Monday, August 9, 2010

How do you tell your boyfriend that he flirts with other girls a lot?

My boyfriend flirts with a lot of my friends right in front of me, i don't no how to tell him to stop it because it really makes me jealous. I'm not the type of person to just come out and say it. How can i tell him?How do you tell your boyfriend that he flirts with other girls a lot?
I hate it when my boyfriend speaks to other girls!


It's important to remember that even though you're going out with this guy, you don't own him and he is entitled to talk to anyone he wants. Having said that, when you're crazy about someone it is easy to feel insecure about the situation and easy to overact. Remind yourself that he's going out with you, not these other girls, and therefore you mean more to him than them. Don't blow your relationship by being too possessive, and even if you do continue to feel a little jealous, try to hide it. You're his GIRLFRIEND, not his BODYGUARD.


How do you tell your boyfriend that he flirts with other girls a lot?
I like the idea of doing the same thing infront of him. But that's kinda starting more trouble. If you don't want to make him mad I would tell him when you're alone and say that it really bothers you when he does it.





He's probably just doing it to see how you react and if you act like it doesn't bother you then maybe he'll settle down. But if he keeps it up then you should talk to him.





Honestly if he keeps it up I don't think he's worth it. Either way I don't think it's healthy to be jealous so you shouldn't let it bother you regardless. But he shouldn't be doing it anyway.
Well if i was you, i would smack him up the side of his head, and tell him to cut it out, but if thats not for you then when you are alone, just say ';I know my friends are cool, but sometimes I feel like you are flirting with them... and it bugs me...'; the only way you can fix it is to tell him the problem.
He may not realize he's doing it.





It can be a good thing to have a flirt. It'll make your galpals jealous that your guy is fun and a good flirt!





If you have a problem with it, just tell him.





But, I personally can't stop flirting and neither can my boyfriend. It creates a good sexual tension when others find your mate attractive. : )
Decide specifically what he is doing that you consider flirting, tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he does that.
well i sat that you flirt wit his friends back... see if he likes that.. if you dont do that then you should give him some hints then maybe he wil get it... wat i do is just tell him.. but in a kind way... try it out
Well then, beat around the bush and start flirting with his friends, then maybe he'll confront you about it and then tell him about his behavior.
You COULD flirst with his friends around him and bring up his flirtin when he says somethin...honestly thought that may mess things up alot.


Just talk to him about it. I mean he's your boyfriends u should be able to talk about things that bother you
go someplace with him to talk and let him know. if you want to be less confrontational then make a joke when he's doing it like, ';Hey,_____ stop flirting with my friend'; but make it sound joking
either flirt with his friends, giving him a taste of his own medicine for break up with him, you dont deserve that

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