Would you allow your boyfriend to give other girls massages?

i work with my boyfriend and this girl from work asked him to go to her house and give him a thirty minute massage for thirty dollars..i trust him but dont trust the girl. he gets hit on alot. and girls i work with even flirt with him in front of me. i dont want to be jealous or uncomfortable for nothing: just seeing how others would reactWould you allow your boyfriend to give other girls massages?
trust him and if he cheats on you then it wasn't meant to be, but i wouldnt let my bf give no girl a massage at her house unless it is his occupation and he does it at a massage parlor on a completly proffesional level, and i know how you feel my bf gets hit on a lot alsoWould you allow your boyfriend to give other girls massages?
First off Is he giving the massage, or is she? ';Would you allow your B-friend to give another girl a massage'; But in ur comment you say she asked him to go to her house so,she can give him a 30 min massage. Who's giving who? Not that it matters.





If you feel uncomfortable about it it should be done in your home. That way you're on the scene %26amp; if you feel somethings not right you can end it.





BTW if you don't trust each other there's no point to the relationship. I'm guessing you're both young. forgive me if I'm wrong, but from my experience you tend to be less trusting in your late teens early 20's.(been there)





I'm 44 %26amp; just got certified as a Massage therapist. There should be nothing sexual about a massage unless it's done between 2 adults looking to heighten their sexual oneness.





Hope that helps. Good Luck
You should tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him going over to her house to get massage. If he loves you, he wont go. But if he does, you should really re-think your relationships. Feels like you are intimidated by those girls and his good looks.





Plus, id have a nice talk with that girl, by not saying anything you let those girls walk all over you and disrespect you by flirting with him around you.





Your jealousy is a normal reaction in this specific occasion.
First of all girls r backstabbers and 2-faced bitches.





Girls manipulate and lie 2 get what they want. He might not want her but it sounds like she wants him. If she wants a massage that bad she wants a massage that bad she can go 2 ur house and he can give her one there. Who knows what she might try and do when they r alone. ur bf would most likely shut her down if he cares about u.





i wouldn't let him. and at massage places they offer a happy ending.... she may want that so no.
NO WAY! Not appropriate, unless his occupation is licensed masseuse? I think that sounds sketchy. Anytime I feel like I wonder if something is right or not I think how the other person would feel if the situation was flip-flopped- your boyfriend and his feelings that you are giving a very flirty man a massage for 30 bucks at his house?
i would not like that at all. and i would feel very uncomfortable having my boyfriend got to a girls house to give a massage. JUst remeber massages makes a girl feel very relaxed and sometimes horny so becareful
i myself wouldn't like it if my guy was giving another girl thirty minute massages. I would definitely suspect something especially if he's good looking. If i were you, i'd have a talk with him about this.
just tell him that you dont want him to do that. if he loves you he will understand. i get what you are saying. if he does, i just dont think thats right. tell him that ur the only girl hes allowed to give massages to lol.
If you trust him i bet he wont do anything bad, If you have been going out for 2 or more months your in the clear. But if this becomes a regular thing then i would start to get suspicious. And just ask him first.
no, i wouldn't.





boys are boys. they can do whatever they want without you knowing.





i've gone through that. i swear you shouldn't allow him to go there if you don't want something ';nasty'; will happen.
its his work, you cant stop him from doing it. if you trust him then you can let him do it without it leading to something sexual.
I don't think he should do that. He's involved with you, not another girl. (Do you two work at a massage place? That might change my answer a bit.)
I wish the hell i would let my boyfriend give another girl a massage..unless he is a massage therapist...but other than that hell to the no
If I were you, I wouldn't. Not unless you two get married and he gets a job as a professional masseuse.
DO NOT LET HIM SO THAT ***** WILL TRY TO TAKE HIM.
NO!!!... even tho you trust them that doesn't mean that it's ok to give them a massage. What are you thinking???
no dont allow him to go
that girl seems like trouble to me!