What do you do when you are not getting along with your boyfriend, and a married woman is flirting with him?

My boyfriend and i have been on the rocks for a while, but it seemed to me that we both want to work it out. But since we moved to live near his uncle things have been strange. HIs uncle's secretary who is married flirts with him, she acts like she is his girlfriend. I have found out they talk on the phone at least once a day ('; for work';), and she talks on the phone to his mother. She even called him when our dog was sick to see how he is doing!?! No i should tell you that he is working for his uncle too so of course they are going to talk but she acts like more than a co--worker... i am so un-nerved by this. please tell me how to handle this situation!What do you do when you are not getting along with your boyfriend, and a married woman is flirting with him?
if your boyfriend isn't cheating on you with this woman he's still trying to hurt you by flaunting their 'friendship'. This woman is immoral and your boyfriend is choosing to give her attention. you are in a very bad place with this and it won't get better. His idea of appropriate behaviour is clearly out of line and this is about his personality not just problems in your relationship. holding on to you is just cruel. You are storing up some major heartache and if this woman's husband finds out you could get into some serious trouble. Sorry but you're going to have to get away from this guy before he drags you into the dirt he likes to roll in. Leave now while you still have some self-respect. I know it's hard to do and it hurts but you can't love him if you don't love yourself enough to save yourself and staying with him would be like self-harming. Real love is out there and it starts with you. Big friendly hug from me til you find it.What do you do when you are not getting along with your boyfriend, and a married woman is flirting with him?
Sit down with your boyfriend and ask him if he has any interest in this woman. If he says yes, then move on. If he says no...let him know you won't keep harping on it because you understand they are co-workers but you just felt it was strange the way she acts towards him. There's a chance that you may just be a bit jealous and over reacting towards her actions. Some people are just overly friendly...you did say she is married, so you may just be reading her signs wrong and she's just trying to be considerate and friendly. My niece is very happily married, but she is also a very friendly/outgoing person and I could see where some people might think she's flirting when that isn't what she's doing at all. Just trust your boyfriend, once you've had the conversation let it drop so that you don't add a problem to your relationship that you don't need. Good Luck.
Girl go to his job everyday take him to lunch, give him what he wants in order to get him back. Mark your territory do what you have to do to let that B@#$H know not to F with your MAN.
Kick her @$$ Then his
dump him girl hes not worth it
i think you better get out of this relationship before this gets out of hand. you deserve someone better. love yourself, ok..... good luck
let him go girl
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Tell him you want to work things out but that you are uncomfortable with the level of interest the other woman shows and ask him to keep things between him and her strictly professional. Let him understand that this is a term of agreement, that if he continues in this way with her that you are out of there. Because if they aren't sleeping together now, they will be soon.
I think you should put in more effort to be in contact with him, show him more concern and affection, Hey this woman is trying to seduce to snatch your boyfriend away.





Things you should do


1. Show up in the office and get more physically close to your boyfriend in front of the secretary





2. Go out lunch with your boyfriend during lunch and don't give her a chance to date him





3. Go to his office after work and pick him up at dates





4. Show your face around your boyfriend as often as possible, let the world know you are an item with him





5. Let your bf know that you are not comfortable with her actions (be gracious but assertive)





6. Let his uncle know that you are both an item and very close (jokingly tell him that no gals should touch him, he is all yours!)





Really, do some work to get him back, don't fear the other woman because of her actions, do better than her!
Speak to him. tell strictly that u dont like what is going on.


Tell him that either his relationship with that b**ch should be strictly professional or u will leave. if it doesnot work out, and u still want to give him a chance, tell the same to her in front of ur boyfriend. Its either he'll scold u and u leave or he'll stop flirting. Be emotionally strong enough to leave him if he doesnot stop flirting... coz that would simply mean that he doesnt care for u.
tell your guy how you feel about the situation
u get in2 a fight wit da married woman
TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND SHE IS GETTING TOO CLOSE.IF HIS RESPONSE IS ARGUING WITH YOU..HE IS PROBABLY CHEATING! DUMP HIM IF HE IS!