Girls, how do you deal with another girl flirting with your boyfriend?

So, my boyfriend's mom and I brought my boyfriend Easter dinner tonight (he had to work). While we were there, this girl came in who has obviously talked to my boyfriend many times because she said ';hey you'; or something like that. Then she started flirting (quite obviously, too, I might add) with him. ';Oh, I just came into see you';, blah blah blah. He smiled, of course, he's a very nice guy. Then he laughed at some stupid joke she made (his laugh sounded pretty genuine, though). Whatever, I just brushed it off until his mom brought it up a few minutes after the girl had left. She asked who she was, and commented that she was flirting with him. He disagreed, and said she was a girl he went to school with (5 years ago).Girls, how do you deal with another girl flirting with your boyfriend?
Whatever you do, DO NOT confront the other girl and make a huge deal out of it.





All you will do is cause an embarrassing scene, whether you feel it's embarrassing at the time or not, it is. It'll be construed as a cat fight, regardless of your intention. And that is just stupid.





You should talk to him and tell him how you feel.


Discuss what you want to happen from the talk you have with him.





This way you go to the person you care about in the situation and keep your dignity in tact as well.Girls, how do you deal with another girl flirting with your boyfriend?
im a guy and give your boyfriend a break most of us dont even realize were flirting until oine of out friends or someone else says something to us but like i told someone else it dont matter if 100 girls like him or if a million girls do he is still YOUR boyfriend
Timing is everything.....





The next time you are at his job and she is there, give it right back to her!!! In other words, you begin flirting with him too!! Make sure you are looking extra special!!!





She know that you are his girlfriend, so she could care less, and is probably waiting for you to go after her, but you should play her game, only better! because you are his girlfriend, not her..





Whenever a woman would do that in front of me with my husband, I give it right back. It embarrasses the heck out of him, but she hates it!! One time a few years ago, we were out at a party and the barmaid was flirting with my husband. She said to him while I was sitting there, '; you have the sexiest smile'; and I said yeah he sure does, because he is thinking about me and knows what he is going to get when we get home tonight, and I kissed him!! The barmaid was HOT!!! She rolled her eyes, and walked away from us!! My husband looked at me and said ';your bad'; and I said, I know, but its true!!





Other woman hate that!! Trust me! He will love you even more for it, because he will see you as the strong one!





You hold the prize, there is no need to start a confrontation with her, she is not worth it!!!





P.S. Also, let him know at home in a nice way, you are aware this girl flirts with him, but because you trust him, you have nothing to worry about! I emphasize the word TRUST!!
i use to care when women flirted with my husband.i would get crazy mad.and especially if he smiled at them.then i would go off on him.but now i dont get that way.i just try to be even better to him.because he would probly be more likely to not stray the better i am to him i think.but no matter what he probly wouldnt even be honest if he did think she was flirting,or even if he was flirting too.so why even push the issue about it.its pointless really,in my opinion.and also it shows him how insucure u r,nd it may turn him off.this is how i handle this stuff.
If somebody hit on my gf


I would Betch Slap them.
If you trust him do not worry. I think if you address it you will add fuel to an almost nothing. Let it pass.
You should take it as a compliment. Obviously he is a catch and you already have him, so you should not have any worries.
Just talk to your bf and let him know it makes you uncomfortable. He'll most likely stop flirting in front of you.


Don't act trashy or start a fight, thats immature.


Be understanding too, if you ran in to an old friend you would be friendly and not want to act rude just cause youre bf was around would you?





If you know he is a good guy and you trust him a little flirting is harmless.
tell your man how you feel...honesty always works...but say it in a nice way..i know he'll understand :D
OK, I totally know what you're going through. You want to make it clear to the girl that he's yours, but you don't want him thinking you're pushy and overprotective? Next time she does this, make sure to hold his hand, or kiss his cheek. Or if it's really bugging you, just say something like, ';Let's go, babe'; and holding his hand, walk away. Unless she's a total boy-snatcher, she should get the hint. Good luck!
As long as you trust your boyfriend, for get about it. Let them flirt...second place dont get no prize anyway so let her try and get at what she cant have, Also; dont let your guy know that bothered you so much; jealousy is really unattractive!
yeah, it can be really irritating. It's not like he did anything wrong though. If you thought he was cheating on you that would be different. If you're living together though it would be pretty hard and obvious if he were cheating so he's probably not. Women can be sneaky bitches. She's just playing a game, more than likely just to ';p'; you off. Don't let it show that it bothers you. Of course, there's nothing wrong with saying something to her if it happens again. Just don't sink to her level. Say something classy and clever.
talk to him


communication is key!


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tell the chick to back the eff up :]
I ignore it. I used to get uptight about it and pout until he reassured me, but that was tiring for him. Besides, I'm better than that. I find it amusing now (we're going on 7 years). If you fell for him, someone else out there is going to think he's pretty hot too. Tell him how you feel about it, but don't make it his fault. For the rest of your life there will be people outside your relationship that find your bf/husband attractive. You can't freak out every time someone pays them a compliment. You'll start to look super needy and insecure, neither of which is sexy or attractive. He picked you. That's all you need to remember to get over it.