Girls, how would you feel if a girl said this to your boyfriend?

Well...back in October I stayed up at my boyfriends house and we all (us and his family) went to his cabin and had a bonfire and a little get together kind of thing where we all ride fourwheelers and shoot clays and just have fun...well a friend of the family brought his girlfriend who is 20. She wanted my boyfriend to give her a ride in his jeep around on the trails (my boyfriend is 15..) and he jokinly said ';ok but its going to cost you 10 dollars'; and she said ';what if I open my mouth?';...


I know he wouldnt do anything like that but ever since then she flirts with him all the time even when Im around. I just really cant stand her anymore and that whole thing at the cabin is the main reason why. I just cant stop thinking about that and want nothing more then for Bob (her boyfriend) to break up with her.


So I am just wondering...do I have the right to hate her and be really angry at her?


And how would you feel if a girl said that to your boyfriend? Shes 5 years older then he is...Girls, how would you feel if a girl said this to your boyfriend?
Well, if you trust him, then there's no reason to spend any more time thinking about her. Besides that, she's just being rude because it would be illegal for her to do anything with him. And, flirting is just flirting. You can tell her you don't like it, but odds are if she doesn't like you, she'll just end up doing it more.Girls, how would you feel if a girl said this to your boyfriend?
She sounds like a pedifile tramp...to be polite. I think you should not like her. Hate is a strong word. I would just feel bad for her if she is that gross. Just say to her that you would really appreciate it if she didnt talk to your boyfriend anymore. Dont worry about your boyfriend at all its not his fault. But yeah gross gross gross.
I think I would start to wonder and be jealous, too. I wouldn't hate her though, because that's being overly reactive. I would not be angry at her though because at least she didn't touch him, right? No physical actions, right? Just as long as your boyfriend doesn't have any feelings for her, then you are fine.
oh my gosh! i would be really mad and jealous probably too! you have a right not to like her because she has her own boyfriend and needs to leave yours alone! comfort her or your boyfriend about it and tell them that it bothers you that she does that. good luck!
I'd be mad yeah... but i'd trust that my bf wouldn't do anything... most likely, she just has a really dark sense of humor... if her bf %26amp; ur bf aren't worried about it.... then just chill... besides... if she doesn't anything.. its rape... =]
id be really pissed off!!!! dont stand for that hes your bf not hers. talk to him about it and tell him its upsetting you. maybe hell stay away from her...but if not then i would maybe break up with him.
Well, first off --- she is 20. In some states she would be considered a sexual predator if she crossed the line. She's old enough to be driving HERSELF.





If she is that blatant, chances are his family has noticed too. If it happens again, have HIM tell an adult. She should not be carrying on like this.





There are likely much bigger issues (with her past) that you would even be able to comprehend, much less be able to intervene.
i'd be angry with her for flirting with your man.


but i'd let it slide. it could cause problems for you and him because if you show that you're too jealous, he may feel like you don't trust him. it's crazy i know. but that's how guys are.
I don't blame you for hating her. I would too.


Say something to her boyfriend about what she did.
I wouldnt worry about it, talk is cheap at least that kind of talk.


If he told you , then he is innocent.


Just get over it and get along with the gal, dont hate anyone,


hate is of an evil nature, think positive and smile and get on with life. Dont let the evil devil mess wid your mind!
I would have told her that she could open her mouth and I would stick my foot in it. You do have a right to be mad, and really mad b/c she is still flirting with him. Tell Bob what she said, and has been doing. I mean, wouldn't you want to know if someone was doing that?????
if she is 5 years older she doesnt want him dont worry she is just a dirty S lut with a filthy mouth!





Tell your man that u dont like her because of that because you fell its was totaly out of line!





But realy u cant do anything about it unless you tell her ';he remember back in october at the cabbin when u said.......';





its like ';dude it happened months ago!!





NEXT TIME SPEAK UP WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS!!


