How do i confront her about her flirting with my boyfriend?

A couple years ago, before we were dating, my boyfriend liked this girl (we'll call her Jane) and she also liked him back. Nothing happened and they stopped liking eachother; she got a boyfriend and my boyfriend asked me out (haha).


Now, Jane has been acting like a total tramp these past few months. She said she was ';planning on'; breaking up with her boyfriend but left him hanging and she says ';i dont know if we're together but who cares';. Shes been getting asked out by 17 and 18 year old guys and flirting like crazy with other girls boyfriends (as in ';ohmygosh can i have your number? and can i call you like, whenever?'; all this while the girlfriend is standing 2 feet away)... and recently, she's started on my boyfriend.


He gave her a poster of this random band (earlier he asked me if i wanted it but i said no) and she became all flirtatious (spelling, sorry) and touching his arm and saying ';oh youre the BEST!';. Shes been sliding up to sit right next to him while he's sitting with his arms around me. Today she was eating chips and basically shoved one into his mouth while giggling and he just looked at me with a ';WHAT THE HELL??'; expression on his face.


HOW DO I STOP HER!


Shes done so many more little things that just make me sooo angry because, well, hes MINE!


Do i confront her?


Or do i wait a bit and see if she lays off?


All my friends have noticed it and have mentioned, and i quote ';Wow Jane's really flirting with your boyfriend... what a skank!';


I need her to stop. Shes just driving me absolutely crazy and I can't stand her.


HELP ME PLEASE.





--EllzHow do i confront her about her flirting with my boyfriend?
Bulletproofness, @ age 14 he's not ';yours';; he's only on loan from his mother.





Don't do anything stupid that will get you suspended. If you touch her in any way that could be construed as threatening, she could call the police or have a restraining order out on you. I seriously doubt she's smart enough to do either, but sometimes we underestimate our adversaries.





Since you have such a large circle of friends, when she comes around you all leave en masse, but be polite about it. Keep doing this until she gets the message.





Maybe your boyfriend isn't the issue. From an adult's (not denigrating you, just pointing out I'm older %26amp; an outsider) POV, perhaps she wants to be part of your inner circle. Perhaps she wants to be you, but doesn't know how to pull it off. Look @ her closely. Does she have any friends besides these these older guys? How long do those ';relationships'; last? Not long I'm guessing.





You're providing fuel for the fire to the rest of the school. They're enjoying this cat fight %26amp; it's obvious they're egging you on. I seriously doubt your boyfriend will say anything because he's probably pleased by all the attention he's getting from you 2 girls, not to mention the words of admiration in the locker room. He's now a ';stud';in his friends' eyes.





It's time to reflect on this old saying %26amp; apply it to your situation: Keep your friends close %26amp; your enemies even closer.How do i confront her about her flirting with my boyfriend?
tell your boyfriend that he needs to set her straight in front of everyone and embarrass her skanky lil ***. If he doesn't not like it then he should stand up for u guys relationship and tell her to stop it then u beat her *** if she doesn't. Brake your friendship with her asap.
don't. tell him that if he wants her to stop he has to say so to her. sometimes guys, for some odd reason, think they can't stand up to a girl who's acting like this. As long as he isn't feeding into it, and as long as he isn't doing anything with her, his only issue is that he needs to open his mouth and say, stop. it's not your job. if anything, you would only say, hey, you're really not giving people the right impression when you act the way you've been acting recently. that would be a girl-to-girl convo.