When your boyfriend looks at porn.....?

Dose it make you feel insecure? I know every man looks at porn and other girls all the time and im not going to make my boyfriend stop and i know he wouldn't cheat. But when he looks at other girls everynight and porn on the weekend after he says he is too stressed to be intimate with me and is a hopeless flirt with other girls, i feel like something is wrong with me and im not pretty enough to make him want to look at me instead. and to make him want to stop looking on match.com type sites. and when he meets other attractive women when we go out, he will not stop talking about how we should have got her number because she has a lot in common with him and invite her over for dinner with us. Is this normal? Dose this sound like the typical innocents of a man ';just looking'; or possibly something more? He claims he only wants me but what dose it sound like to you? Would you feel insecure?When your boyfriend looks at porn.....?
If you are not comfortable with it, he should know that. I made it clear to my boyfriend of about 3.5 - 4 years that i really felt insecure about it so he stopped. Not ALL guys looks at porn. In my eyes the most respectable men don't. (I am also a Christian though so my views do not coincide with those of others and i an aware of that.) What would concern me the most in your situation is that he is actually interested in contacting these women. I sorta feel like that is crossing the line. Just talk to him. Communication is key...I am learning that more and more everyday. Good luck!When your boyfriend looks at porn.....?
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn websites in the background when he's surfing on the internet
yes i would feel insecure...and it does sound that something is wrong with him...that's abuse...
time for a new dude.





or possibly he is leading up to asking if you want a 3-some - you, him and another woman.
Hey staying with someone like that is going to just hurt you in the long run. Talk with him and if he doesn't change brake it off before you loose all your self esteem. U can do beter
Are you serious?





Talk to him, get his attention back on you. Ask him why he`s looking for other people.





If you`re not satisfied or ok with his answers (or silence) dump the dude...
Well let me first say that is is natural for a man to be interested in other women and to want to look at attractive women. My husband looks at playboy (that i got for him) but when it comes to an every night thing or not wanting me first i would never put up with that and second it should be something that never makes you doubt your self. I can watch porn with my man and still feel sexy and i know that his mind is on me when we make love. If you ever question that don't think for a minute that your man wouldn't stray. Trust your self don't be to jealous but don't be dumb either. If he never looks at you the way he looks at other women or trys finding or flirts with other women right in front of you hes throwing in your face how naive you are. DONT LET HIM PLAY YOU IM SURE YOU CAN DO BETTER!!
Honey, I can understand him looking at pron, but him wanting to look on line for other people at match.com just makes him sound uninterested in you. Have you tried to tell him how you feel? I know how most guys don't like to talk about feelings, but some times you just have to tell him how it is. You deserve better that you are getting.
Wow, first I'd beat him, then I'd dump him! Sweetheart find someone else! He's not worth it, MR.RIGHT would be the man that couldnt take his eyes off you, and would stop at nothing to please you and make you happy!! The time you spent together would be just that your time. I wonder how he's feel about you doing this? If you love him that much turn the tables, maybe hes just the type that doesnt get the picture!!! :)
yes i would feel insecure he has no buisness looking on any matchmaker looking is one thing going through with it is totally another thing. he say he wants u...so maybe he is wanting a 3some or something