How to deal with your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends?

I love my boyfriend A LOT! Through the years we have not only managed to have a successful relationship but we have both helped each other to become successful people. The only problem is his PAST (before I met him, and about 2 years in to our relationship). We both started going out when he was 16 and I was 15 years old. Now I am 22 and he is 23. When he was about 16-18 years old he was a really big flirt and flirted with a lot of girls at clubs/parties/etc. He has changed and our relationship and i really trust him because he has grown up and changed his ways.





the only thing is that I always see these past girls everywhere I go!!! it just really depresses me especially since I have only 1 boyfriend before him, and no one i flirted with!





How can i deal with this, I am starting med-school next year so I don't want to deal with this when I start school.How to deal with your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends?
Congrats on Med School! FOCUS. You're going to be so busy and he's going to be wondering if you're going to forget about him with all of those other potentially brilliant pediatricians, cardiologists, neurologists and trauma surgeons that you'll be seeing EVERY DAY to discuss ... physiology, chemistry and human behavior/psychology. All those study partners....could something happen in the throes of physical chemistry that could incite hormonal responses? Let YOUR BOYFRIEND worry a little bit about the relationship. You just get through your classes.





Honestly, do you really think those ex-girlfriends of his waited for 6 years for the opportunity to pounce him while you went away to medical school?How to deal with your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends?
If he's changed and he is no longer a flirt, then his past shouldn't matter, he can't change it. It's been and gone. You have to remember that he is with you now and that he probably doesn't even remember those past girls (which are most likely tarts)


If this really bothers you, talk to him about it and he will not doubt assure you that everything is fine.


Good luck and focus on your education :)
talk about low confidence





scars mark what happened in your past


not where you are going in the future





quit thinkin about those girls


that was your past


tomorrow is your future


focus on your tomorrow


be glad u got where you are @


when u wake up in the morning and look in the mirror


say


';damn, im sexy, and lucky';


dats all it takes
seems like their is nothing to worry about here. you love him and trust him thats all that matters . if you trust him then he should know that and he wont do anything to harm the relationship .





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Get over it, 1 or 1000, the important part is that you're with him now and he doesn't cheat.


If it helps, think of it as you being better for him than all those girls you meet, otherwise he wouldn't stay with you
You either have to accept it and let it go, or it will ruin your relationship.





Not much else you can do.


BTW, congrats on med school.
The past is the past let go of it unless you want to loose your future.
Make friends with them cus hes yours not theres so u shouldnt trip
dont worry unless he is talking to them. they have nothing on you