theres a difference in being controlling and concerned .
you need to tell her that she is wasting her time and needs to get a move on with her life cause she is just wasting her time trying to get with him . he OBVIOUSLY does not want her , and wants you so she needs to just stop trying .
I'm a jealous person and if my bf was talking to a girl that liked him, I would be very pissed. He should stop talking to her because there is no reason for them to be friends, since she wants to be more then friends.
Tell this girl to back off. I have had a similiar situation. Girls cannot be trusted. If you really love this guy and put a lot of time into this relationship, don't let this trick get in the way.
act confident, because if you tell her to stop, she'll know you don't trust him
Just tell your bf you aren't comfortable with it. So if he doesn't get her to stop then tell him you'd feel a lot better if he blocks her number and deletes her of FB.
Punch her in the face and tell her to back OFF!
What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
me and my boyfriend have only been going out for two months, but up until now we've been pretty serious. i know he likes me a lot more than i like him. and i'm just getting bored, mostly. i'm tired of always being around him and talking to him. we're only in high school, and i really want to be single and just kind of flirt again, because it's been a while. when i break up with him it's going to crush him, and i know because we've talked about it. he's expecting it to happen in like 6 more months at least. how can i let him down as easily as possible?What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
MORTAL KOMBAT MODE
FIRST U SLICE OFF HIS ARMS AND LEGS: TELL HIM WHAT WE ALL HERE:WE NEED TO TALK
SECOND CHOP OF HIS HEAD BARAK STYLE: TELL HIM WEVE BEEN TOGETHER A WHIE AND U BLAH BLAH BLAH AND THT ITS TIME WE SEE OTHER PPL
LASTLY FINISH HIM/HER!!!!!!: FINISH HIM OFF WITH A: ITZ NOT U ITZ ME THEN BLOW A KIZZ
K.O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
Hi Darth Maul,
Breaking up is never easy. This might be a situation where sending him a considerate and well thought out email might work better than telling him in person. I would not text him and definitely would not post it to his Facebook page. Tell him that you see him as a friend, tell him how much you enjoyed getting to know him, and want to keep him as a friend. However you want to be single again and you hope that he can appreciate it since both of you were expecting that this relationship would not last more than six months.
We only feel crushed during break ups because everyone feels they won't find someone else. Try going back out on group dates. Bring some single friends who may be interested in your boyfriend. If one is... then sit down with your boyfriend and just tell him you want to be single and point him in the direction of your friend whos interested.
You are still young and have your own freedom to experience whatever you want to do. Just be prepared for the consequences. I hope when you how up that you look back and reflect on your past.
Sometimes when you let someone go, you have regrets about it because, let's face it, no one wants to die a lonely poor soul.
Good luck
the best way to break up with your boyfriend is be honest on why you don't want to be with him anymore. Or if you think that your reason will hurt his feelings, then be as gentle as you can and find a different explanation that is reasonable.
There really is nothing you can say to soften the blow but dont say your boring and you want to flirt with other guys. Also just be there for him tell him you still wanna be friends and apologize also try to make him feel good. Can you help with mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100102221738AA6HUsb
bake him a cake with a broken heart and his name in the middle and a card saying i'm sorry. He will be depressed and eat the whole cake I promise, if he say cheated or something like that then I would suggest to poison it as a trap
There really isn't an easy way, but you should do it soon instead of leading him on.
That will only hurt him more. Let him know how you really feel and that you two can still be friends (unless you don't want to be) and let him move on.
Sorry, but you're gonna end up braking his hear, but he had to understand that you don't want to be in a relationship for now. and you both could still be friend if you want and be cool with each other.
tell him your not happy anymore. its nothing he did, but your just not happy. you need some alone time. tell him to give you like two months. he will grow less fond of you with the space i promise
Have the ovaries to be honest with him! Sounds like you have had him on stand-by til someone more interesting comes along. Do yourself a favor and him. Make a HONEST, CLEAN, RESPECTFUL break now!
Tell him u dnt thk it's wrking out, dats probably da easiest way, but watev u do, DNT tell him da real reason u wna break up
wow, you sound exactly like my old girlfriend did. she crushed me too. and i should have seen it coming. at least you told him first.
