There has been a girl at his church who he is friends with (which I initially had no problem with,) but I became slightly concerned when she started visiting his house every weekend for hours (she said she was visiting his homestay international student whom she is friends with also). I let it go, but kept an eye on it.
My boyfriend came to me awhile ago, concerned, and told me that this girl had confessed that she ';loved'; him, and that she wants him to leave me for her. When I confronted her, via facebook (since I have never met her,) she declared that I ';couldn't stop their love!';. And the feelings were obviously not mutual, hence the reason my boyfriend let me give her my usual rant to the girls that like to flirt with him.
I told her to back off and mind her space, since i had been together with him for over two years. Eventually she said okay, and agreed to back off. I had said that possibly in the future, the two of them could become friends again. So apparently, two weeks later, she seems to think I'm totally over her little love confession, and has started posting things on my boyfriends wall like ';Oooooh i Loooooveeee your new hair cut! It looks so good! ;)';
Needless to say this makes me and my boyfriend quite uncomfortable!
HOW DO WE STOP HER????How do you stop a girl from persistently flirting with your boyfriend?
For one I would start with totally ignoring anything she does. If she posts on his facebook wall, just delete it. Have him tell her face to face that she needs to stop, and from that point on, just act like she doesn't exhist. I know that's harder than it sounds, but it may be the first step in getting rid of her.
She sounds like she has some issues, so it's a delicate situation. But that would be my first step, start to completely ignore her because it sounds like she is feeding off of your guys' reactions to everything.How do you stop a girl from persistently flirting with your boyfriend?
***** slap the hoe
Since you've never met her, hire an assasin to go to her house and give her a good beating. xD
be friendly and try telling her that u and ur bf are together and very happy make her JEALOUS!!!! don't be rude, we don't want people to have bad impression of ourselves right??? :) goodluck!
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