Then you can resolve it asap instead of thinking about it for months





you cant realy say anything about it now it just sounds to petty
I think that sometimes older girls like to ';tease'; younger guys. Its fun. I don't understand why you would want her boyfriend to break up with her, wouldn't that simply put her out on the open market and your boyfriend at even more risk?





I don't know that you have the right to hate or be angry with her. She is a flirt, it appeals to his ego. I might feel a slight tinge of the green eyed monster but I think that you might be letting it get the best of you. Don't obsess about it and try to find a way not to spend time with her and Bob. If you trust your boyfriend and know he would never accept sexual favors from her, don't start brooding on it - it is bound to affect your relationship with your boyfriend, especially since he is only guilty of being a little cutie.
well it is normal to get angry and to hate her...cause honestly i would too..(and i would actually talk to her)..


you should let your boyfriend know first before getting all fired up...your boyfriend has the right to know too!
Dont react, this will only make her try much harder to leur him away from you. If you show that it does not bother you to her then she will in term leave. Or just tell your guy that she is bothering you.
Opening her mouth clearly could land her in jail, but it's 2008, alot of people don't seem to care :-(


But yes you do have a reason to hate her, I would have addressed it when it happened by telling her how innapropriate her comment was...
It seems like of she is doing it on front of you, she wants you to be angry, so yes i would be mad, and the first thing i would do is when she is flirting around him the next time, just walk up to him and give him a really nice kiss, then from then on, just totally ignore her, and talk to him as if she is not there, it will drive her crazy, and then she will stop!
Talk to her. Say that you are uncomfortable with her flirting. Say you'd hate to become enemies, but he IS your boyfriend, and you do have your boundaries.





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Love Doctor says: Ask him one question all the time '; I would never be with anyone else. How do you feel?'; If the girl keeps flirting just remind her that she's talking to your boyfriend. Your boyfriend might think you sound jealous, but he'll get the sign to stay away from her.
Omg, I'D BE SO TICKED OFF .
Scott Hall wants that chick!
maybe hang around her boyfirend


wat goes around comes around!
i understand what your saying and i would hate her too! but you have to be cool casue if you dont your boyfriend is going to think that your jealous and thats never good. just tell your dude that you did not like her comment that she made and that she makes you sick. hopefully your boyfriend will understand and everything will be okay. shes 5 years older than your boyfriend. chances are she wont ever do anything sexual with him and if she does then call the police. haha she will go to jail for doing anything sexual with a minor. best of luck to you
take a walk over to her boyfriend =] wink wink
I wouldn't like it one little bit. It would bug me more if your boyfriend didn't give her the brush off.


Try to stay cool for as long as you can. If she doesn't knock it off then you might have to go ask her why she keeps flirting with your b/f or maybe ask her b/f that question.
I would be angry. I would be sad also, you should've said something to her, and him not that it is his fault. He should've told her that he was in love with you though or something.
i would say talk to him about how you feel
Kick her ***? no one should be saying things like that to a person who is on a relatioship!
Go right ahead and be mad at her I would slap her if she said that to my bf.
OMG WERE YOU THERE WHEN THIS girl said this to your boyfriend? or was it told to you by him or someone after the fact? hell yes you have EVERY RIGHT TO FEEL angry at her (hate is kinda a strong word) but ANGRY yes!!! she needs to be confronted by you asap ..you need to let your boyfriend know you were upset by what she said.it was wrong! discusting! slimy *** burping gutter slut is what she is!! damn plus shes too old to be saying that to A 15 year old!! kick her ***
It's not realistic to react to something that you did not witness. First of all, it's not fair to the girl that you believe what your boyfriend said.





That's called ';here say'; and wouldn't stand up in a court of law.





What is fair is that you ask the girl if that's what she said. If she said it, then you ask in a mature tone, why would you say that to my boyfriend?





Everyone deserves to be judged fairly. You need to ';seek to understand'; first.





Seek to understand every situation that makes you angry. Then once you have clarified it, then your mind is clear to deal with the problem at hand. Let your intellect control you, not your emotions.