Well what i did was, i started an arguement then said it while we both were mad so it seem apropriate =)
Be straight up and let it rip, ';It's not working for me. Let's end this.';
say it as nicely as possible n give him good reasons. tell him u still care about him n dat mayb u can b friends
no easy way to let him down...just get it over with
just tell him u just don't feel like having a boyfriend at the moment he'll be crushed but he'll understand
OMG! that sounds exactly like the situation that i was just in! i was going out with this guy that was way more into me than i was into him. we only went out for a month and i just broke up with him a couple days ago. just like you, i was basically bored with him and i also missed flirting with other guys. he's a really sweet guy and i was afraid of crushing him. luckily it went really well and we're still friends. well anyway, this is how i broke up with him:
i went to his house and suggested that we should go on a walk. so we walked and talked for about ten mins. then i casually brought up the question 'how do you feel about our relationship?'. let him do all the talking at this point so he can get all of his feelings out. then he'll prob ask you how you feel. this is when you tell him 'your a great guy and everything but i feel we would be better off as friends.' or something along those lines.
with this approach i believe it's more casual and not too harsh or anything. trust me the single life feels really good right now and you'll feel relieved when it's over. hopefully this is helpful. i wish you the best of luck! :)
p.s. don't use any cheesy break up lines. they're just hurtful
You said boys opinions welcome, but how about an answer from a man.
Be honest, direct and polite. Tell him you don't want to be his gf anymore, tell him you'd rather be honest with him now than wait till it would be far worse. Tell him one day that he will respect you for your honesty, even if he pouts and whines like a boy.
You are in high school, your priorities (in my humble opinion) should be:
1) Getting as much from your tax payer funded education as possible by paying attention, studying and not be so distracted by such things as whiny boys.
2) Showing respect and appreciation to your parents. They are the ones who toiled to bring home the bacon to put on your table, put the roof over your head, the clothes on your back and made your life good enough that your biggest concern in life right now is how to break up with some kid. Go straight to your parents, or parent, or whoever is making your life so wonderful right now and tell them how lucky you are to have them, and start showing that very attitude every day.
Remember the above when you have kids in high school...Fashion leather necklace norton 2008
MORTAL KOMBAT MODE
FIRST U SLICE OFF HIS ARMS AND LEGS: TELL HIM WHAT WE ALL HERE:WE NEED TO TALK
SECOND CHOP OF HIS HEAD BARAK STYLE: TELL HIM WEVE BEEN TOGETHER A WHIE AND U BLAH BLAH BLAH AND THT ITS TIME WE SEE OTHER PPL
LASTLY FINISH HIM/HER!!!!!!: FINISH HIM OFF WITH A: ITZ NOT U ITZ ME THEN BLOW A KIZZ
K.O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend? Boys' opinions welcome!?
Hi Darth Maul,
Breaking up is never easy. This might be a situation where sending him a considerate and well thought out email might work better than telling him in person. I would not text him and definitely would not post it to his Facebook page. Tell him that you see him as a friend, tell him how much you enjoyed getting to know him, and want to keep him as a friend. However you want to be single again and you hope that he can appreciate it since both of you were expecting that this relationship would not last more than six months.
We only feel crushed during break ups because everyone feels they won't find someone else. Try going back out on group dates. Bring some single friends who may be interested in your boyfriend. If one is... then sit down with your boyfriend and just tell him you want to be single and point him in the direction of your friend whos interested.
You are still young and have your own freedom to experience whatever you want to do. Just be prepared for the consequences. I hope when you how up that you look back and reflect on your past.
Sometimes when you let someone go, you have regrets about it because, let's face it, no one wants to die a lonely poor soul.
Good luck
the best way to break up with your boyfriend is be honest on why you don't want to be with him anymore. Or if you think that your reason will hurt his feelings, then be as gentle as you can and find a different explanation that is reasonable.
There really is nothing you can say to soften the blow but dont say your boring and you want to flirt with other guys. Also just be there for him tell him you still wanna be friends and apologize also try to make him feel good. Can you help with mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100102221738AA6HUsb
bake him a cake with a broken heart and his name in the middle and a card saying i'm sorry. He will be depressed and eat the whole cake I promise, if he say cheated or something like that then I would suggest to poison it as a trap
There really isn't an easy way, but you should do it soon instead of leading him on.
That will only hurt him more. Let him know how you really feel and that you two can still be friends (unless you don't want to be) and let him move on.
Sorry, but you're gonna end up braking his hear, but he had to understand that you don't want to be in a relationship for now. and you both could still be friend if you want and be cool with each other.
tell him your not happy anymore. its nothing he did, but your just not happy. you need some alone time. tell him to give you like two months. he will grow less fond of you with the space i promise
Have the ovaries to be honest with him! Sounds like you have had him on stand-by til someone more interesting comes along. Do yourself a favor and him. Make a HONEST, CLEAN, RESPECTFUL break now!
