i have a wonderful boyfriend for two years and we are great but i used to work with a guy at my old work and someone brought it to my attention that i was flirting with him.....that really hurt me..I have never thought of him sexually but we did have a connection.... I mean its been awhile now and i still think about it....I know i need to stop dwelling on this...but im such a sensitive person and am extremely hard on myself...i told my boyfriend he was like get over it....but why cant i? i feel as tho my guilt will never end.... has anyone had this problem? if so how do you cope with it?Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
Some people just naturally flirt with people. Not because they want them or because they are sexually attracted to them but because they don't realize they do it. There is nothing wrong with looking just remember you can't touch.Is it wrong having feelings for another man except your boyfriend?
You can't go by the opinnons of others. Sometimes people's view on flirting is a lot different from your own. Just because your in a relationship with someone you love doesn't mean that you're not going to meet people whom you think are great people. It's fine to fancy people and think of them as good people. You can also have a relationship with people like that as far as consoling one another and hanging out. Just don't do anything you wouldn't want done to you.
I love a lot of people in my life. Friendship is a kind of love. But there's only one person I chose. If you know you're going to stay with yours, I would get over it. And you're not really having feelings for anyone else, it seems. I would suggest letting it go ASAP before you ruin a good relationship feeling guilty about something that didn't amount to much.
You can't help if you have feeling for anyone whether your in a relationship or not. But you were smart because it is what you do what those feelings and you didn't do anything wrong like cheat or anything like that so you shouldn't feel guilty. Just take your bf advice. You will be alright
its called friendship some people flirt alot together and not at all with others but nothing ever happens. dont feel guilty it normal to flirt every now and again just dont do it all the time with a bunch of guys.
yes had this problem, and until it runs its course ull prob obsess over it totally. U better hope ur bf doesnt read this lol :D
g/luck
Ack! Chill out. As long as you're a healthy girl, you're going to be attracted to guys. No guilt necessary. You can't change the past so just do better in the future.
I'm more concerned about this being hard on yourself deal. Imagine that you had a friend who was always waiting for you to mess up, and then followed you around for days afterward beating on you and yelling at you about it. You wouldn't be friends with this person for very long would you? So be easy on yourself. Don't be your own worst enemy.
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