In need of advice helppp, if your boyfriend....?

when i got with my boyfriend he use to talk to this girl, they were never close as he only use to talk to her on msn. but recently he has been talkin to her more and more and i have found convosations they have been having in the deleted bin on my computer... most of it is just chattin but there is a few bits i dont feel comfortable with (as far as i no he has not cheated on me and none of the stuff he sed to her was sexual but it was flirting)... i told my boyfriend this and he agreed it was out of order and he wouldnt do it again... but i have since found more... this really upsets me becasue he knows how i feel about it but is still doin it... i asked him to delete her of msn but he wont..am i being un reasonable...??


Just to add tho.... i was friends with this boy that i have known since school and use to go out alot with him...my boyfriend was uncomfortable with this as some of the time we was alone...so i stopped doing that as i know how upset it use to make him....


Any opinions would be grateful...good or bad (: In need of advice helppp, if your boyfriend....?
Oh, this is a difficult one. I think if your boyfriend really wanted the girl on the computer don't you think he would be with her? Until I found reason to not trust him, I would let this go. I would not of quit communicating with a friend either, (Even if it was a guy)! If this guy is the one for you, it will work out. If not, a better one is waiting. Good Luck xoxIn need of advice helppp, if your boyfriend....?
What your boyfriend is doing is bullshit. beware because it won't be long before you find out that the two of them are more that chat buddies. why do I say this, because a guy who is totally satisified with the relationship he is in wouldn't even be interested in entertaining the idea even of some other girls company on line or otherwise. sorry. be careful he is full of ****
Is this girl he chats with in your town, or somewhere he'll never go for a face to face meeting?





Maybe you should decide whether you want to be together or if you should both be free to see others. He can chat with his friend and you can see your childhood friend or anyone else you feel like. When you want to be together, one of you shouldn't be flirting with others, on the computer or otherwise
Point out to him that you broke up a friendship with a guy because it made him uncomfortable, and he should do the same for you.





If he doesn't, look up that other guy and rekindle the friendship. Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
Your bf is imature and trying to 'play the field'. His ignoring your opinion, even though you showed by example the you cared about his. He has in fact 'broken trust' with you. Ditch him. This relatioship will not last healthily.
If you are uncomfortable with their relationship he needs to respect your feelings if he is not willing to compromise with your request you may want to move on.
Be flexible with him! Boys are bound to have flirting horomones.





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um tell the girl to **** off. A polite ILL ******* ShOVE A KNIFE UP UR *** should do nicely.
I wouldn't put up with it - but then I am a fairly jealous person
Sounds like he may be losing interest in you. really you are both jealous. you shouldn't have to stop being friends with someone because you have a boyfriend, just like he shouldn't have to stop being friends with somebody because he has a girlfriend. ask him if the girl knows about you. or better yet ask her if she knows that you are his girlfriend. if the answer is no in either case, then you would save yourself a lot of pain and grief by ending your relationship earlier rather than later. He might not be ready for the type of relationship you want. if she knows about you, and you really like this guy, then pay attention to his behavior. if he starts dropping more and more time with you for her, then you should move on. if it doesn't affect how he is with you, then you shouldn't let it bother you.
maybe you should remind him of that time you had to stop seeing a friend cause he didn't like it,we all have a little flirt here and there and it def does not mean we are going to cheat,i don't really think its that unreasonable i mean u have already told him you don't like it and for him to carry on doing it i think is unfair,i know 2 wrongs don't make a right but if he Carry's on doing it,then just get back in touch with your friend and start going out with him again and if your boyfriend says anything then say if you can do things i dont like then so can i :)
i was in the same type of relationship a while back and i know how it feels and the only thing to do is try and talk it out ...let him know that you are sorry about hanging out with that guy friend and that you understand you hurt him and also tell him you stopped cuz you knew what it was doin to him and tell him how you feel and that you want him to stop and if he doesnt id say that you need to decide if being with him is more important than you being upset all the time and having him flirt and maybe at some point cheating on you








if i were you if the talking and stuff doesnt work and he keeps it up id seriously break up with him cuz i wish i would have done that with the girl that did this to me...... and try to find someone that is a faithful person and wants you and only you and that thinks your the only girl in his world and you should do the same with that guy