What do you do if one of your not so friends is flirting with your boyfriend?

Well there is tis girl is new her and she has been flirting with my bf behind my back. What should i do? She has been trying to be my friend. But she asked my bf if we were still going out and he said yes and she said WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-all mad like! Should i confront her and cuss her out an see how it goes or act like we are friends and see if she is two faced? HELP ME!!!!!!! please.What do you do if one of your not so friends is flirting with your boyfriend?
If you can't trust your man then you aren't in a real relationship.What do you do if one of your not so friends is flirting with your boyfriend?
I don't think you should comfront her.....right know she is jealous of you because you have something she don't have but be the bigger person and don't say anything and that will let her know that your not worried because your man not going no where...i know you feel like cursing her out but it will cause more problems with your relationship so leave it along and let her hate but if she does it in your face then you have to put your foot down because she disrespected you
You need to tell her that!!!! Believe me!!!! She is *****,and you should fight for things that belongs to you!!!!! Trust me!!!
Drop both of them and move on with your life. Its not worth wasting your time on these two jerks. You deserve someone better.
Tell her to stay away from your man.
leave it all to the guy.


if he likes you enough, he may flirt with her, but that's normal. iknow it's easier said than done, but just watch. if you confront her, you're only showing how insecure you are. this way you can see how insecure HE is. in the end it isnt worth the confrontation, too many problems erupt and you're stuck in the middle of the drama.
don know


pack her up n send her to china
Well hun, there was this girl I used to go too school with who always gave me ';Go to He-- looks, at school'; and I never understood why she would always look at me, like she could kill me, you know.. It was rather ';Creapy'; during JR.high school days.. However, years later, when I began dating my Oldest daughter's daddy, he come home one time and tells me, he's seen her at a party and she come out and asked him to go to bed with her!! Witch!!! And he tells me, that she was such a ';Scum-Bag'; he wouldn't do her with our best friend's ';You know what!!'; So, a couple of months come and go, and I see her at this ';pool hall'; everyone in town hung out at, right... Well, I had two girlfriends at the time, who were from the ';Westside'; of town, and new how to take care of their own, when it came to fighting, right.. Well they kept incouraging me to confront her about her hitting on my man, and so I did.. And all of a sudden she jumps up and so I punched her, before she could me, and I blacked her eye!!! And she was wearing a short dress, to a ';Pool Hall?'; Wierd!!! Anyway, the owner knew me, and he comes up to me, and tells me to leave that the police were on their way, right.... So, I try to find my two friends, and all of a sudden I look up and there, over beating the crap out of this ';HO'; I just got in a fight with... And I yelled at them all the way home, about how that was ';My fight'; not there's , that she's going to be so mad at me, now!!! And sure enough a year later, at a ';Mutual Friends'; house, I'm ';Plastered'; because it was New Year's EVE, right, and she show's up, and asks me to step outside, and my boyfriend comes too... well she got the ';Best of me, that night';!!! Only because I was too drunk to defend myself better!!The WITCH!!! Well, my then boyfriend takes me to the car, and the next day I find out I had a ';Black-eye';!!! Sucked, too, because had my two friends not got involved, none of that would have happened, because she was the type that new, I was hurt, by what she did, and our one fight would have been good enough, it was my friends that got her so mad, she looked for me, for one year!!! But, atleast it was over, and she got her ';Revenge';, on me... So, to make a long story short, hun... Be prepared to fight, shoud you confront her!! And I hope you know how too.. See, my father taught all of us kids how to fight at young ages, because our Grandpa, was a ';Boxing-Trainer'; so, we knew the in's %26amp; out's, and if you raise your temper to her and she back, then it will escalate, into a fight, trust me on this one!!! And that's when you'll need to make sure you aim high!! And between the eye's and with your thumb out!! I broke my thumb once, forgetting what Dad taught us all !!! Boy I learned from that fight, not to do that again!!HaHa!! Yes, I would definately confront her, just to let her know, ';He's spoken for, hun!!'; And that she'd better knock off her crap, or else!! And make sure you tell her, that your boyfreind dont want nothing to do with her!! That he thinks she's ';Scum!!'; And I would ever so gracefully walk away!!Because maybe she's not the fighting type , but if she sees that your standing up for your relationship, than she'll back way down, hun!! I promise you this!!! Good Luck, and dont let no woman do this behind your back without straightening them out on it!!! Smile!!!
As a woman I'd be pissed. But knowing your guy would respect you more to be the better woman. All you have to do is take her to lunch or dinner and BE NICE about it and tell her that you and your man are very close and you don't think it was cool of her to ask if he was still going out with you or ask why. Tell her he doesn't have to have a reason to be with you. He is and if she doesn't like that you are sorry. Tell her that you'd like to be friends (keep your enemies closer) if she can respect your feelings and know he is taken.
I f I were in that situation I would confront her. I would say ';who do you think you are to act like my friend to my face and go to my b/f behind my back and get upset when you find out we are dating..that is none of your business and I would appreciate if you wouldn't concern yourself with our matters and leave him alone or your face and my fist are going to become real good friends'; play it by ear after that and see if she keeps it up and make sure you b/f is cooperating w/ u and not talkin to her or else u have an innevitable situation on your hands..
If he is your boyfriend.Then the question is he flirting with her.And probably she is not a true friend.Let her know you don't appreciate how she acts around yor boyfriend.


Real friends don't steal boyfriends.
By the looks of your story she is two faced, confront her in a cival way and ask your BF to confront her with you it will be more serious to her when both of you confront her.
Confront her. She is not the kind that will like confrontation, since she is the ';go behind your back'; sort of person. She is not a friend, confront her and tell her to back off. You are stronger than this girl and she knows it. She thinks her strength is in secrets..contront her, bring it out in the open and it will take her so called power away. good luck.
Girl! All that girl is doing, is testing you. If you an dyour boyfriend have an open, and honest relationship, then don't worry about it. as long as he knows what is going on,and is having know part of it, let it go. Yeah, it's going to eat you up inside, becuase you want tosay something to her, but don't. All that is going to do is add more fuel to her fire. She wants you to confront her. That way she will know that you are worried about losing your boyfriend. That will give her a reason to make a move on what is yours. As far as her trying to be your friend. Let her know, in a polite way, that you are not intersted in being friends with her. Don't let her sweet talk you, or make you angry with anything she has to say. You and your boyfriend need to go on as if she weren't even there. She'll get the hint sooner or later, and move on. Just be patient.
you asked in previous questions about him talkin flirtin with other girls and now you are asking why a girl is flirting with him??? wow hard question to answer--one that helped me-I prayed even to be forgiven for one lie-Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen--- and it changed my life to not live slutty but with honor for my g/f and to wait till marriage for sex, sharing the bible together and having more fun than I ever had in my life..
dun bother her, as long ur bf luv you not her.. dun worry..
I say confront her. Be as civil as possible but you need to get to the bottom of this issue.
Yes confront her with a baseball bat and hit a home run.
I think you should leave it. As long as you can trust your man you have nothing to worry about. You have something she wants - she is just jealous