Tell him u dnt thk it's wrking out, dats probably da easiest way, but watev u do, DNT tell him da real reason u wna break up
wow, you sound exactly like my old girlfriend did. she crushed me too. and i should have seen it coming. at least you told him first.
Well what i did was, i started an arguement then said it while we both were mad so it seem apropriate =)
Be straight up and let it rip, ';It's not working for me. Let's end this.';
say it as nicely as possible n give him good reasons. tell him u still care about him n dat mayb u can b friends
no easy way to let him down...just get it over with
just tell him u just don't feel like having a boyfriend at the moment he'll be crushed but he'll understand
OMG! that sounds exactly like the situation that i was just in! i was going out with this guy that was way more into me than i was into him. we only went out for a month and i just broke up with him a couple days ago. just like you, i was basically bored with him and i also missed flirting with other guys. he's a really sweet guy and i was afraid of crushing him. luckily it went really well and we're still friends. well anyway, this is how i broke up with him:
i went to his house and suggested that we should go on a walk. so we walked and talked for about ten mins. then i casually brought up the question 'how do you feel about our relationship?'. let him do all the talking at this point so he can get all of his feelings out. then he'll prob ask you how you feel. this is when you tell him 'your a great guy and everything but i feel we would be better off as friends.' or something along those lines.
with this approach i believe it's more casual and not too harsh or anything. trust me the single life feels really good right now and you'll feel relieved when it's over. hopefully this is helpful. i wish you the best of luck! :)
p.s. don't use any cheesy break up lines. they're just hurtful
You said boys opinions welcome, but how about an answer from a man.
Be honest, direct and polite. Tell him you don't want to be his gf anymore, tell him you'd rather be honest with him now than wait till it would be far worse. Tell him one day that he will respect you for your honesty, even if he pouts and whines like a boy.
You are in high school, your priorities (in my humble opinion) should be:
1) Getting as much from your tax payer funded education as possible by paying attention, studying and not be so distracted by such things as whiny boys.
2) Showing respect and appreciation to your parents. They are the ones who toiled to bring home the bacon to put on your table, put the roof over your head, the clothes on your back and made your life good enough that your biggest concern in life right now is how to break up with some kid. Go straight to your parents, or parent, or whoever is making your life so wonderful right now and tell them how lucky you are to have them, and start showing that very attitude every day.
Remember the above when you have kids in high school...
Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
I don't fish for compliments, but sometimes if I think I look exceptionally good-looking that day, I want a lot of guys to tell me how good I look. I don't have low self-esteem, it just makes me feel good to know that guys were taking notice at the extra time I spent getting ready. My boyfriend calls me sexy, but since we don't see each other until the weekend, he just texts me that in general.
So is it wrong to want compliments like that from other men? I don't flirt with them, I just appreciate their input.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
No. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman wanting to feel sexy. Although, if your talking about liking cat calls, that's another story.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
well you can compliment yourself, and to be straight up with you, it does appear to be an esteem issue, to need others to compliment you in order to feel good about yourself, i compliment myself all the time and yes others at times tell me that too, but i never need their input because i know i look good and am a good person regardless, or course there are people that are jealous because of attention is get and seek to take me down but because of God telling me i look and do good and me complimenting myself, i never receive or accept their negative criticism
You say you aren't fishing for compliments then say you want a lot of guys to tell you how good you look?? I guess its natural to want to be attractive to members of the opposite sex but sounds a little needy. I doubt you have high self esteem.
i don't think that there is anything wrong with that.
It depends, Its ok for you because your a slut.
they might think you have a crush on them.
So do I, I mean, we're women, i think it's normal isn'it? (:
So is it wrong to want compliments like that from other men? I don't flirt with them, I just appreciate their input.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
No. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman wanting to feel sexy. Although, if your talking about liking cat calls, that's another story.Is it wrong to want guys who aren't your boyfriend to compliment the way you look?
well you can compliment yourself, and to be straight up with you, it does appear to be an esteem issue, to need others to compliment you in order to feel good about yourself, i compliment myself all the time and yes others at times tell me that too, but i never need their input because i know i look good and am a good person regardless, or course there are people that are jealous because of attention is get and seek to take me down but because of God telling me i look and do good and me complimenting myself, i never receive or accept their negative criticism
You say you aren't fishing for compliments then say you want a lot of guys to tell you how good you look?? I guess its natural to want to be attractive to members of the opposite sex but sounds a little needy. I doubt you have high self esteem.
i don't think that there is anything wrong with that.
It depends, Its ok for you because your a slut.
they might think you have a crush on them.
So do I, I mean, we're women, i think it's normal isn'it? (:
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