Monday, August 9, 2010

How would you feel if there were females around you who flirt with your boyfriend?

I just recently got with this one dude and he's real nice and things are just great between the two of us but there are a lot of girls around who flirt the hell out of my boyfriend.When I ask him who they are he just laughs and says they are old friends from the passed years like 20 years ago. Well I hate these women for flirting with him so much and I don't know what to do.He loves flirting with me but there are some people who just insist on flirting with him and then they laugh in my face!How would you personally take this?I hate it! I am so sad and it is just overwhelming me and I don't know what to do?What do you think my boyfriend is thinking about this?Whatever!What should I do about this?I am just confused.What do you think?Should I even care about his personal affairs or not?Really?Goodbye!!How would you feel if there were females around you who flirt with your boyfriend?
They probably really are just old friends, and that's why he sees nothing wrong with it, but once it bothers you, you have a right to talk to him and tell him exactly what bothers you %26amp; why %26amp; ask him to do some things differently, (like not flirt).


They probably laugh in your face bcuz either they don't care OR bcuz they know that it's not going further than that so they see nothing wrong with it, either.


Is he around them much? Do any of them try to talk to you? Has he introduced you as his gf to them? These are things for you to think about %26amp; talk about.


This too shall pass.How would you feel if there were females around you who flirt with your boyfriend?
when they do this walk away from him i mean actually walk away and see if he follows if he dont he probley likes the attention and might adventually cheat on you. and then when you get bk with each other when u go home or w/e ask him why he stayed and let the girls flirt with him instead of going with you. and dont let him use the exscues he thought u where going to the bathroom and would be rite bk. and tell him that you dont like it and that he has to choose. is it a happy exspression or an oh god not agian exspression if its happy dump his *** he'll adventually cheat on u
Well if its seriously bothering you then you need to sit down and talk to him about it. That would upset me to, espcially if hes doing it right in front of me!. Hes not respecting you at all in my opinion. Not sure I would stick around /w him. Talk to him and if he doesnt stop then move on and find someone better :)


Good Luck
Perhaps try a different approach, my boyfriend used to make me fight with other girls for his attention and i found that as soon as i got over that (I finally figured that if he likes me as much as he says he does then he will put his attention on me not make me fight for it) I found out that he only did it as a way to get my attention and as soon as he didnt have that (cos i gave up fighting and was like whatever) he stopped flirting!
You hate it because you are jealous of the other girls. The girls who are doing the flirting and laughing in your face most likely sense your discomfortable with it which makes them do it all the more. You need to feel secure within yourself so it won't bother you if people flirt with your boyfriend. There will always be females who are flirting/after someone elses man.
Wait till I saw them on their own in the high street and have a girly chat with them about keeping their hands and lips off my fella if they wanted to keep their face on their shoulders and not up their butt.
Look first of all u need to talk to your guy and tell him that it really upsets u when he flirts especially in front of u. Make him feel the way ur feeling put him in the position your in he'll realize what your going through. But u must tell him either he'll see that its ok to do these things and it will just hurt u even more.

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